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"Massive fight last night"

I am in such a bad way. I had a massive fight with my girlfriend last night. We have been together for over a year and I love her dearly, but last night we had the worst fight ever. We were even physical with each other and I would never usually hit a woman. In the end I told her I wanted her to be out of my house tomorrow - because she lives with me. I slept in another room last night and this morning we didn't say a word to each other. We dodged each other round the house and went to work our seperate ways.

I dont know what to say to her when/if I see her when I get back from work. Deep down I dont want her to go as I love her and we have fun together, but we have been arguing loads and I have been finding myself looking at other women, thinking "she looks nice". I'm sure she doesn't want to leave either, but I am really stuborn and dont think I can say sorry to her.

Please help me.....

Troubled Mind wrote:
> well update, last night i got home from work before she did and when
> she got home we gave each other a big hug and appologised. we said we
> were both stupid and never going to do it again. we had the best sex
> afterwards :o)

Um. don't believe you! need evidence. did you Video it? lol! Oh well maybe you should argue more if there are pleasant side effects!

Sooooo, which one is Tyler Durden again?

Troubled Mind wrote:
> well update, last night i got home from work before she did and when
> she got home we gave each other a big hug and appologised.

Awww, so sweet!

we said we
> were both stupid and never going to do it again.

Until the next time.

we had the best sex
> afterwards :o)

Thanks for sharing that with us :/

well update, last night i got home from work before she did and when she got home we gave each other a big hug and appologised. we said we were both stupid and never going to do it again. we had the best sex afterwards :o)

if you read properly goaty, you would see that the female was not struck, but merely restrained from inflicting damage on the other party.

No excuse for hitting a woman, under any circumstances.

If you strike your girlfriend, then you are a punk-coward that needs taking out behind the barn for 10 minutes.

Weak-ass punk.

If you are having such physical fights then you have to think to yourself is your relationship worth a black eye? I'm not saying that you can't get back together but you must think to yourself is your relationship based on a physical attraction so you should talk to the girl and you may find out a lot of new things about them that will either make or break your relationship.

Hope I've been of help :D

finally some good advise. thanks mate.

Troubled Mind bloke, righto.

I find other women attractive and pretty. I tell my girlfriend. She often agrees that they're attractive, pretty etc.

The point is, it's not that you find other women attractive, it's that you hide it from your girlfriend, that you hide back your emotions. How on earth can anyone ever love you if you don't speak your mind? Because that's what love is about, being completely open with each other and falling in love that way. It's not about remembering all the lovely times you lay in bed and she stroked your hair.

So, talk to her. Go find her, apologise for being a pillock, because you are and were, and for God's sake talk to her, about everything. Don't confide in others about your problems, tell her instead.

If you're meant to be, you'll work it all out, if not, break up, more fish etc.

wow. I'm sure that I'm not the only person in the whole world who argued with their girlfriend last night. What happened to me last night is what usually happens if a couple argue. It's just a coincidence mate.