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long story short:-

i have known this girl for 4 years or so. We were really good friends, but always connected on a different level than other friends but never really talked about much deep stuff or personal feelings. I always found her attractive and i guess always wanted to go out with her but never pushed it. Any time i've been at my lowest or humiliated shes been there, although i'd whish she hadn't, but she's always stuck by me. I really think she does like me, maybe even love me, as a friend if nothing else. as of late (last 4 weeks) we've been getting closer and going out ... once. This last week ive been really nervous around her, and she has been frosty to me to. whats going on? Have i ruined a perfect friendship.

P.S. 4 years ago i had a crush on her, thats what initially brought us together,ever since we've gradually got closer.

show her your phallus. It should work.

English_Bloke wrote:
> Bless, not much else I can say to that...well done!

Heh. I check it most days, just to make sure ...

Zhuge Liang wrote:
> thanks for your advice

No problem, just hope it helped in some way.

Timmargh wrote:
> Thanks, but I've got one of my own. At least that's one part of my body that still works ...

Bless, not much else I can say to that...well done!

English_Bloke wrote:
> Thanks, may need it later.
>
> Then again...you can hold on to it for the weekend.

Thanks, but I've got one of my own. At least that's one part of my body that still works ...

thanks for your advice

Thanks, may need it later.

Then again...you can hold on to it for the weekend.

Oh, sorry.

*hands it back*

*Looks down*

"Where did it go?

English_Bloke wrote:
> *Thrusts*
>
> There it is..

Erm. Okay.

*wanders off, confused and unhappy*

Zhuge Liang wrote:
> But if she doesn't feel the same, what then,

Well, all you can do is accept it. And try to stay friends.

Let me ask you this. How much are you loving being friends with this girl when you want more?