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I've had many a girlfriend in the past, but the one I am going out with at the moment is something very special and i can honestly say that I love her... and she loves me, or so she says.
Anyway, last week she sed she didn't want me to go out with her that friday as she was going out one last time with her friends before she went on holiday. Nothing to do with the fact they my friends as well.. anyway, I didn't go in the end. But they all stayed over nite at one of the friends house and apparantly she kissed this other guy, but broke away. She claims she cant remember it, and there were no witnesses, so I cant confirm either way.
We decided to forget about it. I wanted to be angry, just couldn't though. Very weird. She also then told me the real reason she went out was cos she wanted to see wat it was liked without me and then proceeded to go on about how she'll never exclude me again cos it wasn't fun.
She then went on holiday and is still on holiday and will be for a few more weeks. I went out friday nite and stayed at the same friends house and apparantly someone there told her that I was flirting with some of the girls there. All of which back me up in saying that I wasn't.
I then proceeded to get quite a hurtful email saying how I didn't think about her while she's out there and that I am using her kissing that guy as an excuse to get revenge. Even though I honestly did nothing.
I don't really have a reason to post this tbh. I just wanted some ppl to talk to it about with.
Basically, what would you all do? I love her... but at the same time I am hating her for making me feel this way. And i know she used to fancy the guy she kissed, so probably still does. And when she sed she is looking forward to getting home, seeing me wasn't the first thing she sed, it was so she could talk to him about something "important". That could be seen as 2 things. Either she's gonna tell him that him and her are never gonna happen... or well, I don't really wanna think about that...
I cant work anything out and I am very confused about it all... She even spent the whole of the day after she kissed the guy slagging him off... but you would though wouldn't you? You wouldn't be saying good things about them after something like that.
What should I do? Should I do anything? Anyone fancy offering some advise or physcological reports?
Thanks anyways.
Look forward to seeing some replies in the morning.
Anyway, last week she sed she didn't want me to go out with her that friday as she was going out one last time with her friends before she went on holiday. Nothing to do with the fact they my friends as well.. anyway, I didn't go in the end. But they all stayed over nite at one of the friends house and apparantly she kissed this other guy, but broke away. She claims she cant remember it, and there were no witnesses, so I cant confirm either way.
We decided to forget about it. I wanted to be angry, just couldn't though. Very weird. She also then told me the real reason she went out was cos she wanted to see wat it was liked without me and then proceeded to go on about how she'll never exclude me again cos it wasn't fun.
She then went on holiday and is still on holiday and will be for a few more weeks. I went out friday nite and stayed at the same friends house and apparantly someone there told her that I was flirting with some of the girls there. All of which back me up in saying that I wasn't.
I then proceeded to get quite a hurtful email saying how I didn't think about her while she's out there and that I am using her kissing that guy as an excuse to get revenge. Even though I honestly did nothing.
I don't really have a reason to post this tbh. I just wanted some ppl to talk to it about with.
Basically, what would you all do? I love her... but at the same time I am hating her for making me feel this way. And i know she used to fancy the guy she kissed, so probably still does. And when she sed she is looking forward to getting home, seeing me wasn't the first thing she sed, it was so she could talk to him about something "important". That could be seen as 2 things. Either she's gonna tell him that him and her are never gonna happen... or well, I don't really wanna think about that...
I cant work anything out and I am very confused about it all... She even spent the whole of the day after she kissed the guy slagging him off... but you would though wouldn't you? You wouldn't be saying good things about them after something like that.
What should I do? Should I do anything? Anyone fancy offering some advise or physcological reports?
Thanks anyways.
Look forward to seeing some replies in the morning.
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MoJoJoJo wrote:
> Goatboy is one cynical mother humper.
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How is it cynical to see through the myriad of lies and amateur headgames that most women try and lay down?
I'll smile and play along with them, but as soon as they start with the little guilt-traps etc etc, then I'll show them exactly how to play those games.
I'm not cynical, it's just that thanks to years of relationship wreckages, I see through that crap.
> Goatboy is one cynical mother humper.
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How is it cynical to see through the myriad of lies and amateur headgames that most women try and lay down?
I'll smile and play along with them, but as soon as they start with the little guilt-traps etc etc, then I'll show them exactly how to play those games.
I'm not cynical, it's just that thanks to years of relationship wreckages, I see through that crap.
Goatboy wrote:
> Don't answer her txts/emails/calls at all.
> Show her whilst she plays games, you wrote the cheatbook.
Goatboy: turning the tide against women since 1973.
> Don't answer her txts/emails/calls at all.
> Show her whilst she plays games, you wrote the cheatbook.
Goatboy: turning the tide against women since 1973.
It's true though. She magically finds herself in a position that she can get off with someone else and get away with it, but gives the boy back home the cutesy eyes. Ask yourself this: do you think it would happen again under the same circumstances?
