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One thing that really astonishes me is the number of people who sleep around in the world today. For those of us among us who believe in the Bibile, sex outside marriage is forbidden, yet so many people, religeous and otherwise, see it their duty to have multiple sexual partners. Its only a symbol of social standing in some places in AFRICA. How can we call ourselves the civilised world when we see fit to stick our john thomas in every place we can think of. Its level with the animals, and even some of them have the decency to confine themselves to one partner. (i.e. swans)
Im not trying to push chastity and say all sexual acticity is WRONG outside marriage, but I really think that sex and similar acts are something that you should share with only someone special. The only purpose of one night stands is to get some POONTANG with whatever skank can be found on the street. (I dont mean to degrade women, I just have to write this from the male perspective, the same applies to women)
Chastity generally means that you dont do ANYTHING sexual at all outside of marraige. Personally I dont see whats wrong with a little frolic in the garden of eden if its legal, legal by the bible, and doesnt put your future in jeprody through inadvertant pregnancy. What happens if the chick you boned on a one night stand get knocked up? Its your obligation to raise the b*****d child, and wed the whench. lol. I just enjoy using biassed language. I'll stop now.
Since (as I have been informed by a good friend of mine whos a history guru) the general practise of prolific intercourse has been going on for millenia, were not really doing anything different, however if we didnt do anything different we'd still be eating leaves, not even using tools. Evolution and invention meant progress, technological and personal. Sleeping around like this means that sex isnt sacred. It becomes meaningless when you finally meet someone you marry, and all you can do is compare them to your previous partners.
I know Im on a losing side. Most of you are probably against me, but Id just like you to consider the idea of, not chastity, but, however hard it may be, not sleeping around. If you meet someone special to you, by all means, even if its not the first. At least then its actually meaningful. But having shallow, meaningless sex is....well...m**********g. YOU'LL GO BLIND SON!!
Im not trying to push chastity and say all sexual acticity is WRONG outside marriage, but I really think that sex and similar acts are something that you should share with only someone special. The only purpose of one night stands is to get some POONTANG with whatever skank can be found on the street. (I dont mean to degrade women, I just have to write this from the male perspective, the same applies to women)
Chastity generally means that you dont do ANYTHING sexual at all outside of marraige. Personally I dont see whats wrong with a little frolic in the garden of eden if its legal, legal by the bible, and doesnt put your future in jeprody through inadvertant pregnancy. What happens if the chick you boned on a one night stand get knocked up? Its your obligation to raise the b*****d child, and wed the whench. lol. I just enjoy using biassed language. I'll stop now.
Since (as I have been informed by a good friend of mine whos a history guru) the general practise of prolific intercourse has been going on for millenia, were not really doing anything different, however if we didnt do anything different we'd still be eating leaves, not even using tools. Evolution and invention meant progress, technological and personal. Sleeping around like this means that sex isnt sacred. It becomes meaningless when you finally meet someone you marry, and all you can do is compare them to your previous partners.
I know Im on a losing side. Most of you are probably against me, but Id just like you to consider the idea of, not chastity, but, however hard it may be, not sleeping around. If you meet someone special to you, by all means, even if its not the first. At least then its actually meaningful. But having shallow, meaningless sex is....well...m**********g. YOU'LL GO BLIND SON!!
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soul101 wrote:
> that legal system is something which was invented way back when.
> before that people used to go and stand on the steps of thew church
> and simply say "we're married" and that was that. the idea
> behind the legality is to provide security.
>
Jesus dude! If any randy young couple wanted too, they'd just run to the Church, mumble this and go and make the music. WHAT ABOUT THE SANCTITY OF MARRIAGE?!!!!
> that legal system is something which was invented way back when.
> before that people used to go and stand on the steps of thew church
> and simply say "we're married" and that was that. the idea
> behind the legality is to provide security.
>
Jesus dude! If any randy young couple wanted too, they'd just run to the Church, mumble this and go and make the music. WHAT ABOUT THE SANCTITY OF MARRIAGE?!!!!
Sex is for procreation. It's not a 'gift', it's the way we propogate the sepcies, the same as EVERY OTHER creature on the planet. There is also a 'special bond' yes - but then again, what's the use of marrying if you don't even realise you have it!
As you said, we'll never agree. Mainly because most of us don't believe in religion. If you think about it, instead of religion being the dominant force for many years, the obvious thing would be to view it as a group who was bossily trying to tell everyone to do stuff, simply because they knew better.........
