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"I hate my family"

I seriously hate my family so so much. Granted they give me a roof over my head and feed me but I am a scapegoat for anything that goes wrong, despite the fact I say and do as little as possible towards them to avoid any kind of conflict. I will go days on end without talking to them and try and go unnoticed but they will find some reason to yell at me or to blame me for something I havent done. My dad has tried to throw me out of the house on several occasions and my mum has done nothing but back him up. I do nothing to them at all, I only see them when I have to (ie. meal times and when I am going out/getting in) I don't do anything bad or nasty and dont even speak to them unless I have to. I don't know what I have done to make them hate me but I cannot think of anything. I have been told I was an accident and that they wished they hadn't had me, despite the fact my younger sister is a little angel who is a symbol of uttermost perfection. I am in a predicament, I don't know if I should run away or something but I don't think I can take the crap they keep throwing at me.

Any advice, please?

MoJoJoJo wrote:
> Get a job, move out, enjoy your life. Don't waste your time worrying
> about education and degrees and grades. They're next to worthless.

next to worthless huh? does that mean YOU don't have an education? because if you did you wouldn't call it worthless. i find that very assumption worthless and would be interested to know your educational background and current job.

the only reason I say he'll regret it is when he has a job eventually, he doesn't want to have his career hindered by missing grades, or be prevented from advancing due to the same.

"im 12 and im under acheiving alot because of messing about but i want to get into uni and do well instead of bieng a hobo like mojojo who will spend his life saying big issue big issue all his life do well be rich buy a playboy mansion"

Excuse me? OK, number one, I ain't no hobo, nor will I ever be. Number two, if I get my way, one day I'll be a famous writer/director and will have more zeros in my bank account than there are radgies in Newcastle. And I don't mean as in one big zero.

Number three, if all that fails I can keep my job with the Inland Revenue which I'll be getting next year. They're always hiring, and since I've been there before (and got perfect reports each time) I'm sure they'd have me back. You can make a great career out of that. If all THAT fails, I'll be joining the police. Simple. Nothing is hopeless in life, even with no grades, you can join the army or something. You're more likely to get a job which doesn't need fancy degrees than finding one which suits your course perfectly.

Number four, you're 12 years old. I didn't think it was possible to underachieve at that age...

If you wrote this post because your parents have just ticked you off then that is understandable. I know a friend who doesn't seem to get on well with his parents. He eats his tea, does his homework and then plays games on his own in his room. My parents are very nice to me but i know how hard parents can be. Always remember this. Parents are never perfect. You can't help it but some parents are so greedy they look at their kids and think of the bmw they could of had that wouldn't cause trouble or annoy them. If it gets outrageous get emancipated. Or if you can stick em stay till you are 18 then only turn up for their funerals.

caring mongoose wrote:
> im 12 and im under acheiving alot because of messing about but i want
> to get into uni and do well instead of bieng a hobo like mojojo who
> will spend his life saying big issue big issue all his life do well be
> rich buy a playboy mansion

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Somehow I don't think he will.

Like a typical 12-year-old, you know naff all.

And you can't really be seriously under-achieving at 12. If you're under-achieving at 15 or 16 then maybe you should be concerned, but not at 12.

Here's a statement i don't really want my mate to read and don't really know why it matters

My dad beat me until my mother left him when i was 13, thats why i hate my dad although the past 2 years he is really trying to make up for it and i really respect that. One day Kyz22, your parents will probaly look back and realise how wrong they were and will hopefully try and make up for it.

.:: DW ::. wrote:
> After reading all your troubles I probably respect my parents that
> little bit more.

ditto

im 12 and im under acheiving alot because of messing about but i want to get into uni and do well instead of bieng a hobo like mojojo who will spend his life saying big issue big issue all his life do well be rich buy a playboy mansion

kill kill kill them all stab yourself and use glove so it looks as though someone else did it and left you for dead

Never had any problems with my parents.

Not that that helps you at all...

After reading all your troubles I probably respect my parents that little bit more.