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Wed 10/11/04 at 15:11
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I've recently broken up with another girlfriend, which is its essence doesn't bother me, because basically it wasn't working out, didnt feel right and we've decided to remain friends which is always good.

The thing that happens to be bugging me is that after we broke up she told me she loved me (actually "in love" not just the sort of 'love' you stick at the end of an email or text) and that she wants to have a baby with me.

Cue fear of fatherhood and the realisation I'm actually just a kid myself to kick in.

The thing that quite worries me is that I haven't known this girl a great deal of time at all. We met at a party, got drunk and did some stuff together and we started going out, but after a while (once I'd sobered up) I didnt feel the same and chose to end it to avoid and later heartache from prolonging the relationship. She took it badly. Really badly. With cries of "don't you find me attractive?" and "what have I done wrong" ringing through my head, I came back with the clichéd-to-death, "its not you, its me" which seemed to settle her down.

I've actually never been told by a girl that she "loved" me, nor have I ever said it to a girl. I'm quite pedantic with the word and beleive it should only be used when you mean it, and she assured me she does love me. This is rather daunting to think that someone who has known me a pretty short amount of time feels that way about me. What's even more frightening is that I don't feel the same way, at all.

I suppose I can finally empathise with those who stalk people and fall in love with them without really knowing them, and the other party is completely oblivious to this. I always though love would be something that came mutually from both parties, but I guess that isn't the case.

I'm not sure if I should feel bad about this, but I really do. I dislike hurting people, but I think I did the right thing to end it before she went skitzo and came off the pill and got pregnant to have the child she's oh-so-desperate to have.

Goes to show that you can be all mature and grown-up but still be a child yourself in some respects.

I'm still a child, I guess, but I like the security and lack of morning sickness it brings.
Thu 11/11/04 at 20:55
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You clearly don't belong on Life, due to your lack of brain cells.

Get out.
Thu 11/11/04 at 20:54
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yes, i am.

because u complemented them on their sexual abilities, despite the fact you dont even know them or know what they look like, or know how they "perform"
Thu 11/11/04 at 20:53
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So you're calling me lame because I complemented someone?

How sad.
Thu 11/11/04 at 20:52
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prince youre such a loser telling people you dont know that theyre a "sex goddess"

get a life loser
Thu 11/11/04 at 20:52
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"leaf it aaaaht"
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Lol, how strange!

I'm not actually a sex goddess, tho it'll be cool being one for like a day or something!
Thu 11/11/04 at 20:50
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It's easy to tell from the way you type :-P
Thu 11/11/04 at 20:48
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"leaf it aaaaht"
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I don't know you, how can you call me a sex goddess??
Thu 11/11/04 at 20:47
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Gavi
Thu 11/11/04 at 20:35
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"leaf it aaaaht"
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whoops..sorry!

Who are you?
Thu 11/11/04 at 20:33
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PrinceCarming?

Charming.

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