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Sun 11/07/04 at 22:46
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"I dnt hv a cachfras"
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I've had many a girlfriend in the past, but the one I am going out with at the moment is something very special and i can honestly say that I love her... and she loves me, or so she says.

Anyway, last week she sed she didn't want me to go out with her that friday as she was going out one last time with her friends before she went on holiday. Nothing to do with the fact they my friends as well.. anyway, I didn't go in the end. But they all stayed over nite at one of the friends house and apparantly she kissed this other guy, but broke away. She claims she cant remember it, and there were no witnesses, so I cant confirm either way.

We decided to forget about it. I wanted to be angry, just couldn't though. Very weird. She also then told me the real reason she went out was cos she wanted to see wat it was liked without me and then proceeded to go on about how she'll never exclude me again cos it wasn't fun.

She then went on holiday and is still on holiday and will be for a few more weeks. I went out friday nite and stayed at the same friends house and apparantly someone there told her that I was flirting with some of the girls there. All of which back me up in saying that I wasn't.

I then proceeded to get quite a hurtful email saying how I didn't think about her while she's out there and that I am using her kissing that guy as an excuse to get revenge. Even though I honestly did nothing.

I don't really have a reason to post this tbh. I just wanted some ppl to talk to it about with.

Basically, what would you all do? I love her... but at the same time I am hating her for making me feel this way. And i know she used to fancy the guy she kissed, so probably still does. And when she sed she is looking forward to getting home, seeing me wasn't the first thing she sed, it was so she could talk to him about something "important". That could be seen as 2 things. Either she's gonna tell him that him and her are never gonna happen... or well, I don't really wanna think about that...

I cant work anything out and I am very confused about it all... She even spent the whole of the day after she kissed the guy slagging him off... but you would though wouldn't you? You wouldn't be saying good things about them after something like that.

What should I do? Should I do anything? Anyone fancy offering some advise or physcological reports?


Thanks anyways.
Look forward to seeing some replies in the morning.
Sun 11/07/04 at 23:07
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"+34 Intellect"
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I zink ze problem stems vrom ze noorological cortex of ze vivfty zecond metatarsal.
Sun 11/07/04 at 23:08
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"Led Zeppelin"
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hahahahhahahahahahahahah lol :)
Sun 11/07/04 at 23:25
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Well if thats her attitude no-matter how much you love her take some time off from each other.
Sun 11/07/04 at 23:29
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WoopWoop wrote:
> lol, u come looking for serious advise and you get a loada preteen tos
> sers.
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Well come on, you come onto an internet gaming forum and expect to find people who have had girlfriends?!

Dude, use your head.

Though, if my girlfriend was screwing someone else, I'd put up the idea for a threesome.
Oh yes.
Sun 11/07/04 at 23:47
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"Which one's pink?"
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How you doin'?
Mon 12/07/04 at 00:02
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Dump the cow.
Mon 12/07/04 at 06:35
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So she can't remember it? You both decided to forget about it?

Sounds to me like she doesn't want to forget about it if she was 'slagging him off', and bringing it back up when you were accused of flirting. The people who told her you were flirting - are they her best friends? Probably working together to make you the bad one - like the immature little schoolgirls they are.

If you weren't flirting around, you have nothing to worry about - if she chooses not to believe or trust you, she's not worth being with - remember, it was her who actually kissed someone else.

Personally, I'd get rid of her, she's not worth it. I've seen those kinds of girl many times when I was at school - best avoided.

If this pathetic bitchiness carries on, just stop caring, go out and nail as many women as you can. You'll feel a lot better for it. Those types of girlfriends are best reserved for another mug. You shouldn't have to put up with it.

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On the other hand, if she really cares about you, the above advice would leave a lot of explaining to do...

Still, you can find better out there, whichever route you choose.
Mon 12/07/04 at 07:04
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Bullett's advice seems generally sound, apart from the last bit actually.

Mystique's just mucking around - ignore her.

Azul's just being Azul.

El Robin is too simple as usual.

Don't ask me, I don't have enough information.
Mon 12/07/04 at 07:09
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ßulle†† wrote:
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> If this pathetic bitchiness carries on, just stop caring, go out and
> nail as many women as you can. You'll feel a lot better for it.

Unless he does actually love her in which case he probably won't.
Mon 12/07/04 at 08:02
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Heh, good point :D

But, if it turns out that the relationship has to end for whatever reason, he'll need to get over it as depression can be a nasty illness.

Therefore, he should try to forget about her and go out on the pull again!

Love hurts. It's a fact you have to deal with.

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