WoopWoop wrote:
"I just want you to be happy, so if I
> aint wat you want, just dump me".
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*WARNING BELLS WARNING BELLS*
That's the same thing as the male's "I think you could do better than me" escape route.
Don't worry, don't fret and for chrissakes don't write 6th Form poetry expressing your angst and pain at the world - walk away.
You'll feel so much better for it.
She's playing reindeer games that belong in the playground, what is she - 14??
All she's doing is making you slowly tick-tick-tick with anger until you throw a fit at her, and she gets to walk away being all "Well he was an assface, I'm better off".
She lacks the courage to say "hey, I don't want to do this" and wants you to do the booting.
So do it, just don't tell her. Don't answer her txts/emails/calls at all.
Show her whilst she plays games, you wrote the cheatbook.
"I just want you to be happy, so if I
> aint wat you want, just dump me".
--------
*WARNING BELLS WARNING BELLS*
That's the same thing as the male's "I think you could do better than me" escape route.
Don't worry, don't fret and for chrissakes don't write 6th Form poetry expressing your angst and pain at the world - walk away.
You'll feel so much better for it.
She's playing reindeer games that belong in the playground, what is she - 14??
All she's doing is making you slowly tick-tick-tick with anger until you throw a fit at her, and she gets to walk away being all "Well he was an assface, I'm better off".
She lacks the courage to say "hey, I don't want to do this" and wants you to do the booting.
So do it, just don't tell her. Don't answer her txts/emails/calls at all.
Show her whilst she plays games, you wrote the cheatbook.
Yeah just make sure you wire up the AC/DC correctly. :S
Goatboy wrote:
> Women - Easier to play than Nintendo games.
I'm going to have to remember that one:)
> Women - Easier to play than Nintendo games.
I'm going to have to remember that one:)
Goatboy knows everything.
Goatboy for Notable!!
Damn...
Goatboy for Legend!!
Damn..
Goatboy for Supreme ruler of the Universe!!
Damn..
Goatboy for Notable!!
Damn...
Goatboy for Legend!!
Damn..
Goatboy for Supreme ruler of the Universe!!
Damn..
Goatboy is one cynical mother humper. And that's why we love him (in a hate filled sort of way)
Goatboy wrote:
> Women - Easier to play than Nintendo games.
Except the strafing in Metroid Prime - that was impossible to get the hang of.
> Women - Easier to play than Nintendo games.
Except the strafing in Metroid Prime - that was impossible to get the hang of.
Goatboy wrote:
> You're being played mate, simple as that.
>
> She goes out to see "what it's like" and just happens to
> kiss somebody else and let you know.
> And now she's finding reasons to snipe?
> You say you've been out with many a girl, and in that case it should
> be brightly lit in neon "I'M PLAYING YOU".
> She's trying to push your buttons to make you explode, giving her
> reason to walk away guilt-free.
>
> Trust me, I know the tricks and your best bet is to walk away
> with no emails, letters or any further contact.
> OR
> If you're feeling spiteful, hump her best mate and let her know.
> You walk away, she's furious and she'll never speak to her best mate
> again.
>
> Women - Easier to play than Nintendo games.
LOL! Christ, havn't laughed that hard in ages, lol. And yes, I reckon you are right. Another one of niggles being confirm. She's always talking about "if you dump me, do it in person". "Would you cry". "I just want you to be happy, so if I aint wat you want, just dump me". Christ, it all makes perfect sense tbch!
Unfortunately her best mate is already in a 17month relationship, so that's a no. And her other one is off on holiday shortaly. No time! hehe. There is the one who I'd go out with if we separated... so... nah. She aint into sex. She thinks is disgusting... now that is weird!
> You're being played mate, simple as that.
>
> She goes out to see "what it's like" and just happens to
> kiss somebody else and let you know.
> And now she's finding reasons to snipe?
> You say you've been out with many a girl, and in that case it should
> be brightly lit in neon "I'M PLAYING YOU".
> She's trying to push your buttons to make you explode, giving her
> reason to walk away guilt-free.
>
> Trust me, I know the tricks and your best bet is to walk away
> with no emails, letters or any further contact.
> OR
> If you're feeling spiteful, hump her best mate and let her know.
> You walk away, she's furious and she'll never speak to her best mate
> again.
>
> Women - Easier to play than Nintendo games.
LOL! Christ, havn't laughed that hard in ages, lol. And yes, I reckon you are right. Another one of niggles being confirm. She's always talking about "if you dump me, do it in person". "Would you cry". "I just want you to be happy, so if I aint wat you want, just dump me". Christ, it all makes perfect sense tbch!
Unfortunately her best mate is already in a 17month relationship, so that's a no. And her other one is off on holiday shortaly. No time! hehe. There is the one who I'd go out with if we separated... so... nah. She aint into sex. She thinks is disgusting... now that is weird!
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