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I've had many a girlfriend in the past, but the one I am going out with at the moment is something very special and i can honestly say that I love her... and she loves me, or so she says.
Anyway, last week she sed she didn't want me to go out with her that friday as she was going out one last time with her friends before she went on holiday. Nothing to do with the fact they my friends as well.. anyway, I didn't go in the end. But they all stayed over nite at one of the friends house and apparantly she kissed this other guy, but broke away. She claims she cant remember it, and there were no witnesses, so I cant confirm either way.
We decided to forget about it. I wanted to be angry, just couldn't though. Very weird. She also then told me the real reason she went out was cos she wanted to see wat it was liked without me and then proceeded to go on about how she'll never exclude me again cos it wasn't fun.
She then went on holiday and is still on holiday and will be for a few more weeks. I went out friday nite and stayed at the same friends house and apparantly someone there told her that I was flirting with some of the girls there. All of which back me up in saying that I wasn't.
I then proceeded to get quite a hurtful email saying how I didn't think about her while she's out there and that I am using her kissing that guy as an excuse to get revenge. Even though I honestly did nothing.
I don't really have a reason to post this tbh. I just wanted some ppl to talk to it about with.
Basically, what would you all do? I love her... but at the same time I am hating her for making me feel this way. And i know she used to fancy the guy she kissed, so probably still does. And when she sed she is looking forward to getting home, seeing me wasn't the first thing she sed, it was so she could talk to him about something "important". That could be seen as 2 things. Either she's gonna tell him that him and her are never gonna happen... or well, I don't really wanna think about that...
I cant work anything out and I am very confused about it all... She even spent the whole of the day after she kissed the guy slagging him off... but you would though wouldn't you? You wouldn't be saying good things about them after something like that.
What should I do? Should I do anything? Anyone fancy offering some advise or physcological reports?
Thanks anyways.
Look forward to seeing some replies in the morning.
Anyway, last week she sed she didn't want me to go out with her that friday as she was going out one last time with her friends before she went on holiday. Nothing to do with the fact they my friends as well.. anyway, I didn't go in the end. But they all stayed over nite at one of the friends house and apparantly she kissed this other guy, but broke away. She claims she cant remember it, and there were no witnesses, so I cant confirm either way.
We decided to forget about it. I wanted to be angry, just couldn't though. Very weird. She also then told me the real reason she went out was cos she wanted to see wat it was liked without me and then proceeded to go on about how she'll never exclude me again cos it wasn't fun.
She then went on holiday and is still on holiday and will be for a few more weeks. I went out friday nite and stayed at the same friends house and apparantly someone there told her that I was flirting with some of the girls there. All of which back me up in saying that I wasn't.
I then proceeded to get quite a hurtful email saying how I didn't think about her while she's out there and that I am using her kissing that guy as an excuse to get revenge. Even though I honestly did nothing.
I don't really have a reason to post this tbh. I just wanted some ppl to talk to it about with.
Basically, what would you all do? I love her... but at the same time I am hating her for making me feel this way. And i know she used to fancy the guy she kissed, so probably still does. And when she sed she is looking forward to getting home, seeing me wasn't the first thing she sed, it was so she could talk to him about something "important". That could be seen as 2 things. Either she's gonna tell him that him and her are never gonna happen... or well, I don't really wanna think about that...
I cant work anything out and I am very confused about it all... She even spent the whole of the day after she kissed the guy slagging him off... but you would though wouldn't you? You wouldn't be saying good things about them after something like that.
What should I do? Should I do anything? Anyone fancy offering some advise or physcological reports?
Thanks anyways.
Look forward to seeing some replies in the morning.
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You're being played mate, simple as that.
She goes out to see "what it's like" and just happens to kiss somebody else and let you know.
And now she's finding reasons to snipe?
You say you've been out with many a girl, and in that case it should be brightly lit in neon "I'M PLAYING YOU".
She's trying to push your buttons to make you explode, giving her reason to walk away guilt-free.
Trust me, I know the tricks and your best bet is to walk away with no emails, letters or any further contact.
OR
If you're feeling spiteful, hump her best mate and let her know.
You walk away, she's furious and she'll never speak to her best mate again.
Women - Easier to play than Nintendo games.
She goes out to see "what it's like" and just happens to kiss somebody else and let you know.
And now she's finding reasons to snipe?
You say you've been out with many a girl, and in that case it should be brightly lit in neon "I'M PLAYING YOU".
She's trying to push your buttons to make you explode, giving her reason to walk away guilt-free.
Trust me, I know the tricks and your best bet is to walk away with no emails, letters or any further contact.
OR
If you're feeling spiteful, hump her best mate and let her know.
You walk away, she's furious and she'll never speak to her best mate again.
Women - Easier to play than Nintendo games.
lol, the more I look at the letters, the scaredier I get... cos it's weird, lol. Can people not just say things for a change *shock, horror*.
Flockhart wrote:
> I'd write her a reasonably long E-mail talking about all this crap
> going on, your mutual friends are being far from helpful and it's
> best to just ignore them.
