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"Confused about Girlfriend..."

I've had many a girlfriend in the past, but the one I am going out with at the moment is something very special and i can honestly say that I love her... and she loves me, or so she says.

Anyway, last week she sed she didn't want me to go out with her that friday as she was going out one last time with her friends before she went on holiday. Nothing to do with the fact they my friends as well.. anyway, I didn't go in the end. But they all stayed over nite at one of the friends house and apparantly she kissed this other guy, but broke away. She claims she cant remember it, and there were no witnesses, so I cant confirm either way.

We decided to forget about it. I wanted to be angry, just couldn't though. Very weird. She also then told me the real reason she went out was cos she wanted to see wat it was liked without me and then proceeded to go on about how she'll never exclude me again cos it wasn't fun.

She then went on holiday and is still on holiday and will be for a few more weeks. I went out friday nite and stayed at the same friends house and apparantly someone there told her that I was flirting with some of the girls there. All of which back me up in saying that I wasn't.

I then proceeded to get quite a hurtful email saying how I didn't think about her while she's out there and that I am using her kissing that guy as an excuse to get revenge. Even though I honestly did nothing.

I don't really have a reason to post this tbh. I just wanted some ppl to talk to it about with.

Basically, what would you all do? I love her... but at the same time I am hating her for making me feel this way. And i know she used to fancy the guy she kissed, so probably still does. And when she sed she is looking forward to getting home, seeing me wasn't the first thing she sed, it was so she could talk to him about something "important". That could be seen as 2 things. Either she's gonna tell him that him and her are never gonna happen... or well, I don't really wanna think about that...

I cant work anything out and I am very confused about it all... She even spent the whole of the day after she kissed the guy slagging him off... but you would though wouldn't you? You wouldn't be saying good things about them after something like that.

What should I do? Should I do anything? Anyone fancy offering some advise or physcological reports?


Thanks anyways.
Look forward to seeing some replies in the morning.

I got pushed into a fountain once cos I dumped someone. Was quite amusing cos I then pulled about 5 minutes afterwards cos some girl was more than happy to dry me off... lol.

Goatboy wrote:

> Failing that, just throw a glass of wine in her face and scream
> "You cow!" before storming out, with a mate handy to bash
> the "Dun-dun-dun" Eastenders drum thingy as you slam the
> door.

Genius!

Yeah, wats that all about?

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Goatboy wrote:
> Cheese test?
>
> I find doing lots of press-ups in a basement with "Eye of The
> Tiger" wailing from your stereo before she comes round should
> put you in a suitable mood for the evening's entertainment.
>
> Failing that, just throw a glass of wine in her face and scream
> "You cow!" before storming out, with a mate handy to bash
> the "Dun-dun-dun" Eastenders drum thingy as you slam the
> door.

Yeah, that'd be well funny. Definately unforgettable as well. But, I aint that cruel, I prefer a "I don't think this is working out and I wanna move on " sorta line. I only explain why and go into detail if they ask me.

Parr, you genius. ;-)

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Cheese test?

I find doing lots of press-ups in a basement with "Eye of The Tiger" wailing from your stereo before she comes round should put you in a suitable mood for the evening's entertainment.

Failing that, just throw a glass of wine in her face and scream "You cow!" before storming out, with a mate handy to bash the "Dun-dun-dun" Eastenders drum thingy as you slam the door.

I'm now never eating someone else's cheese again!