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"Nice guy? Who cares."

Ok this is a rant.
I haven't done one in an age and I've had enough of the multitude of crap we men take from women.
This isn't connected to anything else other than 2 weeks of realising what an utter wa##er I've been putting up with almost 3 years of subserviant crap for the sake of "a relationship".

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Women. Suck.
Really, they are emotionally immature, insecure, games playing, confused creatures.
And I've had enough of it.
I've had enough of not saying "No, I'm not happy about that" in case it upsets her.
I'm sick of the games they play and the little wounded routine when they know they're in the wrong but wont admit it.
I'm sick of them avoiding straight questions and saying "You don't understand" or "It doesn't matter"
IT DOES BLOODY MATTER
Don't just sit there and say "Nothing" when we ask you what's wrong.
Tell us. We are not f###ing psychics, we are not channels for your mind-messages.
T-E-L-L U-S.
That's all you have to do, it will save hours of frosty looks and it will save us wondering what we've done wrong.
That is childish.

I'm sick of seeing nice blokes, blokes that would go to the other end of the world if you asked, getting ignored/dumped/mistreated because you decide we must take a part in whatever sshite little emotional play you want to stage this week.

Get this for an example of why I have had enough of "being considerate" and "being understanding" and "being a nice guy".
I got dumped after 3 years.
She tells me, one Sunday afternoon that "this isn't working anymore"
Isn't it? Since when? How about letting me f###ing know at the time?
Eh?
So I,stupid boy that I am, spend days being upset and depressed and miserable, trying to convince her she's made a bad mistake and to please reconsider.
"It took me ages to reach this decision, I can't just change my mind like that".
Ok.
So I deal with it.
But because I'm such a nice f###ing guy, I dont get angry at her. I dont shout and scream, I dont tell her exactly what I think of how she's treated me.
Becuase all the while I'm still being "Mr Considerate"

Until it hits me:
You know what, this was your choice "babe", and I've got nothing to feel guilty about. I've not done anything or decided it's over.
You did.
And I let it go, I stopped hurling myself against her indifference in an attempt to get her to take me back.
I even agree with that whole "We'll still be friends" lie you both tell at the end.
And what happens?
I get a phone call, tearful, saying "I made a mistake"
Well guess what baby?
You made the biggest f####ing mistake of your life, because I dont want to come back.
Not after this.
How do I know you wouldn't decide to do that again and place me in the same emotional state on a whim?

F### that, I've got too much self respect to allow myself to be treated like that.
Take your "mistake" and your "This isnt working anymore" and jam it up your backside.

Because there was a time when I would drive over at 3am because you were upset about something, even though it meant I got no sleep and had to leave at 7am to get to work.
But that was before you decided "It wasn't working"
And when you told me you had to take a pay-cut because work was slow, I didnt offer to rush over and comfort you did I?
No
And do you know why? Because "It wasn't working"
Except when you get down and you need someone to tell you it'll be ok?
It seems to work pretty well just then eh?

Well let's take a long cold hard look at this world:
You dump a guy that worshipped the ground you walked on. A guy that would have done anything you asked.
And you act surprised when he doesn't say "Awww that's terrible" when you have woes.
Because where the f### were you when he needed comforting?
He always had to ask you to hold him?

Yeah, like I'll put myself in that position again.
No more Mr Sensitive.
No more Mr Do-anything-you-ask

I'm going to do exactly what I want, when I want.
Because I tried it the other way and I got f###ed.

Jokes on you woman, because now I tell you "You're right, this isn't working", you change your mind?
Tough.
You feel scared and want to be held because you approach financial difficulty?
Tough.
Phone someone that cares "baby"
Talk to someone you didn't destroy 2 weeks ago.

I gave you the chance to have what you now miss, and you didnt want it because you thought "it was best".
Well it was your choice, deal with it like a grown-up.
I've shed my last tear for women.
I've spent my last effort trying to reason with a species that plays games, leads you on, doesn't say what it means.

"We are a generation of men raised by women, I'm thinking is another woman really what we need?" - Fight Club.

Goatboy wrote:
> "Dont patronise me suicide-boy and take a long f###ing look at
> your own mess before you begin to try and analyse me"


heh.....cool!

Hmmm

I could say the same to you, but I'm not angry, because you're wrong.

Grix Thraves wrote:
Or in a more consise and less sarcastic manner:
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> Wake up.

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My immediate reaction to the 1st part of your post is:
"Dont patronise me suicide-boy and take a long f###ing look at your own mess before you begin to try and analyse me"

I write this stuff for my own amusement and purely for that. Not in the vain hope the object of my unrequited fixation will pity me and want to be with me because I'm "like, y'know, deep and stuff"

And if this sounds angry, it's because I am.
Try living in the grown-up world where two people are together. Not one person wanting it and the other refusing and dragging in complete strangers for advice.

I've had it with not saying what I mean.
Move out, get a relationship with someone that responds and then we'll see what kind of advice you can offer.
In the meantime, return to "Please notice my love" type posts and whacking off on the net.

I'm out.

I don't have much time for many females except my mum and some friends... from my little experience they're manipulative and mess with your head.

Sorry man, that was my fault. I was happy and I spoke my mind, shame on me.

Nah, seriously, stop looking, because you know deep down no-one will ever love you for who you are... what a shame, eh? Out of all those people that you pretended to like for deeper reasons, so they could all hug you tight and said they loved you, and you said you loved them so they could hold you tighter? Jese man, I dunno, guess it's all over for you now.

Or in a more consise and less sarcastic manner:

Wake up.

You made a mistake that you lived blind to for three years, and you're going to let that decide the rest of your life? Heh. Man, people who need the love stick together and die lonely, don't let this fun you up, because there's someone out there that can make you happy to be you for the rest of your life. Your girlfriend obviously needs the attention, and hasn't learned a thing, so for christ's sake don't think you've 'learned' not to bother, because all you should have learned is that you don't get anywhere by closing off roads because 'they were just too hard to go down'. Women are not evil, they're human, and just like men, they can be bitter, confused, and attention seeking disasters. You've just got to weave through em.

SHEEPY wrote:
> How fast this topic has changed :)

Yeah - them damn spamming notables ;)

Which is why I hardly post anything other than fart jokes here.

How fast this topic has changed :)

I thought that was sheep - Oh well, you small welsh people !!