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"My first Date... I need help..."

In a few days I am going to go out for a date, and I have never dated anyone before, in fact I don't think that I have ever talked to a girl in my whole life, and I didn't even fix that date, there was a friend who did it for me, and now I have no clue about what I am supposed to do.. What are people supposed to do on a date ? what kinds of things should I say ? And what kinds of things shouldn't I say ? Please I need all the advice that I can get because I am a total newbie about everything that has to do with these kinds of things.

crossbob wrote:
> What and you haven't even had a girlfriends before

oh DO shut up.
people who have "girlfriends" when they're 12 don't know what to do with them anyway so stop trying to make yourself sound like a hero and less of a gimp, it's not working.

i didn't bother hooking up with anyone until i was 17 either and i don't feel like i missed out on a damn thing.

now sod off back to your happy meal and free toy...

crossbob wrote:
> What and you haven't even had a girlfriends before

You'll be two peas in a pod then eh?

[edit]Sorry, that was mean spirited. Anyway.

What and you haven't even had a girlfriends before

crossbob wrote:
> How old are you?
17

Very_Metal wrote:
> [URL]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v434/jasonwilcox/daterapecard.jpg[/URL]
>
> :)

That made me laugh

[URL]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v434/jasonwilcox/daterapecard.jpg[/URL]

:)

I think it's sweet the way he admits he's never really spoken to a girl before..rather than making out he's some super-stud like most of the boys here. Thats' properly why no one pulled him up on it.

Cusack wrote:

> in fact I don't think that I have ever talked to a
> girl in my whole life,

Am I the only one that hasn't over looked this?

Perhaps it's a problem with society these days, that there's so much sexual pressure, innuendo, knowledge and a lack of shame or secrecy over sex, that less confident guys don't mix with girls.

I know the first time I met and talked to girls and stuff after the age of 11 it all became alot more nervy and odd.



The few serious things I can add are:

1) Try to relate at every chance. Within reason you can even lie in order just to do it. Of course this is within a bout of possible and reasonable limits. Just saying "I know what ya mean." or "Oh yeah." can have a huge effect. Tell stories of something that she just said happened to her.

2) Smile as much as possible. Smiling can release endo-morphines.

3) Don't be too innocent, truthy, nervy. You'll just become a joke and make it very hard for someone to open up to you.

Dear God I just made it so easy for you sick minded people to twist my words. Best attempt wins a prise, I guess.
:D

The Hibernator wrote:
> Stay away from the following subjects unless she brings 'em up first:
>
> Towels

A TV or movie quote methinks.

How old are you?