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I've just found out something I really didn't want to. Just a minute ago I was downstairs by myself watching All New Cosmetic Surgery while my parents were sleeping, then my dad's mobile rang and I ignored it, then it made a beeping sound because the person phoning had just left a voice mail message.

So I got up to see who was ringing because it is quite late and people don't normally phone at this time, I listened to the voice mail message and it was a lady saying something like "Im fed up with this, you said Sandra and you were finished and you lied, it's over blah blah blah".

(Something like that, im not gonna type the whole thing)

Anyway, this woman was NOT my mum, I know that for sure. And it's not like my dad has someone elses phone, it's his, hes had it for ages.

Now, if a lady leaves a voice mail on my dad's phone, speaks as if their having a relationship and that woman isn't my mum, shouldn't I be worried?

I remember something similar to this happening quite a while ago when I was quite young, I was just browsing around on my dad's phone and found a text message from some woman who had obviously been having a relationship with him, but I didn't do anything, cause I was young...and scared that my parents would split up or something.

But now, it's the second time and I don't think im gonna easily forgive and forget. Im still quite shocked that my dad could do this but im also pretty p*ssed off because my mum does so much for us and my dad, and to think that while my mum washes our clothes, irons etc etc my dad is out there somewhere getting it off with some other biatch.

There is no way I can just let this past me, and im terrible at keeping secrets so i've got to let this out someway. So, I want to know what you think I should do? I knwo the woman on the phone said "it's over" but that isn't the point, who is this 'Sandra' biatch? I'd be really p*ssed off if I find out my dad had more than one person he's cheating on.

Should I tell my mum, get her all upset and risk my parents splitting up? Or should I keep quiet and live my life knowing my dad is bonking some other woman behind my mum's back?

Personally I don't think my mum deserves that, but if I do tell her I don't want my dad to know it was me who found out, I'll have to get my mum to listen to it on his mobile and pretend she was the first to hear it.

Has anyone else been in this situation before, and whats it like when your parents split up?

Help? :'(

Man, you must be under a lot of stress. I gathered that from the accidental multi-posting. Just don't rush into it. Think about how you're going to say it.

but surely from the sounds of it "Sandra" should be your mum not some other woman.

There's a lot of confusion spreading. Is Sandra your mum's name or not?

Sandra isn't my mum. I cant tell anyone right now cause I need money off of them both to go out today so i'll probably tell someone tonight. Im glad I didn't find anything else on his phone, I think he does delete his messages but he couldnt delete this one because I heard it first.

I reckon you should stay out late, and then get a long night's sleep with a lie-in. When you wake up, do what your heart says.

Check his phone again when sleeping. What about that elaine women.

Cweek wrote:
> I reckon you should stay out late, and then get a long night's sleep
> with a lie-in. When you wake up, do what your heart says.

and whilst your at it get roaring drunk

I dont know any of these women, because 'Elaine' has a foriegn accent it's hard to hear everything she says.

Displayed wrote:
> Cweek wrote:
> I reckon you should stay out late, and then get a long night's sleep
> with a lie-in. When you wake up, do what your heart says.
>
> and whilst your at it get roaring drunk

He might tell someone under the influence of alcohol. Then they'll be so mad that you got drunk that they'll forget what you say! Displayed, you're a genius!

You could always ask for more money or Blackmail your dad but not recommended