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I've had many a girlfriend in the past, but the one I am going out with at the moment is something very special and i can honestly say that I love her... and she loves me, or so she says.
Anyway, last week she sed she didn't want me to go out with her that friday as she was going out one last time with her friends before she went on holiday. Nothing to do with the fact they my friends as well.. anyway, I didn't go in the end. But they all stayed over nite at one of the friends house and apparantly she kissed this other guy, but broke away. She claims she cant remember it, and there were no witnesses, so I cant confirm either way.
We decided to forget about it. I wanted to be angry, just couldn't though. Very weird. She also then told me the real reason she went out was cos she wanted to see wat it was liked without me and then proceeded to go on about how she'll never exclude me again cos it wasn't fun.
She then went on holiday and is still on holiday and will be for a few more weeks. I went out friday nite and stayed at the same friends house and apparantly someone there told her that I was flirting with some of the girls there. All of which back me up in saying that I wasn't.
I then proceeded to get quite a hurtful email saying how I didn't think about her while she's out there and that I am using her kissing that guy as an excuse to get revenge. Even though I honestly did nothing.
I don't really have a reason to post this tbh. I just wanted some ppl to talk to it about with.
Basically, what would you all do? I love her... but at the same time I am hating her for making me feel this way. And i know she used to fancy the guy she kissed, so probably still does. And when she sed she is looking forward to getting home, seeing me wasn't the first thing she sed, it was so she could talk to him about something "important". That could be seen as 2 things. Either she's gonna tell him that him and her are never gonna happen... or well, I don't really wanna think about that...
I cant work anything out and I am very confused about it all... She even spent the whole of the day after she kissed the guy slagging him off... but you would though wouldn't you? You wouldn't be saying good things about them after something like that.
What should I do? Should I do anything? Anyone fancy offering some advise or physcological reports?
Thanks anyways.
Look forward to seeing some replies in the morning.
Anyway, last week she sed she didn't want me to go out with her that friday as she was going out one last time with her friends before she went on holiday. Nothing to do with the fact they my friends as well.. anyway, I didn't go in the end. But they all stayed over nite at one of the friends house and apparantly she kissed this other guy, but broke away. She claims she cant remember it, and there were no witnesses, so I cant confirm either way.
We decided to forget about it. I wanted to be angry, just couldn't though. Very weird. She also then told me the real reason she went out was cos she wanted to see wat it was liked without me and then proceeded to go on about how she'll never exclude me again cos it wasn't fun.
She then went on holiday and is still on holiday and will be for a few more weeks. I went out friday nite and stayed at the same friends house and apparantly someone there told her that I was flirting with some of the girls there. All of which back me up in saying that I wasn't.
I then proceeded to get quite a hurtful email saying how I didn't think about her while she's out there and that I am using her kissing that guy as an excuse to get revenge. Even though I honestly did nothing.
I don't really have a reason to post this tbh. I just wanted some ppl to talk to it about with.
Basically, what would you all do? I love her... but at the same time I am hating her for making me feel this way. And i know she used to fancy the guy she kissed, so probably still does. And when she sed she is looking forward to getting home, seeing me wasn't the first thing she sed, it was so she could talk to him about something "important". That could be seen as 2 things. Either she's gonna tell him that him and her are never gonna happen... or well, I don't really wanna think about that...
I cant work anything out and I am very confused about it all... She even spent the whole of the day after she kissed the guy slagging him off... but you would though wouldn't you? You wouldn't be saying good things about them after something like that.
What should I do? Should I do anything? Anyone fancy offering some advise or physcological reports?
Thanks anyways.
Look forward to seeing some replies in the morning.
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OK, you may want to excuse my 'schoolgirl' comments then :D
But it's clear you are both old enough to deal with this sensibly and with maturity. If she can't even do that, she has a problem.
I'm 21 and my girlfriend is 19 - we're fortunate enough to be in a loving, trusting and overall excellent relationship. In the early stages of our relationship, there were certain levels of mistrust - mostly on my part though. I know for a fact she loves me unconditionally and I'm the same toward her. All is good.
Those kind of women do exist, it's just finding them that's the hard part!
