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"The word "love"..."

Love is just too complex to explain in words. Real love is wonderful, it's an emotion we all take for granted. Now, it's been said on here before that's it's over-used, and they were right. People can say that they love a nice cup of tea, but it doesn't make it true.

Back in October, my course did T.I.E and toured and performed to several secondary schools. We went to each school by minibus, and it was on one journey where I had a slight disagreement with the girl I like. I apologised, and she forgave me. I asked light-heartedly, "Do you still love me?". She replied with, "Love's a strong word, Hibernator". I thought about this, and now I stop over-using the word.

Meanwhile, over this last three weeks, the same girl has said she loves me two or three times. I'm not used to hearing the word directed at me apart from my mother or sister etc; and it honestly feels quite weird. While I don't take it to heart and think that it means something, it's made me question. I asked my friend Lucy yesterday if she loves her boyfriend, she said she didn't know, I comforted her with the "love's a strong word" malarchy. Then I told her I love her, and again felt awkward. I shouldn't, as it's just a word, but I do.

The point in this rant: You can say you love someone, and you can say someone is lovely... but they are two very different things.

Jim of Honor wrote:
> Celestine wrote:
> And, I am cute. *confetti*
>
> Would you say that you come across as an 'ass', though?
>
> Because it seems to me as though you do, having just read through
> this thread.

Not as much of one as a particular few, Icarus especially. And, if you just read this thread alone, then unfortunately you're ill informed of the facets to my demeanor. But, thank you for your comment anyways.

I love you guys. :)

Will you 2 ever stop bickering?

mad man 4 wrote:
> DEATH IS THE BEGINING MY FRIEND AND LOVE IS THE
> END.HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.LOL


thats not funny.

Yes, Icarus..stop following me around the forums with you're petty bickering. I told you to let it go, but you persist on some vendetta. If you don't like me, leave me be. The "ignor" is there for a reason.

But, I think you're aroused by me and my guy, for some stalker reason.. It's just an observation.

Oh dear... just sounding a tad desperate now, Daphne. And all because I was poking fun of Grix in a thread. OH NO HO

I made a constructive, truthful post about you in this thread. The bickering started when you turned it to your predictable, "If all else fails, go mad with the bitchin'" technique. That, my love, is a true glimpse of your real character.

lcarus wrote:
> Oh dear... just sounding a tad desperate now, Daphne. And all because
> I was poking fun of Grix in a thread. OH NO HO

Can anyone else feel the lack of love in this room?

lcarus wrote:
> Oh dear... just sounding a tad desperate now, Daphne. And all because
> I was poking fun of Grix in a thread. OH NO HO
>
> I made a constructive, truthful post about you in this thread. The
> bickering started when you turned it to your predictable, "If
> all else fails, go mad with the bitchin'" technique. That, my
> love, is a true glimpse of your real character.

I might actually consider your blatent blasphemous slander constructive or having the slightest iota of truth, if you exhibited any quality character to begin with. But, you really don't.

Noo..YOU, Icky, must syphon off of people like Grix and follow others around with your bobblehead.. "Yeah, yeah! Take that Celestine!"

Now that is truth. Because you quite obviously are too immature and can't handle the raw truth or anyone having an opinion opposed to your own for that matter. You keep harrassing me trying to degrade me for gawd..I don't even remember. However, like everyone elses petty biatching, it matters to me..really it does.

I've told you to leave me be, yet you persist. I don't know what it's going to take for you to just get over Grix and I moaning at you..what, a whole month ago? It seems you're taking your aggression out on me, because you perceive me to be weak or something.. and that makes you even more dispicable.

Stop stalking me, Icarus.

Rai wrote:
> Can anyone else feel the lack of love in this room?

Agreed.
Light, Icarus, Celestine... out! All of you!
Sure the topic was gay but that's the way we like it! :-P

Heh, I'm sure there's love in the room, just falsified in Celeste's case.

Celestine wrote:
I don't know what
> it's going to take for you to just get over Grix and I moaning at
> you..what, a whole month ago? It seems you're taking your aggression
> out on me, because you perceive me to be weak or something.. and that
> makes you even more dispicable.

It *was* orignally Grix and myself disagreeing on something. You know that, and anyone who reads that thread will know it. It's what we do in a discussion forum. As for taking it out on just you, well... why would I pick on Grix when he never made derogatory comments? No love, that was just you.

> Stop stalking me, Icarus.

lcarus wrote:
>Stuff trying to vindicate himself from his apparent immaturity.



What I know to be true is that once again, Icarus, you're trying so direly to thwart the responsibility of your irrational behaviour, by trying to degrade me. I wish everyone would go read that thread. Then they'd know that you were quite condescending of Grix for having an opinion opposed to your own about Kentucky Fried Chicken, of all petty things. I was merely making note of your demeanor in that thread, when you became nasty and attacking. I defended myself and, since then, I've been your target.

Regardless of my attempts to get you to let up, you’ve still persisted in trying to make some example of me. If backing up my guy is so wrong, then let me be the example for all to behold!!! I'll stand here proudly in that regard.

That’s love. And everytime I say it, it’s genuinely from my heart. There isn’t anything complicated or superficial about it. I love you my friend, but not your behaviour.

I have not wavered from my original position with you in that KFC thread. To this day, I'm still telling you your behaviour is less than admirable. I’m still telling you to check it. I’m still telling you to lighten up and take circumstances of that nature at surface value. You have your opinions and so do I. So does Grix. So does everyone else. Just because someone disagree’s with you, you don’t go around slandering them. Again, life would be so much more enjoyable if you didn't harbor such resentment, Icarus.

But no..you just follow me around these forums inciting every instance possible to condemn me where someone might have the slightest opposing views to my own, throw in some derogatory comment of your confused belief of my character and take up arms when I try to defend myself.

That is immature.

This is really all I have to say to you. If you come back with anything else other than having eaten some humble pie, then I'll know that you don't want to put forth any effort at a peaceful existence here on these forums and I beg you to leave me alone.