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Sun 27/03/05 at 00:15
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What do you think of the whole idea of getting married?

I had this talk with my boyfriend. He wants to get married whereas I think that we don't need a piece of paper to show how much we love each other.

Am I missing the point of marriage?

I know I want to be with my boyfriend for the rest of my life, I just don't see why I need to get married to show that.

Though to be honest, I'll proberly get married eventually and do the traditional thing.
Sun 27/03/05 at 00:59
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I just couldn't be bothered.

Family members, partner's family members, fancy dressing, public speaking, cheap catering food. Eurgh
Sun 27/03/05 at 00:59
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Puddin' wrote:
> And the wedding colours are red and white, and my engagement ring is
> white gold with a heart shaped diamond :o)

Had you already said yes?
Sun 27/03/05 at 00:59
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The wedding colours should be black and grey. Like a true goth. Not like you posers.
Sun 27/03/05 at 00:58
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Well, I'm going to get married since I don't want to have children out of wedlock, don't ask me why. Apparently that is 'such a bad reason'. He says that I should get married because I want to, but everyone wants to get married for their own different reason and this is mine.

And the wedding colours are red and white, and my engagement ring is going to be white gold with a heart shaped diamond :o)

[URL]http://www.diamonds-usa.com/include/diamond_for_jewel.asp?JSI=41&SHI=7&GUID={544D2ADD-795F-41B3-91F5-704F2F5DF71C}[/URL]
Sun 27/03/05 at 00:54
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Chippxero wrote:
> i haven't heard of anyone that has said planning a wedding wasn't
> stressful,

Again, I expect that's because they made it stressful out of choice. Weddings don't actually require all that much planning to be legal.
Sun 27/03/05 at 00:54
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Puddin' wrote:
> And 'become one'..I'm my own person and so is my boyfriend.

Well that's the whole point of marriage - to show how much you love the other person by imparting part of yourself to them. If you don't want to do that then don't get married.


> We become
> one every night thanks ;o)

Yeah thanks I really don't care.
Sun 27/03/05 at 00:53
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;o)

But he also mentioned the tax benefits and things, which is correct. If you love someone, there are more reasons to get married than not.
Sun 27/03/05 at 00:52
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basically if you don't feel like getting married is what you want, then don't do it.

You'll know if you want to get married because you'll actually want to do it.
Sun 27/03/05 at 00:52
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J Nash wrote:
> It doesn't have to be though, it only is mostly because people make
> it so for no reason.

i haven't heard of anyone that has said planning a wedding wasn't stressful, But your right about the finacial side of it, can be a nice cerimony without alot of money.

look at Creepy and Grix they will get married in World Of Warcraft and it will look lovely.
Sun 27/03/05 at 00:52
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gerrid wrote:
> It's not just a piece of paper. The whole point is that you are
> showing your partner that you love them so much that you want to
> become one with them in the eyes of God and the law. It's not about
> the ceremony or the marriage certificate.


See, I'm not religous (as you can tell by the fact I can't spell it). Why would people need to get married to show their partner how much they love them?

And 'become one'..I'm my own person and so is my boyfriend. We become one every night thanks ;o)

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