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Just wondering of the general consensus on this topic. This is in no way meant to identify or indignify anyone's individual choices, only to discuss reasonings.
1) If a couple wanted a baby, how long should they wait, after first meeting eachother, before having a baby? Is there a standard, socially acceptable time frame??
2) Do you believe said couple should marry first, before a baby?
3) But, what if it was an unplanned pregnancy? Should they get married for the sake of the baby and somehow try to make it work? (Excluding dysfunctional relationships - ie, domestic violence, abuse, etc..)
4) Do you believe that people should get married because they want or they're expecting a baby?
5) Or, do you believe women wanting children are better off getting artificially insemenated, because the mass of single mothers is increasing anyways? Why hassle with the man factor??
6) Why do you believe it's more socially accepted these days to have babies without being married, whereas generations ago it wasn't?
Thank you, you're comments would be greatly appreciated. :)
1) If a couple wanted a baby, how long should they wait, after first meeting eachother, before having a baby? Is there a standard, socially acceptable time frame??
2) Do you believe said couple should marry first, before a baby?
3) But, what if it was an unplanned pregnancy? Should they get married for the sake of the baby and somehow try to make it work? (Excluding dysfunctional relationships - ie, domestic violence, abuse, etc..)
4) Do you believe that people should get married because they want or they're expecting a baby?
5) Or, do you believe women wanting children are better off getting artificially insemenated, because the mass of single mothers is increasing anyways? Why hassle with the man factor??
6) Why do you believe it's more socially accepted these days to have babies without being married, whereas generations ago it wasn't?
Thank you, you're comments would be greatly appreciated. :)
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We dont talk about this stuff in private though :S There different issues...
That i dont want to go in to here....
That i dont want to go in to here....
Neither am I, just pointing out that what you say here differs greatly from the things you tell me in private. I begin to wonder which version is the truthful one.
Seraphim wrote:
> Voltaire wrote:
> Ah but thats to do with your ex, not all guys are like that.
> Some are actually good dads, believe it or not :D
>
> Not all guys i know!
Thats all i'm saying. Ideally you'd have 2 good parents to raise a child but life isn't ideal and you do the best you can.
> Voltaire wrote:
> Ah but thats to do with your ex, not all guys are like that.
> Some are actually good dads, believe it or not :D
>
> Not all guys i know!
Thats all i'm saying. Ideally you'd have 2 good parents to raise a child but life isn't ideal and you do the best you can.
Is not silly, what im telling you in private are different issues and has nothing to do with you and the willingness to take on my boys. I know you would do that. Ill always have different issues with you, but that doesnt mean i wouldnt have been prepared to work things out with you given the chance. We had issues we probably could have worked through and i had issues from my past i couldnt shake off.
pffft im not bringing all the detils here!
pffft im not bringing all the detils here!
It's funny, considering what you're telling me in private.
Meh.
Meh.
Voltaire wrote:
> Ah but thats to do with your ex, not all guys are like that.
> Some are actually good dads, believe it or not :D
Not all guys i know!
> Almost sounds like you think that would be the case with every
> single guy on the planet. Had you had a decent guy who was
> around and helpful you would have seen what i mean. As it is,
> you're probably right on this ocassion and you were better off
> without him.
Yeah i was better off in this occasion. Ill have different views obviously if i met Mr Right though right ?
> Ah but thats to do with your ex, not all guys are like that.
> Some are actually good dads, believe it or not :D
Not all guys i know!
> Almost sounds like you think that would be the case with every
> single guy on the planet. Had you had a decent guy who was
> around and helpful you would have seen what i mean. As it is,
> you're probably right on this ocassion and you were better off
> without him.
Yeah i was better off in this occasion. Ill have different views obviously if i met Mr Right though right ?
Bullett wrote:
> Perhaps not, but you made your post giving the impression that
> you've yet to meet someone willing to take on your Kids.
I am yet to meet someone yes, but not willing to take on my kids. You were prepared to do that, or so you say but it was the rest that bothered me.
> I was there and that still wasn't good enough. Oh well.
Like i said there was more to things with us then just you willing to take on my kids.
> Perhaps not, but you made your post giving the impression that
> you've yet to meet someone willing to take on your Kids.
I am yet to meet someone yes, but not willing to take on my kids. You were prepared to do that, or so you say but it was the rest that bothered me.
> I was there and that still wasn't good enough. Oh well.
Like i said there was more to things with us then just you willing to take on my kids.
Seraphim wrote:
> Maybe but to be honest looking back now i have done a batter job
> in bringing them up on my own then i ever did when i was with my
> ex.
Ah but thats to do with your ex, not all guys are like that. Some are actually good dads, believe it or not :D
> However i havent got the extra help, to be honest even if i was
> in a relationship i dont think things would be any different.
> What would i get from someone now been in a relationship.
> "Oh there not my kids you deal with them".
> Unless i was to come across a half decent guy who would accept
> my kids.
Almost sounds like you think that would be the case with every single guy on the planet. Had you had a decent guy who was around and helpful you would have seen what i mean. As it is, you're probably right on this ocassion and you were better off without him.
> Maybe but to be honest looking back now i have done a batter job
> in bringing them up on my own then i ever did when i was with my
> ex.
Ah but thats to do with your ex, not all guys are like that. Some are actually good dads, believe it or not :D
> However i havent got the extra help, to be honest even if i was
> in a relationship i dont think things would be any different.
> What would i get from someone now been in a relationship.
> "Oh there not my kids you deal with them".
> Unless i was to come across a half decent guy who would accept
> my kids.
Almost sounds like you think that would be the case with every single guy on the planet. Had you had a decent guy who was around and helpful you would have seen what i mean. As it is, you're probably right on this ocassion and you were better off without him.
Perhaps not, but you made your post giving the impression that you've yet to meet someone willing to take on your Kids.
I was there and that still wasn't good enough. Oh well.
I was there and that still wasn't good enough. Oh well.
Bullett wrote:
> Hehe, I guess you completely ignored my willingness then :/
It wasnt your willingness that was an issue though hun!
> Hehe, I guess you completely ignored my willingness then :/
It wasnt your willingness that was an issue though hun!
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