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Wed 10/09/03 at 16:46
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I'm gunna start by saying that this is a serious topic, and that if you cannot take it for what it is, then leave now. I don't want you replying if you can't say anything helpful.

Hi.

I'm a regular on SR, but I have to protect my identity for whatever reason.

I'm 16, in year 11. In around 142 days, I will be leaving for study leave and what have you. Then it's GCSE's, and onto college. Now, I have to make a decision as to what college I am going to go to.

College A does my exact course. I will not be with any of my friends, as they are all going to other colleges. This is the only college that would provide me with the qualifications that I need.

College B doesn't do my course, but it has similar ones. At the open day we had there, I hated it. But, I will be around my mates and I will be around this girl. Who I just so happen to love.

I know I have know chance with her, and I know that because I am well, ugly, she would say no if she knew I fancied her anyway. But I can't bare not seeing her ever again. We are good mates, which is always a good thing. I need to decide whether to go to the same college as her or whether to go with my heart; my future. Saying that, she is my heart. If you see what I mean.

So, some advice please. Especially if you've been in the same boat as me before.

This isn't for people to try and guess who I am on the forums. If you guess correctly, I will come out and admit it. But I don't want people just replying and saying "Are you Mr. Snuggly?" (Which, I am not, for that matter).

Thanks,
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Thu 11/09/03 at 22:21
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"sdomehtongng"
Posts: 23,695
I know who this is. He posted by accident earlier today. :-)

Not going to go and give his identity away, though, as he obviously hasn't created a new account for nothing.

Anyway, about the question. I'd go with the college that does your course. Even if you maybe lose some of your friends (you might not, as you can still contact them, surely), you'll probably end up making new ones anyway. And the girl... bah, there are plenty more fish in the sea.

Do it for what you seriously want, and if your future depends on it, in my opinion, that's the way to go.
Thu 11/09/03 at 20:03
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Posts: 975
You should stick with the better option and better college not some floozy.
Thu 11/09/03 at 19:47
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"smile, it's free"
Posts: 6,460
Whether or not you should pay attention to the advice of complete strangers on the internet, there's one thing which you might want to think about:


Not one single person has told you to go to the same college as that girl.
Wed 10/09/03 at 21:45
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"aka memo aaka gayby"
Posts: 11,948
That isn't love, it's obsession.

You should go to the better college, and you won't be able to make the decision of what college to go to until after your GCSEs. While you'll be applying in May/June, you won't be accepted until they know your GCSE grades obviously enough. You may as well apply to both places, but if you get accepted into the better one, then you know that's where you should go.
Wed 10/09/03 at 21:20
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"may contain nuts"
Posts: 533
*punches air*

hmmm

*punches claire*
Wed 10/09/03 at 21:03
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"Light of the world"
Posts: 4,763
Bouncer wrote:
> Quieten down missy.
>
> 118 118
>
> :-P

AGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!

O i luvs ya really *group hug*
Wed 10/09/03 at 20:59
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"may contain nuts"
Posts: 533
Quieten down missy.

118 118

:-P
Wed 10/09/03 at 20:54
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"Light of the world"
Posts: 4,763
Bouncer wrote:
> I very much doubt you are "in love" as it were.
>
> I'm older than you, had plenty of girlfriend and never even thought I
> was "in love". I've said "love ya" and that, but
> normally in return for oral pleasuring.
>
> Don't throw your furure away for one girl, if she is as good a mate
> as you say, she will keep in touch with you.
>
> Or you could grow a pair or balls sometime soon and tell her how you
> feel before you make the decision of what college to go to and if she
> doesnt feel the same way, move on and stop stalking her, if she does
> the tap that ass son!


You can love someone you just havent found the right person yet.

The guy must have an extreme crush/obsession and it natural!

Admittedly to get over this girl that unfortunatly won't get anywhere with him he needs to move to the other college to move on.

Age doesnt have nothing to do with it.
I was in love at your age mister!
Wed 10/09/03 at 20:49
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"may contain nuts"
Posts: 533
Ashley wrote:
> heybouncer that is far to harsh, you are what 1 year older tahn him!
> don't try and make yourself out as the big man of experience! but
> moving on for thr future does seem the logical choice.

Well he asked for opinions, I gave mine. I was a little rude and for that I appoligise but my opinion stands. You can't obsess over the same girl forever, she is "the one that got away" - go write a romantic comedy about it and grow up.
Wed 10/09/03 at 20:39
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Posts: 3,893
Deee-Double you.
Maybe.

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