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Mon 19/01/04 at 12:40
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"Orbiting Uranus"
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Shouldn't people hiding your stuff finish when you leave school?

I'm actually really upset about this in a confusing yet l;ocking my self away on the toilet and sobbing way, so any immanture remarks are best kept to yourself.

Part of my work is helping out one of the girls I work with called Afroditi to isolate white blood cells from whole blood. I go and collect a box which contains a syringe full of blood in it.

Today I brought the box into the lab and went to put on my lab coat. When I got back to the box there was no blood in it, so I assumed that the hospital had forgotten to put the syringe in.

Another girl from the lab then called me over to ask some advice about something else, when I got back from doing that I told Afroditi that there was no blood in the box, so she opened it up and there the blood was.

Know I feel so syupid, I feel like a complete idiot for making a fool of myself, and for getting set up, and asked for my advice, when the only reason was to get me out of the way.

Dramatic I know, but I wanted to be dead, then I wanted the people who had done it to be dead, and I think there is something wrong with me, because this is such a small thing and I've gone completely to pieces over it. I just needed to tell someone, and here is the only outlet I have right now.
Mon 19/01/04 at 17:36
"Darkness, always"
Posts: 9,603
Reminds me of the whole 'mug' fiasco here at work.

The idea was supposed to be that everyone who filled in a certain questionaire at work would get a free company branded mug (great, I know), but due to some oddball cockup, the only person in the area we sit that got one was this lad Roy, despite EVERYONE having filled it out. Needless to say, the mug disappeared, re-appeared and disappeared again many a time, often teasing the mug's poor owner by appearing with, say, a teabag, or a chocolate bar in it, but always disappearing again before he could take advantage of it.

This went on for weeks.
Mon 19/01/04 at 16:02
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"leaf it aaaaht"
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I was with him for 4 months. I love him more than i ever thought i could love someone. Been talking to him all day about it. I was with someone for over a year but we broke up a year ago n this feels worse!
Mon 19/01/04 at 15:58
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"2 weeks to go..."
Posts: 349
Darling wrote:

> PS-my boyfriend dumped me today, i'm very fragile and will accept ANY
> words of wisdom, do not say anything about fish and sea's!

Ok, I had trouble accepting losing blokes that I was really into, but after the 2nd time it happened, I figured it out - the trick to not letting it hurt.

I don't know if this has happened to you before, but if it has then you will know, that you will be wondering what you ever saw in him in a few months. Try the following, it should help:

- Don't see him at all if that's possible
- As soon as you think about him, put it out of your mind and think about something else
- Don't try and work out why he dumped you - you will never be able to figure it out and you will end up thinking it must have been something you did which is wrong.
- If you feel lonely, call your friends, and make sure you appreciate how good it is to have friends, and how important they are to you. They can actually satisfy a lot of the cravings you have for the guy.
- Start focusing on your life, and let this be something that will make you stronger, and therefore more confident, more attractive, etc. Decide what you really want out of life, and start making it happen.
- Think about all of the pathetic women out there who beg for their partner back, and think about all the times you have been pathetic for a bloke, and make sure that never happens again, and just by knowing that you would never lower yourself for a bloke, and that you are important enough and have enough respect for yourself not to chase him, then you will feel even more important and powerful, and will ultimately gain more men that are interested in YOU, and not your looks or what they can get from you.
- Just know that you will be in a relationship at some point in your life (probably sooner than you think) that will be amazing and you will feel 100 times more about than this guy, and having him feel it back, is worth waiting for. We will all probably have a good number of relationships before we settle down for good, so at least you have this one out of the way and you can start looking forward to the next one!!!

What I'm getting at, is that if you work at making yourself happy and respecting yourself, and being strong and dealing with problems and getting through them, you will be so happy within yourself. and that inner radiance is such a beautiful thing.

Did you really like him? How long were you together.

By the way tell me where to go if I sound patronising or condescending. I've just got over someone I really fell for quickly, and it was really hard at first, but by doing all the above I feel happier than I did before I met him and really excited about the future.
Mon 19/01/04 at 15:32
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"leaf it aaaaht"
Posts: 7,914
Paradox: wrote:
> I see one way of sorting this out. It involves a 6-gauge shotgun,
> lighter fluid and a baseball cap.


meet you round the back at 5!
Mon 19/01/04 at 15:27
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"SOUP!"
Posts: 13,017
I see one way of sorting this out. It involves a 6-gauge shotgun, lighter fluid and a baseball cap.
Mon 19/01/04 at 15:20
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"leaf it aaaaht"
Posts: 7,914
i don't think Rosalind is over reacting. Girls get anoyed at these things. This boy at work keeps pulling my hair and i just want to scream cry and punch him-and thats on a good day!

Rosalind, get your own back and sew up the sleeves of their lab coats!


PS-my boyfriend dumped me today, i'm very fragile and will accept ANY words of wisdom, do not say anything about fish and sea's!
Mon 19/01/04 at 15:09
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"That's right!"
Posts: 10,645
Actually, I'm just too unimportant to have email. I'm only two steps up from the cleaners. Still, £6.80 an hour ain't bad.
Mon 19/01/04 at 15:00
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"2 weeks to go..."
Posts: 349
MoJoJoJo wrote:
> I work for the government and *I* don't use email. We have phones and
> letters - the height of technology.

You're just trying to cover up for the government aren't you - show that they don't waste taxpayers money on unnecessary things like email?!!
Mon 19/01/04 at 14:41
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"That's right!"
Posts: 10,645
I work for the government and *I* don't use email. We have phones and letters - the height of technology.
Mon 19/01/04 at 14:37
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"2 weeks to go..."
Posts: 349
Icarus wrote:
>
> Does everybody have email there?
> Are you serious?

Totally serious! I didn't know if lab workers would use email!

I'm feeling a bit stupid now...

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