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"The word "love"..."

Love is just too complex to explain in words. Real love is wonderful, it's an emotion we all take for granted. Now, it's been said on here before that's it's over-used, and they were right. People can say that they love a nice cup of tea, but it doesn't make it true.

Back in October, my course did T.I.E and toured and performed to several secondary schools. We went to each school by minibus, and it was on one journey where I had a slight disagreement with the girl I like. I apologised, and she forgave me. I asked light-heartedly, "Do you still love me?". She replied with, "Love's a strong word, Hibernator". I thought about this, and now I stop over-using the word.

Meanwhile, over this last three weeks, the same girl has said she loves me two or three times. I'm not used to hearing the word directed at me apart from my mother or sister etc; and it honestly feels quite weird. While I don't take it to heart and think that it means something, it's made me question. I asked my friend Lucy yesterday if she loves her boyfriend, she said she didn't know, I comforted her with the "love's a strong word" malarchy. Then I told her I love her, and again felt awkward. I shouldn't, as it's just a word, but I do.

The point in this rant: You can say you love someone, and you can say someone is lovely... but they are two very different things.

It;s quite ironic that in a topic about the subject of love, someone is told to kill themselves, told that they are worthless and that they would actually tell their child that their mother was worthless. Lovely.

I haven't seen anything which suggests that Celestine deserved that. But then again, to be popular on this forum these days, or even accepted, it is required that you must either lick clean the regulars' shiny butts, or possess the ultimate level of cynicism.

God forbid anyone should have a reasonably positive outlook on life! Quick, slice off her hands, break her legs and bore her tongue before it spreads!

You could be, it could be the "Dog with a bone" syndrome that is turning some posters into trolls. Really whatever you accuse Celestine of i know who's been more offensive.

Celestine wrote:
> What did I do really..?

Well, to be honest to me it looks as if you deliberately set out to antagonise someone, and got the results you were looking for.

*Shrug*

Nowt to do with me, just my opinion. Could be totally wrong.

He doesn't go on at you because you 'cuss' (ahaha) with him, this is the reason he goes on:

'Perhaps I should go into the Corinthians..because it's easier to love than to hate, if you don't already have an inbourne evil heart. Hate is an exhibit of insecurity, immaturity, or unrest within oneself. You can't love anyone, really, if you don't love yourself.'

I think you should really add in a couple of 'in my opinion's, or 'I think's.
You make the forum worth coming to Celest, not always in a good way.

I love you.
But you're green.

[S]I wonder how many times I shall say that this eve

Pandaemonium wrote:
> Padraic wrote:
> Ye olde 13th of Mai will be henceforth known as the day Light
> crossed
> ye olde line.
> Ugly to the bone indeed.
> Let us not resort to insulting of people's attractiveness, but
> rather
> of each other's religion and the colour of their skin.
>
> To be honest, she got what she wanted. Winding him up.
>
> Celests manner and "you can't love, you have intenal
> issues" could have come straight from the mouth of my ex. She
> was one of the most hateful and bitter people I have even known.
> *Shrug* It would have sent me into a teeth spitting rage.

What did I do really..?

I told the dork I loved him and waved..and he became a stupid ass. Some people just need to lighten up. Not everyone hones in on the word "Love" as something so unbearable to feel for your fellow man whether he's a stranger or not.

You treat other's the way you want to be treated and I was being playful with Light. He can't be playful because he's too busy trying being mean and hating Kevstar. He can be a dork to me and attack me all the time with his mean and hurtful words however much it makes him feel like he's more of a man for doing it..but, it doesn't make my life any less happy. It just makes him look more evil.

It's obvious he doesn't want to have peace, that he'd prefer to be wicked and cruel to me because I'm actually defending myself. I think he'd prefer the submissive sort of character that didn't get in his face to show him how much of an ass he truly is.

It's no wonder he didn't make Notable. I endorsed him, regardless of his initial cruelty toward me (of which he had apologised to, by the way), because I know he makes a difference around here and his spats with Kevstar are somewhat entertaining. But, there's a fine line when it comes to civility and he crossed over to being barbaric and filth in my opinion today.

I guess I did get what I wanted..a clear perspective of the man.

Padraic wrote:
> You might have to stick with 'em if they send you into a
> teeth-spitting rage, you might be too unsightly to find another.

Ahahahaha. No, sorry. She was out of my life three years ago. There's only so much emotional blackmail I can take...

And No-one, but no-one should remain in a relationship like that...

You might have to stick with 'em if they send you into a teeth-spitting rage, you might be too unsightly to find another.

Padraic wrote:
> Ye olde 13th of Mai will be henceforth known as the day Light crossed
> ye olde line.
> Ugly to the bone indeed.
> Let us not resort to insulting of people's attractiveness, but rather
> of each other's religion and the colour of their skin.

To be honest, she got what she wanted. Winding him up.

Celests manner and "you can't love, you have intenal issues" could have come straight from the mouth of my ex. She was one of the most hateful and bitter people I have even known. *Shrug* It would have sent me into a teeth spitting rage.

Me neither I knew everybody wanted me to die from the beggining.

A word is only as sdtrong as the person who takes it intends to be.



Some people love hearing "I love you." Just because it comforts them.

I however never needed reassurance.