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I've just found out something I really didn't want to. Just a minute ago I was downstairs by myself watching All New Cosmetic Surgery while my parents were sleeping, then my dad's mobile rang and I ignored it, then it made a beeping sound because the person phoning had just left a voice mail message.
So I got up to see who was ringing because it is quite late and people don't normally phone at this time, I listened to the voice mail message and it was a lady saying something like "Im fed up with this, you said Sandra and you were finished and you lied, it's over blah blah blah".
(Something like that, im not gonna type the whole thing)
Anyway, this woman was NOT my mum, I know that for sure. And it's not like my dad has someone elses phone, it's his, hes had it for ages.
Now, if a lady leaves a voice mail on my dad's phone, speaks as if their having a relationship and that woman isn't my mum, shouldn't I be worried?
I remember something similar to this happening quite a while ago when I was quite young, I was just browsing around on my dad's phone and found a text message from some woman who had obviously been having a relationship with him, but I didn't do anything, cause I was young...and scared that my parents would split up or something.
But now, it's the second time and I don't think im gonna easily forgive and forget. Im still quite shocked that my dad could do this but im also pretty p*ssed off because my mum does so much for us and my dad, and to think that while my mum washes our clothes, irons etc etc my dad is out there somewhere getting it off with some other biatch.
There is no way I can just let this past me, and im terrible at keeping secrets so i've got to let this out someway. So, I want to know what you think I should do? I knwo the woman on the phone said "it's over" but that isn't the point, who is this 'Sandra' biatch? I'd be really p*ssed off if I find out my dad had more than one person he's cheating on.
Should I tell my mum, get her all upset and risk my parents splitting up? Or should I keep quiet and live my life knowing my dad is bonking some other woman behind my mum's back?
Personally I don't think my mum deserves that, but if I do tell her I don't want my dad to know it was me who found out, I'll have to get my mum to listen to it on his mobile and pretend she was the first to hear it.
Has anyone else been in this situation before, and whats it like when your parents split up?
Help? :'(
So I got up to see who was ringing because it is quite late and people don't normally phone at this time, I listened to the voice mail message and it was a lady saying something like "Im fed up with this, you said Sandra and you were finished and you lied, it's over blah blah blah".
(Something like that, im not gonna type the whole thing)
Anyway, this woman was NOT my mum, I know that for sure. And it's not like my dad has someone elses phone, it's his, hes had it for ages.
Now, if a lady leaves a voice mail on my dad's phone, speaks as if their having a relationship and that woman isn't my mum, shouldn't I be worried?
I remember something similar to this happening quite a while ago when I was quite young, I was just browsing around on my dad's phone and found a text message from some woman who had obviously been having a relationship with him, but I didn't do anything, cause I was young...and scared that my parents would split up or something.
But now, it's the second time and I don't think im gonna easily forgive and forget. Im still quite shocked that my dad could do this but im also pretty p*ssed off because my mum does so much for us and my dad, and to think that while my mum washes our clothes, irons etc etc my dad is out there somewhere getting it off with some other biatch.
There is no way I can just let this past me, and im terrible at keeping secrets so i've got to let this out someway. So, I want to know what you think I should do? I knwo the woman on the phone said "it's over" but that isn't the point, who is this 'Sandra' biatch? I'd be really p*ssed off if I find out my dad had more than one person he's cheating on.
Should I tell my mum, get her all upset and risk my parents splitting up? Or should I keep quiet and live my life knowing my dad is bonking some other woman behind my mum's back?
Personally I don't think my mum deserves that, but if I do tell her I don't want my dad to know it was me who found out, I'll have to get my mum to listen to it on his mobile and pretend she was the first to hear it.
Has anyone else been in this situation before, and whats it like when your parents split up?
Help? :'(
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Ineedsleep wrote:
> If he is having other relationships is it harming your family life in
> any way? Even if he has had the phone for ages how do you know the
> person didn't ring a wrong number. How do you know that your mother
> doesn't already know that your father is involved with another woman
> (whether he is or not)?
Trust me, my mum isn't like that. And even if she did know i'd still be p*ssed off because it's wrong, if your married and have two kids you dont have other relationships with women...or men.
> Don't get involved but if you really want answers then ask your
> father who she is and don't involve your mother at the point.
If I ask my dad he will make something stupid up, then i'll get really annoyed. And the woman didn't ring the wrong number because that biatch of a woman called 'Sandra' is on his contacts list and the woman phoning had a foriegn accent like my dad.
> If he is having other relationships is it harming your family life in
> any way? Even if he has had the phone for ages how do you know the
> person didn't ring a wrong number. How do you know that your mother
> doesn't already know that your father is involved with another woman
> (whether he is or not)?
Trust me, my mum isn't like that. And even if she did know i'd still be p*ssed off because it's wrong, if your married and have two kids you dont have other relationships with women...or men.
