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Look I need to know how to kiss. I'm 13 and like this girl. Problem is I don't know what to do on a first date. Do I kiss her? If so then how? A little peck or what? Also what do I do on a first date?

what the sheep says is true. Besides your 13 your not supposed to be some sex charged romeo, you seem to be going along fine as it is, youve done the hard part in getting her to come out with you, and providing you get on well everything else should fall into place.

If she feels like she’s the king of the world, give her a little space…to sort things out in her head.

Last thing you want is to be going out with someone who decides after a few years that she wants to become Dave instead of Daisy.

SHEEPY has hit the nail bang on the head though. If she isn't experienced then she will be just as nervous and the kiss will be as the SHEEP said.

P.S. don’t wipe the slobber off your chin in front of her…it will make her feel self-conscious.

Ah reminds me of being 12 again on the way to Paris... I think I was close to headbutting her.

Now that I'm older french kissing seems to be redundant... which is a shame but not really because it is placed with affectionate kissy wissy woo.

Kiss Kiss

Chances are mate - she won't know what to do either. It will probably be a terrible teeth clashing slob fest but then the two of you will feel like you've killed a tiger and are king of the world.

Awwww you cutie!!!

Dude I wasn't late 15 till I had my first kiss

*cries* I was really nervous about boys... then my little brother kissed someone before i did which crippled my ego so off i went -

Don't spend all time slobbering, try let her talk about her, what she likes, what she did when she was little, bla bla...her her (works with most women) then she'll want to find out about you and you will be able to say 'pink O M G i lurrrrve pink etc'

anyway. No washing machines - take your time, be cool and calm, don't try to think too much just go with the flow..

Awww, bless.

DW wrote:
> My mate Ashley says:
> u do tounge and the lot and how u do it is u shove it in swirl it
> arouynd and pull it out
>
> I'll translate that.
>
> You do tongue and the lot. To do it, shove it in and swirl it around
> and then pull it out.

I would like to dissacociate myself from this! Although disturbingly i do live quite near DW!


Yeah what cookie said basically, don't spend all your time just trying to kiss her. If its happening go with it, its not particularly hard and the better you get to know each other the easier it gets, if your not comfortablejust going for it, just like holding hand and put your arms round her to start with, so you get more comfortable with each other, it will just work out. Don't rush things I generally find the better you lay the ground works the better the relationship runs in the long term, If you feel brave and she seems fairly recieving then by all means try but don't worry about it. She obviously likes you if she wants to go out with you so take your time and make sure your both comfortable. Just be nice, and don't pressure her or put your self in an awkward position otherwise you can just kill it when things are vulneralbe. Most importantly don't listen to anyone on here, (including me!) only you know your own situation, the girl your with and how things are between you, don't rush but do things how you feel comfortable.

Kiriyama wrote:
> *Sniggers*
>
> Brilliant :D

I was just trying to help the guy out ...

*blushes and feels stupid*

*stupid moves out of reach*

etc.

Mystique wrote:
> Ha ha ha oh this is fantastic.
> You're asking an internet forum full of geeks, weirdos and losers how
> to kiss?

Spiderman.

Hercules! wrote:
> You are one of the, if not the, biggest geeks on here.
>
> But the rest of you are geeks too.
>
> *sigh*
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Says toga skirt boy! :p

gie us a gobble