Good Luck with whatever you choose to do :)
But it's clear you are both old enough to deal with this sensibly and with maturity. If she can't even do that, she has a problem.
I'm 21 and my girlfriend is 19 - we're fortunate enough to be in a loving, trusting and overall excellent relationship. In the early stages of our relationship, there were certain levels of mistrust - mostly on my part though. I know for a fact she loves me unconditionally and I'm the same toward her. All is good.
Those kind of women do exist, it's just finding them that's the hard part!
Good Luck with whatever you choose to do :)
20 and 19.
Just out of curiosity, how old are the two of you?
I will, thank you for your help and everyone else.
Will post back here in 11/12 days then ;).
Will post back here in 11/12 days then ;).
Well i hope you get things sorted, it is hard especially when you love them and what you get in return is crap to deal with.
@ng3l wrote:
> Just remeber what i wrote is how i see things, if you feel you really
> have being lied to then go ahead, if not talk it through. I
> personally think she has something to hide. However i am not you and
> only you will truly know what the situation is like for you and how
> you want to deal with it.
Yeah, but what you wrote is exactly how I feel about it all. It's all pretty much true and you are right...
I gave her a necklace with an I love you engraving, etc, which she was really happy with and showed off to all her friends. She wears it everyday... so that must show she feels something. But I cant stand all the lies and secretivity.
I will talk it through first yes, I aint just gonna wait for her to turn up and say "you're dumped".
> Just remeber what i wrote is how i see things, if you feel you really
> have being lied to then go ahead, if not talk it through. I
> personally think she has something to hide. However i am not you and
> only you will truly know what the situation is like for you and how
> you want to deal with it.
Yeah, but what you wrote is exactly how I feel about it all. It's all pretty much true and you are right...
I gave her a necklace with an I love you engraving, etc, which she was really happy with and showed off to all her friends. She wears it everyday... so that must show she feels something. But I cant stand all the lies and secretivity.
I will talk it through first yes, I aint just gonna wait for her to turn up and say "you're dumped".
Just remeber what i wrote is how i see things, if you feel you really have being lied to then go ahead, if not talk it through. I personally think she has something to hide. However i am not you and only you will truly know what the situation is like for you and how you want to deal with it.
@ng3l wrote:
> Well dont rush in to anything else, just be happy and think of number
> 1 for now.
Impossible to be happy until I hear a reply from my latest emails. Wont be till 6ish tonight tho or tomorrow same time. Least then I should have an answer, and if I dont get 1, I will dump her. End of story.
> Well dont rush in to anything else, just be happy and think of number
> 1 for now.
Impossible to be happy until I hear a reply from my latest emails. Wont be till 6ish tonight tho or tomorrow same time. Least then I should have an answer, and if I dont get 1, I will dump her. End of story.
@ng3l wrote:
> If they were my friends also in a way I would have thought I would
> have gone along too, if out of the group of friends I was the only
> one missing then I guess I would question why I was left out of this
> situation. If my partner had gone out with all our group of friends
> and I didn’t go along or wasn’t invited then I would make an issue of
> it. Was it your choice not to go?
I was invited by some of the group who said to go anyway. I didn't, cos I didn't wanna upset her... but I went for a drink instead and saw her for about 30 mins while she walked back to the mates house, I was also invited to stay over, but she didn't want me to. So, yeah. I'm being lied to, rejected and used. FFS, why have I let this go on so long. I'm ending this.
> If they were my friends also in a way I would have thought I would
> have gone along too, if out of the group of friends I was the only
> one missing then I guess I would question why I was left out of this
> situation. If my partner had gone out with all our group of friends
> and I didn’t go along or wasn’t invited then I would make an issue of
> it. Was it your choice not to go?
I was invited by some of the group who said to go anyway. I didn't, cos I didn't wanna upset her... but I went for a drink instead and saw her for about 30 mins while she walked back to the mates house, I was also invited to stay over, but she didn't want me to. So, yeah. I'm being lied to, rejected and used. FFS, why have I let this go on so long. I'm ending this.
Well dont rush in to anything else, just be happy and think of number 1 for now.
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