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"Relationship Rant"

I've recently broken up with another girlfriend, which is its essence doesn't bother me, because basically it wasn't working out, didnt feel right and we've decided to remain friends which is always good.

The thing that happens to be bugging me is that after we broke up she told me she loved me (actually "in love" not just the sort of 'love' you stick at the end of an email or text) and that she wants to have a baby with me.

Cue fear of fatherhood and the realisation I'm actually just a kid myself to kick in.

The thing that quite worries me is that I haven't known this girl a great deal of time at all. We met at a party, got drunk and did some stuff together and we started going out, but after a while (once I'd sobered up) I didnt feel the same and chose to end it to avoid and later heartache from prolonging the relationship. She took it badly. Really badly. With cries of "don't you find me attractive?" and "what have I done wrong" ringing through my head, I came back with the clichéd-to-death, "its not you, its me" which seemed to settle her down.

I've actually never been told by a girl that she "loved" me, nor have I ever said it to a girl. I'm quite pedantic with the word and beleive it should only be used when you mean it, and she assured me she does love me. This is rather daunting to think that someone who has known me a pretty short amount of time feels that way about me. What's even more frightening is that I don't feel the same way, at all.

I suppose I can finally empathise with those who stalk people and fall in love with them without really knowing them, and the other party is completely oblivious to this. I always though love would be something that came mutually from both parties, but I guess that isn't the case.

I'm not sure if I should feel bad about this, but I really do. I dislike hurting people, but I think I did the right thing to end it before she went skitzo and came off the pill and got pregnant to have the child she's oh-so-desperate to have.

Goes to show that you can be all mature and grown-up but still be a child yourself in some respects.

I'm still a child, I guess, but I like the security and lack of morning sickness it brings.

Lawrence wrote:
> I'm cool, got essay due in tomorrow which is half done and so
> blooming hard.

Hey, me too!

> My ex is threatening to kill me

So is mine!

> and i'm about to go out and get pist!

I would if I was old enough...

Better do that essay.

PrinceCharming wrote:
> Heh.
>
> Are you in a relationship now Lawrence?

No i'm not, think i've had enough of them for now!

> On another topic, how are you in general?

I'm cool, got essay due in tomorrow which is half done and so blooming hard. My ex is threatening to kill me and i'm about to go out and get pist!

What about you?

SHEEPY wrote:
> This thread is rubbish now

I'm sorry

OMFG

I was having a laugh.

If Kyz said, "I loved you from behind" would you take that seriously?

This thread is rubbish now

PrinceCharming wrote:
> I could go on and explain the obvious faults in your insult

there was no insult

im just saying - it's extremely sad to say what you did to someone on an internet forum when:

- you dont know them at all
- you dont know what they look
- you dont know how good they are at sex

in conclusion, youre a loser

Heh.

Are you in a relationship now Lawrence?

On another topic, how are you in general?

*breaks up fight*

now now boys, shake hands!

I could go on and explain the obvious faults in your insult, but I was being kind and allowing you to escape with a scrap of decency.

woah, sorry - because youve got nothing else to say because you know that im right, you use the old "youre not smart enough, go away" retort?

err