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I've just found out something I really didn't want to. Just a minute ago I was downstairs by myself watching All New Cosmetic Surgery while my parents were sleeping, then my dad's mobile rang and I ignored it, then it made a beeping sound because the person phoning had just left a voice mail message.
So I got up to see who was ringing because it is quite late and people don't normally phone at this time, I listened to the voice mail message and it was a lady saying something like "Im fed up with this, you said Sandra and you were finished and you lied, it's over blah blah blah".
(Something like that, im not gonna type the whole thing)
Anyway, this woman was NOT my mum, I know that for sure. And it's not like my dad has someone elses phone, it's his, hes had it for ages.
Now, if a lady leaves a voice mail on my dad's phone, speaks as if their having a relationship and that woman isn't my mum, shouldn't I be worried?
I remember something similar to this happening quite a while ago when I was quite young, I was just browsing around on my dad's phone and found a text message from some woman who had obviously been having a relationship with him, but I didn't do anything, cause I was young...and scared that my parents would split up or something.
But now, it's the second time and I don't think im gonna easily forgive and forget. Im still quite shocked that my dad could do this but im also pretty p*ssed off because my mum does so much for us and my dad, and to think that while my mum washes our clothes, irons etc etc my dad is out there somewhere getting it off with some other biatch.
There is no way I can just let this past me, and im terrible at keeping secrets so i've got to let this out someway. So, I want to know what you think I should do? I knwo the woman on the phone said "it's over" but that isn't the point, who is this 'Sandra' biatch? I'd be really p*ssed off if I find out my dad had more than one person he's cheating on.
Should I tell my mum, get her all upset and risk my parents splitting up? Or should I keep quiet and live my life knowing my dad is bonking some other woman behind my mum's back?
Personally I don't think my mum deserves that, but if I do tell her I don't want my dad to know it was me who found out, I'll have to get my mum to listen to it on his mobile and pretend she was the first to hear it.
Has anyone else been in this situation before, and whats it like when your parents split up?
Help? :'(
So I got up to see who was ringing because it is quite late and people don't normally phone at this time, I listened to the voice mail message and it was a lady saying something like "Im fed up with this, you said Sandra and you were finished and you lied, it's over blah blah blah".
(Something like that, im not gonna type the whole thing)
Anyway, this woman was NOT my mum, I know that for sure. And it's not like my dad has someone elses phone, it's his, hes had it for ages.
Now, if a lady leaves a voice mail on my dad's phone, speaks as if their having a relationship and that woman isn't my mum, shouldn't I be worried?
I remember something similar to this happening quite a while ago when I was quite young, I was just browsing around on my dad's phone and found a text message from some woman who had obviously been having a relationship with him, but I didn't do anything, cause I was young...and scared that my parents would split up or something.
But now, it's the second time and I don't think im gonna easily forgive and forget. Im still quite shocked that my dad could do this but im also pretty p*ssed off because my mum does so much for us and my dad, and to think that while my mum washes our clothes, irons etc etc my dad is out there somewhere getting it off with some other biatch.
There is no way I can just let this past me, and im terrible at keeping secrets so i've got to let this out someway. So, I want to know what you think I should do? I knwo the woman on the phone said "it's over" but that isn't the point, who is this 'Sandra' biatch? I'd be really p*ssed off if I find out my dad had more than one person he's cheating on.
Should I tell my mum, get her all upset and risk my parents splitting up? Or should I keep quiet and live my life knowing my dad is bonking some other woman behind my mum's back?
Personally I don't think my mum deserves that, but if I do tell her I don't want my dad to know it was me who found out, I'll have to get my mum to listen to it on his mobile and pretend she was the first to hear it.
Has anyone else been in this situation before, and whats it like when your parents split up?
Help? :'(
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I've just found out something I really didn't want to. Just a minute ago I was downstairs by myself watching All New Cosmetic Surgery while my parents were sleeping, then my dad's mobile rang and I ignored it, then it made a beeping sound because the person phoning had just left a voice mail message.
So I got up to see who was ringing because it is quite late and people don't normally phone at this time, I listened to the voice mail message and it was a lady saying something like "Im fed up with this, you said Sandra and you were finished and you lied, it's over blah blah blah".
(Something like that, im not gonna type the whole thing)
Anyway, this woman was NOT my mum, I know that for sure. And it's not like my dad has someone elses phone, it's his, hes had it for ages.
Now, if a lady leaves a voice mail on my dad's phone, speaks as if their having a relationship and that woman isn't my mum, shouldn't I be worried?
I remember something similar to this happening quite a while ago when I was quite young, I was just browsing around on my dad's phone and found a text message from some woman who had obviously been having a relationship with him, but I didn't do anything, cause I was young...and scared that my parents would split up or something.
But now, it's the second time and I don't think im gonna easily forgive and forget. Im still quite shocked that my dad could do this but im also pretty p*ssed off because my mum does so much for us and my dad, and to think that while my mum washes our clothes, irons etc etc my dad is out there somewhere getting it off with some other biatch.
There is no way I can just let this past me, and im terrible at keeping secrets so i've got to let this out someway. So, I want to know what you think I should do? I knwo the woman on the phone said "it's over" but that isn't the point, who is this 'Sandra' biatch? I'd be really p*ssed off if I find out my dad had more than one person he's cheating on.
Should I tell my mum, get her all upset and risk my parents splitting up? Or should I keep quiet and live my life knowing my dad is bonking some other woman behind my mum's back?
