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Question - When women go into the settling down phase of life, do they (consciously or otherwise) find themselves attracted to providers instead of lovers, or do they just 'settle' for a man who'll marry them?

i think woman just want a nice man to be with for the rest of there life with

crethburt wrote:
> Doctor B for sense of humour transplant in ward 2 for Bob, STAT ;
> )

Hehehe

In all honesty, the fact that my guy is a systems engineer and drives a Lexus makes it just a bit sweeter that I'm dating him. He's the lucky one though. :P

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I've just got back from the gym, and as such, am tired. Anyone feel like wrapping this whole topic in a nicely bound ball of one post for me?

Doctor B for sense of humour transplant in ward 2 for Bob, STAT ; )

*shrug* I just find the typical guy trait of having to insult women's looks who really aren't all that repulsive to be irritating.

And he was quite clearly joking too, but he didn't feel the need to insult anyone in doing so.

Bob_The_Moose wrote
> That's so...
>
> ARGH
>
>
> I think the word I was looking for was shallow.

interesting how you ignore "im marrying for money!" but call the just arrived having a joke shallow.

(Y)

biglime wrote:
> Ladybird wrote:
>
> I think it's important to find a a guy who can strike the
> balance of lover/companion/provider and to be confident in
> providing for yourself to never, ever have to lower your
> standards to "just settle.." no matter what age or
> phase of life.
>
> and what standards are those?

Well, not settling for an arrogant, abusive, broke frog.. just to name a few

>
> I just can't see why women have to rely on others to provide for
> them.

A lot of men rely on women too.

Edited that earlier post, but thought it might be more appropriate to just make a new post with it

It's not "important" to find a guy in that you have to have someone.. I think people need to be confident in being alright on their own, before they seek out to find that balance in another. Its a draining challenge to try reciprocating with someone who's nothing but desperate, insecure, and dependant. Desperate guys are a turnoff..

crethburt wrote:
> Yes, but unless they were planning to kill her shortly after
> marrying her (incidentally I will now be informing the feds),
> then they would have to live with her sagged jewel of a face.

That's so...

ARGH


I think the word I was looking for was shallow.