I will wait on the reply from the latest one first. Either be in 4 hours or 28. Depends whether she goes on or not today.
> I'd be prepared to lose her, it depends on whether she is trying to
> save her friendship with this guy or something else entirely, make it
> clear you are completely innoncent of all charges but don't mention
> that she isn't
I have and she sed "You keep saying nothing happened so much? Guilty Conscience?" Part of that quite hurtful email.
> she probably did kiss him
She did, she just claims she cant remember.
> she wouldn't feel the need to tell you otherwise the fact she told you
> isn't a good thing, she may
> just be preparing you so you're not suprised, your reaction to being
> told will be important to what she decides to do, i'd be trying to
> build some bridges with her before she comes back.
> In short get ready to be dumped and be pleasantly suprised if she
> doesn't.
She's a very good liar then as far as I can tell. She used to write me letters expressing her feelings when I was going out with someone else, so when we broke up for some niggily reasons, I started dating her. Got so much crep about how it's a dream come true for her to be with me and how "leaving you isn't an option now"... rrr. I have this weird letter that she gev me to read if I get paranoid... basically contracts everything she's said and done over the past few weeks... but yea.
> I'd write her a reasonably long E-mail talking about all this crap
> going on, your mutual friends are being far from helpful and it's
> best to just ignore them.
I will wait on the reply from the latest one first. Either be in 4 hours or 28. Depends whether she goes on or not today.
> I'd be prepared to lose her, it depends on whether she is trying to
> save her friendship with this guy or something else entirely, make it
> clear you are completely innoncent of all charges but don't mention
> that she isn't
I have and she sed "You keep saying nothing happened so much? Guilty Conscience?" Part of that quite hurtful email.
> she probably did kiss him
She did, she just claims she cant remember.
> she wouldn't feel the need to tell you otherwise the fact she told you
> isn't a good thing, she may
> just be preparing you so you're not suprised, your reaction to being
> told will be important to what she decides to do, i'd be trying to
> build some bridges with her before she comes back.
> In short get ready to be dumped and be pleasantly suprised if she
> doesn't.
She's a very good liar then as far as I can tell. She used to write me letters expressing her feelings when I was going out with someone else, so when we broke up for some niggily reasons, I started dating her. Got so much crep about how it's a dream come true for her to be with me and how "leaving you isn't an option now"... rrr. I have this weird letter that she gev me to read if I get paranoid... basically contracts everything she's said and done over the past few weeks... but yea.
Flockhart wrote:
how old are you two ?
WoopWoop wrote:
> 20 and 19.
how old are you two ?
WoopWoop wrote:
> 20 and 19.
I'd write her a reasonably long E-mail talking about all this crap going on, your mutual friends are being far from helpful and it's best to just ignore them.
I'd be prepared to lose her, it depends on whether she is trying to save her friendship with this guy or something else entirely, make it clear you are completely innoncent of all charges but don't mention that she isn't, she probably did kiss him, she wouldn't feel the need tell you otherwise the fact she told you isn't a good thing, she may just be preparing you so you're not suprised, your reaction to being told will be important to what she decides to do, i'd be trying to build some bridges with her before she comes back.
In short get ready to be dumped and be pleasantly suprised if she doesn't.
Out of interest, how old are you two ?
I'd be prepared to lose her, it depends on whether she is trying to save her friendship with this guy or something else entirely, make it clear you are completely innoncent of all charges but don't mention that she isn't, she probably did kiss him, she wouldn't feel the need tell you otherwise the fact she told you isn't a good thing, she may just be preparing you so you're not suprised, your reaction to being told will be important to what she decides to do, i'd be trying to build some bridges with her before she comes back.
In short get ready to be dumped and be pleasantly suprised if she doesn't.
Out of interest, how old are you two ?
careful there, i kinda defeat your point there. I am popular guy and I aint anything like that... Good advise, if just a little stereotypical.
After reading your initial post, my reaction was that you are about to get royally screwed over. Nice to see you're taking some initiative here.
On the other hand though, I would be tempted to let her dump you. At least that way, she's the villian.
The trouble with the world is that the more popular guys and girls that people really fall for, tend to be primarily self-interested. Whether they mean to or not, they hurt people. They just aren't worth the heartache.
On the other hand though, I would be tempted to let her dump you. At least that way, she's the villian.
The trouble with the world is that the more popular guys and girls that people really fall for, tend to be primarily self-interested. Whether they mean to or not, they hurt people. They just aren't worth the heartache.
Hedfix wrote:
> El Robin is too simple as usual.
I'm a simple guy.
Stimpleton?
> El Robin is too simple as usual.
I'm a simple guy.
Stimpleton?
Tiltawhirl wrote:
> If she's got a willy dump her then report her to trading standards.
There's your schoolgirl bullet.
> If she's got a willy dump her then report her to trading standards.
There's your schoolgirl bullet.
If she's got a willy dump her then report her to trading standards.
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