> Don't get involved but if you really want answers then ask your
> father who she is and don't involve your mother at the point.
If I ask my dad he will make something stupid up, then i'll get really annoyed. And the woman didn't ring the wrong number because that biatch of a woman called 'Sandra' is on his contacts list and the woman phoning had a foriegn accent like my dad.
Stridman wrote:
>> the woman phoning had a foriegn accent like my dad.
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Well, we don't even need a jury. I've heard enough. Guilty.
>> the woman phoning had a foriegn accent like my dad.
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Well, we don't even need a jury. I've heard enough. Guilty.
But doesn't anyone here think my mum has the right to know? They've been married for about 15 years, if I don't say something to my mum, my dad will just make up an excuse and carry on seeing this 'Sandra' but make sure I dont find out again.
Stridman wrote:
> Trust me, my mum isn't like that.
Believe me, you don't know that. Honestly, you do not know the intimate workings of your parents relationship. No child does or should.
If it's really worrying you then just ask your Dad
"Who is this Sandra that left a message on your phone last night?"
He cannot squirm out of it too much if you can point out that she is in his list of contacts. But really - how dumb is that? If you are having an affair you do not list them in your phone under their own name! Infact you do not list them in your phone at all.
Still think you should just leave it though when all is said and done.
> Trust me, my mum isn't like that.
Believe me, you don't know that. Honestly, you do not know the intimate workings of your parents relationship. No child does or should.
If it's really worrying you then just ask your Dad
"Who is this Sandra that left a message on your phone last night?"
He cannot squirm out of it too much if you can point out that she is in his list of contacts. But really - how dumb is that? If you are having an affair you do not list them in your phone under their own name! Infact you do not list them in your phone at all.
Still think you should just leave it though when all is said and done.
Stridman wrote:
> But doesn't anyone here think my mum has the right to know? They've
> been married for about 15 years, if I don't say something to my mum,
> my dad will just make up an excuse and carry on seeing this 'Sandra'
> but make sure I dont find out again.
Talk to your Dad and find out if it's all over, and if it's not make him see he needs to tell her what's been going on, and he's the best person to do it, not you.
Tell him if he doesn't tell her, you still have the message and you'll talk to her yourself.
> But doesn't anyone here think my mum has the right to know? They've
> been married for about 15 years, if I don't say something to my mum,
> my dad will just make up an excuse and carry on seeing this 'Sandra'
> but make sure I dont find out again.
Talk to your Dad and find out if it's all over, and if it's not make him see he needs to tell her what's been going on, and he's the best person to do it, not you.
Tell him if he doesn't tell her, you still have the message and you'll talk to her yourself.
Find out the truth from your dad, make him admit it. Get a mate over and play it 'good cop, bad cop'. And make sure you're wearing a wire.
Once you've got evidence, it's time for a long hard think. What would Dawson do?
Once you've got evidence, it's time for a long hard think. What would Dawson do?
Stridman wrote:
> stfu
Bwahahaah, you ask on the internet, then get a bit huffy when someone disses ya Daddy's fly-girl?
My real advice would be to just leave it. Your Mum would know, or find out eventually, and probably wouldn't want you to get involved.
You can help them both by not being a teenage brat.
> stfu
Bwahahaah, you ask on the internet, then get a bit huffy when someone disses ya Daddy's fly-girl?
My real advice would be to just leave it. Your Mum would know, or find out eventually, and probably wouldn't want you to get involved.
You can help them both by not being a teenage brat.
monkey_man wrote:
> Stridman wrote:
> stfu
>
> Bwahahaah, you ask on the internet, then get a bit huffy when someone
> disses ya Daddy's fly-girl?
>
> My real advice would be to just leave it. Your Mum would know, or
> find out eventually, and probably wouldn't want you to get involved.
>
> You can help them both by not being a teenage brat.
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It's another job for Seth Green, I think. He steals his fathers phone, and is racked by guilt and choice. Also starring James Van Der Beek.
> Stridman wrote:
> stfu
>
> Bwahahaah, you ask on the internet, then get a bit huffy when someone
> disses ya Daddy's fly-girl?
>
> My real advice would be to just leave it. Your Mum would know, or
> find out eventually, and probably wouldn't want you to get involved.
>
> You can help them both by not being a teenage brat.
--
It's another job for Seth Green, I think. He steals his fathers phone, and is racked by guilt and choice. Also starring James Van Der Beek.
Shut up about Dawson! :D
Indeed, my dad is dumb.
If I ask my dad to tell my mum I know he wont because hes just like that, it's hard to explain. I thought i'd ask on here because I don't want to make the wrong decision and I want to know whether anyone else has been in a similar situation?
Indeed, my dad is dumb.
If I ask my dad to tell my mum I know he wont because hes just like that, it's hard to explain. I thought i'd ask on here because I don't want to make the wrong decision and I want to know whether anyone else has been in a similar situation?
You wouldn't last a day on the Creek.
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