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long story short:-

i have known this girl for 4 years or so. We were really good friends, but always connected on a different level than other friends but never really talked about much deep stuff or personal feelings. I always found her attractive and i guess always wanted to go out with her but never pushed it. Any time i've been at my lowest or humiliated shes been there, although i'd whish she hadn't, but she's always stuck by me. I really think she does like me, maybe even love me, as a friend if nothing else. as of late (last 4 weeks) we've been getting closer and going out ... once. This last week ive been really nervous around her, and she has been frosty to me to. whats going on? Have i ruined a perfect friendship.

P.S. 4 years ago i had a crush on her, thats what initially brought us together,ever since we've gradually got closer.

*Thrusts*

There it is..

English_Bloke wrote:
> I accept a lot, but not cheating!
>
> *Storms off*

Eh? Have you gone strange on me, English. I'm being very stupid and missing your point ...

:-/

English_Bloke wrote:
> Zhuge Liang wrote:
> worldy wise than any other girl, ie. well travelled
>
> So, she’s been around then?
>
> I kid, I kid.
>
> Seriously man, just talk to her. Tell her all this, but in a more
> manly way.

But if she doesn't feel the same, what then, i dont want to loose such a good friend.

and to hell with being ultra manly about it, if i was gay this would be a lot more simple

Timmargh wrote:
> If you don't do it I bloody will!

I accept a lot, but not cheating!

*Storms off*

If you don't do it I bloody will!

Seriously, dude, it's the best way to go.

Zhuge Liang wrote:
> worldy wise than any other girl, ie. well travelled

So, she’s been around then?

I kid, I kid.

Seriously man, just talk to her. Tell her all this, but in a more manly way.

within the last few months we got closer, and that was when i really started to 'love' everything about her.

This is goin to get soppy, but anyway.

shes the most kind, caring person i know. Shes incredably smart, and her exam results prove it. she is so much more 'wise' as in mature and worldy wise than any other girl, ie. well travelled like myself. she has always been there for me, always listens, but also always gives me a reality check. but we never went out in a group, neither of us wanted to.

The reason i have started to feel this way may be because she went away over the summer for 7-8 weeks, and i really missed her (we had no means of communication, other side of world and contantly traveling), it was obvious that she missed me too.

Ok, why do you like her?

i've known her for a long time, but havn't always felt the way i feel now.