Personally I don't think my mum deserves that, but if I do tell her I don't want my dad to know it was me who found out, I'll have to get my mum to listen to it on his mobile and pretend she was the first to hear it.
Has anyone else been in this situation before, and whats it like when your parents split up?
Help? :'(
So I got up to see who was ringing because it is quite late and people don't normally phone at this time, I listened to the voice mail message and it was a lady saying something like "Im fed up with this, you said Sandra and you were finished and you lied, it's over blah blah blah".
(Something like that, im not gonna type the whole thing)
Anyway, this woman was NOT my mum, I know that for sure. And it's not like my dad has someone elses phone, it's his, hes had it for ages.
Now, if a lady leaves a voice mail on my dad's phone, speaks as if their having a relationship and that woman isn't my mum, shouldn't I be worried?
I remember something similar to this happening quite a while ago when I was quite young, I was just browsing around on my dad's phone and found a text message from some woman who had obviously been having a relationship with him, but I didn't do anything, cause I was young...and scared that my parents would split up or something.
But now, it's the second time and I don't think im gonna easily forgive and forget. Im still quite shocked that my dad could do this but im also pretty p*ssed off because my mum does so much for us and my dad, and to think that while my mum washes our clothes, irons etc etc my dad is out there somewhere getting it off with some other biatch.
There is no way I can just let this past me, and im terrible at keeping secrets so i've got to let this out someway. So, I want to know what you think I should do? I knwo the woman on the phone said "it's over" but that isn't the point, who is this 'Sandra' biatch? I'd be really p*ssed off if I find out my dad had more than one person he's cheating on.
Should I tell my mum, get her all upset and risk my parents splitting up? Or should I keep quiet and live my life knowing my dad is bonking some other woman behind my mum's back?
Personally I don't think my mum deserves that, but if I do tell her I don't want my dad to know it was me who found out, I'll have to get my mum to listen to it on his mobile and pretend she was the first to hear it.
Has anyone else been in this situation before, and whats it like when your parents split up?
Help? :'(
How do you know your parents aren't swingers?
stfu
He's got a point. Swingers are reeeaaalll.
This all screams teen angst anyway. Think to yourself - what would Dawson do?
This all screams teen angst anyway. Think to yourself - what would Dawson do?
*huff*
I dont think i'll be able to sleep tonight. I want to tell someone, but everyone is asleep.
My 3rd option is to not tell my mum but tell my dad that I know and if he doesn't pre-order all 3 next gen consoles for me from Amazon i'll tell mum.
But thats just harsh on my mum...
Argh, I dont want to cause them to split up.
I dont think i'll be able to sleep tonight. I want to tell someone, but everyone is asleep.
My 3rd option is to not tell my mum but tell my dad that I know and if he doesn't pre-order all 3 next gen consoles for me from Amazon i'll tell mum.
But thats just harsh on my mum...
Argh, I dont want to cause them to split up.
If he is having other relationships is it harming your family life in any way? Even if he has had the phone for ages how do you know the person didn't ring a wrong number. How do you know that your mother doesn't already know that your father is involved with another woman (whether he is or not)?
Don't get involved but if you really want answers then ask your father who she is and don't involve your mother at the point.
Don't get involved but if you really want answers then ask your father who she is and don't involve your mother at the point.
That could well be with Dawson might do.
She could've gotten the wrong number. Don't worry [heh..] too much just yet, even though you'll probably be thinking about it 'til 4am or something. ;)
Approach one of them in the morning and just ask. That'll be hard, I bet. You could ask your dad first, maybe. Something like, "I'm sorry, dad.. But I listened to a voice message of yours and.. well.." etcetc.. Just apologise, it makes things look better.
But I can't really offer anything here as it's never happened. It's just something I would do. My way of finding out was waking up at about 11pm one night to come downstairs to my mum crying, freaking out and swearing a lot. So, y'know. And I still remember how The X Files was on in the background with Nazis.. Weirdo.
Approach one of them in the morning and just ask. That'll be hard, I bet. You could ask your dad first, maybe. Something like, "I'm sorry, dad.. But I listened to a voice message of yours and.. well.." etcetc.. Just apologise, it makes things look better.
But I can't really offer anything here as it's never happened. It's just something I would do. My way of finding out was waking up at about 11pm one night to come downstairs to my mum crying, freaking out and swearing a lot. So, y'know. And I still remember how The X Files was on in the background with Nazis.. Weirdo.
The woman on the phone could be your *real* mother, depending on how long your Dad's affair has been going on. :P
Seriously though, save the message and confront your Dad with it wanting the truth. If it is over and it sounds like it is, maybe it's best your Mum doesn't ever know if your Dad's seen what's best and ended it.
He's a dirty cheating shlag though, so try and at least get an iPod out of him for it.
Seriously though, save the message and confront your Dad with it wanting the truth. If it is over and it sounds like it is, maybe it's best your Mum doesn't ever know if your Dad's seen what's best and ended it.
He's a dirty cheating shlag though, so try and at least get an iPod out of him for it.
Tphi wrote:
> The woman on the phone could be your *real* mother, depending on how
> long your Dad's affair has been going on. :P
>
> Seriously though
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Heheheh. Excellent
Yeah, play for the iPod, Dawson.
> The woman on the phone could be your *real* mother, depending on how
> long your Dad's affair has been going on. :P
>
> Seriously though
--
Heheheh. Excellent
Yeah, play for the iPod, Dawson.
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