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"Real friend or not?"

I have this problem with a friend at school,a few people already know about my friend wanting me to get drunk and smoke with her.I've been told that I'm too nice and need to make a stand for myself once in a while.I did that today.

I was in english with my friend and she asked me if I had got the alchol yet.I said to her that I didn't want to do it and she started to be horrible to me,swearing at me and calling me names.I didn't like it so I told her that I would do it.

I told my sister about the problem child last night and she told me that I shouldn't do it.I told my mum about it a couple of hours ago,she told me that I was sensible enough to not want to do it but I should tell my problem.Then I said to her that the problem wanted to do this stunt at my house because it's isolated and nobody from my school would see us.Mum said that problem was stupid.

Problem then texted me asking me 'Hve u askd yt abt the bze?Hve u askd if i cn go rnd 2 ur hse yt?'
Translation:'Have you asked yet about the booze?Have you asked if I can go round to your house yet?'
To which I replied:'No,I don't want to do it.Your just stupid and I'm sensible enough to pull out.Ask when your older.I still won't do it,not with you.'
Then she replied:'Wot,u ****ing swot.'
That was it,I had to make my mum text back to her.

Truth was,when that girl said that to me,it really upset me.She teased me because I had common sense.I know that I'm in trouble with other girls now for using my brain and deciding not to gamble with my life by smoking and getting drunk.Problem is always horrible to me and I want to ditch her but I can't because knowing her-she'll hit me like she does with the others.
This whole thing is getting me down now I've made her mad,she'll tell the other 'cool' girls and I'll be really unpopular then.
What do I do?

You're a very hepful lot aren't you?

erm well she obviously aint a real friend if she will do that, some of mine drink a lot but they no i dont so that think that is fine

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I have this problem with a friend at school,a few people already know about my friend wanting me to get drunk and smoke with her.I've been told that I'm too nice and need to make a stand for myself once in a while.I did that today.

I was in english with my friend and she asked me if I had got the alchol yet.I said to her that I didn't want to do it and she started to be horrible to me,swearing at me and calling me names.I didn't like it so I told her that I would do it.

I told my sister about the problem child last night and she told me that I shouldn't do it.I told my mum about it a couple of hours ago,she told me that I was sensible enough to not want to do it but I should tell my problem.Then I said to her that the problem wanted to do this stunt at my house because it's isolated and nobody from my school would see us.Mum said that problem was stupid.

Problem then texted me asking me 'Hve u askd yt abt the bze?Hve u askd if i cn go rnd 2 ur hse yt?'
Translation:'Have you asked yet about the booze?Have you asked if I can go round to your house yet?'
To which I replied:'No,I don't want to do it.Your just stupid and I'm sensible enough to pull out.Ask when your older.I still won't do it,not with you.'
Then she replied:'Wot,u ****ing swot.'
That was it,I had to make my mum text back to her.

Truth was,when that girl said that to me,it really upset me.She teased me because I had common sense.I know that I'm in trouble with other girls now for using my brain and deciding not to gamble with my life by smoking and getting drunk.Problem is always horrible to me and I want to ditch her but I can't because knowing her-she'll hit me like she does with the others.
This whole thing is getting me down now I've made her mad,she'll tell the other 'cool' girls and I'll be really unpopular then.
What do I do?