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I've had many a girlfriend in the past, but the one I am going out with at the moment is something very special and i can honestly say that I love her... and she loves me, or so she says.
Anyway, last week she sed she didn't want me to go out with her that friday as she was going out one last time with her friends before she went on holiday. Nothing to do with the fact they my friends as well.. anyway, I didn't go in the end. But they all stayed over nite at one of the friends house and apparantly she kissed this other guy, but broke away. She claims she cant remember it, and there were no witnesses, so I cant confirm either way.
We decided to forget about it. I wanted to be angry, just couldn't though. Very weird. She also then told me the real reason she went out was cos she wanted to see wat it was liked without me and then proceeded to go on about how she'll never exclude me again cos it wasn't fun.
She then went on holiday and is still on holiday and will be for a few more weeks. I went out friday nite and stayed at the same friends house and apparantly someone there told her that I was flirting with some of the girls there. All of which back me up in saying that I wasn't.
I then proceeded to get quite a hurtful email saying how I didn't think about her while she's out there and that I am using her kissing that guy as an excuse to get revenge. Even though I honestly did nothing.
I don't really have a reason to post this tbh. I just wanted some ppl to talk to it about with.
Basically, what would you all do? I love her... but at the same time I am hating her for making me feel this way. And i know she used to fancy the guy she kissed, so probably still does. And when she sed she is looking forward to getting home, seeing me wasn't the first thing she sed, it was so she could talk to him about something "important". That could be seen as 2 things. Either she's gonna tell him that him and her are never gonna happen... or well, I don't really wanna think about that...
I cant work anything out and I am very confused about it all... She even spent the whole of the day after she kissed the guy slagging him off... but you would though wouldn't you? You wouldn't be saying good things about them after something like that.
What should I do? Should I do anything? Anyone fancy offering some advise or physcological reports?
Thanks anyways.
Look forward to seeing some replies in the morning.
Anyway, last week she sed she didn't want me to go out with her that friday as she was going out one last time with her friends before she went on holiday. Nothing to do with the fact they my friends as well.. anyway, I didn't go in the end. But they all stayed over nite at one of the friends house and apparantly she kissed this other guy, but broke away. She claims she cant remember it, and there were no witnesses, so I cant confirm either way.
We decided to forget about it. I wanted to be angry, just couldn't though. Very weird. She also then told me the real reason she went out was cos she wanted to see wat it was liked without me and then proceeded to go on about how she'll never exclude me again cos it wasn't fun.
She then went on holiday and is still on holiday and will be for a few more weeks. I went out friday nite and stayed at the same friends house and apparantly someone there told her that I was flirting with some of the girls there. All of which back me up in saying that I wasn't.
I then proceeded to get quite a hurtful email saying how I didn't think about her while she's out there and that I am using her kissing that guy as an excuse to get revenge. Even though I honestly did nothing.
I don't really have a reason to post this tbh. I just wanted some ppl to talk to it about with.
Basically, what would you all do? I love her... but at the same time I am hating her for making me feel this way. And i know she used to fancy the guy she kissed, so probably still does. And when she sed she is looking forward to getting home, seeing me wasn't the first thing she sed, it was so she could talk to him about something "important". That could be seen as 2 things. Either she's gonna tell him that him and her are never gonna happen... or well, I don't really wanna think about that...
I cant work anything out and I am very confused about it all... She even spent the whole of the day after she kissed the guy slagging him off... but you would though wouldn't you? You wouldn't be saying good things about them after something like that.
What should I do? Should I do anything? Anyone fancy offering some advise or physcological reports?
Thanks anyways.
Look forward to seeing some replies in the morning.
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@ng3l wrote:
> and if she claims to not remember anything about the situation, how
> the hell do you know about it, No Witnesses. Either that or there not
> true friends.
Cos the guy texted her saying "I am sorry it didn't mean anything to you, but it was the best nite of my life". So, she "found out" from there.
Then she was all saying how it didn't mean anything and it wasn't a long kiss... so how does she know that if she cant remember. Just all lies and a waste of my time.
Well, thanks all for letting me see the light. I'm better off without her I reckon.
> and if she claims to not remember anything about the situation, how
> the hell do you know about it, No Witnesses. Either that or there not
> true friends.
Cos the guy texted her saying "I am sorry it didn't mean anything to you, but it was the best nite of my life". So, she "found out" from there.
Then she was all saying how it didn't mean anything and it wasn't a long kiss... so how does she know that if she cant remember. Just all lies and a waste of my time.
Well, thanks all for letting me see the light. I'm better off without her I reckon.
Well, thank you :) and you have pretty much got all my niggly feelings all in there. I pretty much agree with all of that...
Yeah, it aint meant to be. But I wont dismiss it yet, looks like I have a dumping scheduled... o well. I'll live and I'm sure I'll find someone else...
Yeah, it aint meant to be. But I wont dismiss it yet, looks like I have a dumping scheduled... o well. I'll live and I'm sure I'll find someone else...
Hmm thats better, thats my opinion up.
If you can honestly say you love her but can’t say she honestly loves you 100% then maybe there is something wrong. Surely if it was love then you would know that she truly loves you.
If they were my friends also in a way I would have thought I would have gone along too, if out of the group of friends I was the only one missing then I guess I would question why I was left out of this situation. If my partner had gone out with all our group of friends and I didn’t go along or wasn’t invited then I would make an issue of it. Was it your choice not to go?