As you said, we'll never agree. Mainly because most of us don't believe in religion. If you think about it, instead of religion being the dominant force for many years, the obvious thing would be to view it as a group who was bossily trying to tell everyone to do stuff, simply because they knew better.........
that legal system is something which was invented way back when. before that people used to go and stand on the steps of thew church and simply say "we're married" and that was that. the idea behind the legality is to provide security.
Besides, if God says that's what we gotta do, who am i to argue. Me and my girlfriend are more than prepared to wait.
Of course, if you don't believe in God that wouldn't matter to you, so really we are never going to agree. I believe God has deemed sex to be a special bond between 2 people, you think its a way to make babies, and is simply great fun. Sex for me has meaning, for you it's just leisure.
totalitarian institution? I guess God could be considered a dictator, as he does dictate, well, everything. and don't get me started on the difference between religion and christianity...
Besides, if God says that's what we gotta do, who am i to argue. Me and my girlfriend are more than prepared to wait.
Of course, if you don't believe in God that wouldn't matter to you, so really we are never going to agree. I believe God has deemed sex to be a special bond between 2 people, you think its a way to make babies, and is simply great fun. Sex for me has meaning, for you it's just leisure.
totalitarian institution? I guess God could be considered a dictator, as he does dictate, well, everything. and don't get me started on the difference between religion and christianity...
Here's a radical idea; why don't those people who want to have sex before marriage, have sex before marriage. And those that don't, just don't. Simple really, innit?
Here's another thing; you don't get people who are in favour of sex before marriage telling those that aren't that they are somehow bad people for waiting until they get married before rutting away like God intended. Yet certain religious types feel it's their solemn duty to tell people what they can and can't do in the bedroom. If you don't play the game, then don't try and make the rules.
As a final point, ever notice how it's only totalitarian organisations that try and control their followers' sex life?
Here's another thing; you don't get people who are in favour of sex before marriage telling those that aren't that they are somehow bad people for waiting until they get married before rutting away like God intended. Yet certain religious types feel it's their solemn duty to tell people what they can and can't do in the bedroom. If you don't play the game, then don't try and make the rules.
As a final point, ever notice how it's only totalitarian organisations that try and control their followers' sex life?
The bible makes it very clear that humans are God's creation and must populate the earth, but can only do so once some little legal agreement says so. It's all, in Pandy's words, rot.
soul101 wrote:
> i agree with fozz. sex belongs after marriage.
Rot. I'd love to find out after I'm married whether I'm sexaully compatable with someone......... While sex isn't everything in a relationship, it can be a large part. Imagine finding out after marrage that your sex drives are woefully mismatched? Can't be good, and would lead to unhappiness to one or both parties.
> i agree with fozz. sex belongs after marriage.
Rot. I'd love to find out after I'm married whether I'm sexaully compatable with someone......... While sex isn't everything in a relationship, it can be a large part. Imagine finding out after marrage that your sex drives are woefully mismatched? Can't be good, and would lead to unhappiness to one or both parties.
i agree with fozz. sex belongs after marriage. I think it's especially sad that it happens in the church. That these kids are going to church on sundays to please their parents, but don't have the faith to believe that God exists for themselves. I know so many kids from strong christian homes who seem to believe that Gods laws don't apply to them. it's a symptom of the liberal attitude of the church, where church isn't about meeting with God, it's about filling a building. "Sure, you can do whatever you like. we're all sinners. all you have to do is say sorry and it will all cancel out..." not quite.
The bible makes it very clear that promiscuity is an abomination to God. why deviate?
And no all of us don't say so...
The bible makes it very clear that promiscuity is an abomination to God. why deviate?
And no all of us don't say so...
Although quite a few people think that I wouldnt even come near saying that everyone does. A lot of people I know have strong faith in their religeon, more than people I know who dont.
Trish wrote:
> I dont believe in religion in the slightest Fozz, I believe it was a
> made up thing by humans for the purposes of having someone/thing to
> blame for things going wrong and to be there when people feel alone
> or to look to when people cant get help from anywhere else.
And so say all of us...
> I dont believe in religion in the slightest Fozz, I believe it was a
> made up thing by humans for the purposes of having someone/thing to
> blame for things going wrong and to be there when people feel alone
> or to look to when people cant get help from anywhere else.
And so say all of us...
I think theres more to it than just biology. I find it very illogical. It can drive people to do ridiculous things, even endanger their own lives (as do certain animals when protecting their young, but Im not admitting anything) why does it make sense to get enjoyment from just...spending time with someone? it doesnt make sense at all.
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