As for the fact she kissed another guy if she truly loved you she wouldn’t have got her self in that situation. Oh and she use to like this guy. :-s
and if she claims to not remember anything about the situation, how the hell do you know about it, No Witnesses. Either that or there not true friends.
As for the fact she wanted to go out on her own with out you she should have just said that from the start. Honesty is the best policy.
As for people telling her you were flirting then fair enough, whether it was true or not people can get here wires crossed about what’s flirting and what’s not
Maybe you might have been but not intentionally
How she can say that you don’t think about her while she was away, did she think about you honestly when she supposedly kissed this other guy, or when she wanted to go out with your friends.
Well for starters I would think she is making up crap, she wanted to go out without out you because this guy was there. Her lame excuse saying she wanted to see what it was like without you is pathetic. I know if I loved someone that going out without them would be no fun, well it might have been a little fun but I would have missed them so much. The fact they were both your friends though is different. I would have gone along. Then I would have been with the one I loved, been happy and still had a good time.
And to go on about him slagging him of all day would have made me even more wary at the fact why did she not just drop it and leave it as it was. To go on about him for the remainder of the day she obviously didn’t want to forget what happened.
Ask her to be honest with you; surely you can pick out lies if she tells them some people are so obvious. If you can’t get your stories straight, either forgive and forget or get on with the relationship.
Just what’s so important she has to tell this other guy though? I guess time will only tell.
If they were my friends also in a way I would have thought I would have gone along too, if out of the group of friends I was the only one missing then I guess I would question why I was left out of this situation. If my partner had gone out with all our group of friends and I didn’t go along or wasn’t invited then I would make an issue of it. Was it your choice not to go?
As for the fact she kissed another guy if she truly loved you she wouldn’t have got her self in that situation. Oh and she use to like this guy. :-s
and if she claims to not remember anything about the situation, how the hell do you know about it, No Witnesses. Either that or there not true friends.
As for the fact she wanted to go out on her own with out you she should have just said that from the start. Honesty is the best policy.
As for people telling her you were flirting then fair enough, whether it was true or not people can get here wires crossed about what’s flirting and what’s not
Maybe you might have been but not intentionally
How she can say that you don’t think about her while she was away, did she think about you honestly when she supposedly kissed this other guy, or when she wanted to go out with your friends.
Well for starters I would think she is making up crap, she wanted to go out without out you because this guy was there. Her lame excuse saying she wanted to see what it was like without you is pathetic. I know if I loved someone that going out without them would be no fun, well it might have been a little fun but I would have missed them so much. The fact they were both your friends though is different. I would have gone along. Then I would have been with the one I loved, been happy and still had a good time.
And to go on about him slagging him of all day would have made me even more wary at the fact why did she not just drop it and leave it as it was. To go on about him for the remainder of the day she obviously didn’t want to forget what happened.
Ask her to be honest with you; surely you can pick out lies if she tells them some people are so obvious. If you can’t get your stories straight, either forgive and forget or get on with the relationship.
Just what’s so important she has to tell this other guy though? I guess time will only tell.
Hedfix wrote:
> Games and music work for me.
I suck at games when I have other things on my mind. I was reduced to a pathetic 2:1 kill to death ratio on CS early this morning.
Music is too depressing. They all have weird random meanings and stories that p one double 5 me off.
> Games and music work for me.
I suck at games when I have other things on my mind. I was reduced to a pathetic 2:1 kill to death ratio on CS early this morning.
Music is too depressing. They all have weird random meanings and stories that p one double 5 me off.
Games and music work for me.
Hedfix wrote:
> Yep, you have to focus on doing something and realise that you can't
> do anything about it 'til 11 days time.
I'm bored of C++, CS and Uplink... Besides my regular friday nite get togethers, I have nothing else to do. Aint even got my wednesday dinner with gf till she comes back and probably wont anymore either.
> Yep, you have to focus on doing something and realise that you can't
> do anything about it 'til 11 days time.
I'm bored of C++, CS and Uplink... Besides my regular friday nite get togethers, I have nothing else to do. Aint even got my wednesday dinner with gf till she comes back and probably wont anymore either.
Cub!st wrote:
> You two could just both be, shock horror, HONEST with each other no?
> None of this revenge business and listening to friends who are
> clearly just spinning out gossip. Just tell each other honestly what
> you've been up to and how you feel about it all and you should be
> able to work through it.
But the point is, I am being honest... I dont think she is and she obviously doesn't trust me. So yeah... I am starting to think I should dump her when she gets back. It'll be best for me, but i'll talk about it first... wat have I got to lose anyway.
> You two could just both be, shock horror, HONEST with each other no?
> None of this revenge business and listening to friends who are
> clearly just spinning out gossip. Just tell each other honestly what
> you've been up to and how you feel about it all and you should be
> able to work through it.
But the point is, I am being honest... I dont think she is and she obviously doesn't trust me. So yeah... I am starting to think I should dump her when she gets back. It'll be best for me, but i'll talk about it first... wat have I got to lose anyway.
Yep, you have to focus on doing something and realise that you can't do anything about it 'til 11 days time.
ßulle†† wrote:
> It's all up to the two of you to sort this out. You'll make the right
> choice in the end, and if you don't, it's not the end of the world,
> there's plenty more fish in the sea etc. :)
Arr yes... but it's whether you catch a lobster or a angel fish. that's the problem.
> It's all up to the two of you to sort this out. You'll make the right
> choice in the end, and if you don't, it's not the end of the world,
> there's plenty more fish in the sea etc. :)
Arr yes... but it's whether you catch a lobster or a angel fish. that's the problem.
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