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"Tallulah opinion needed please (and some grown-ups)"

Should I ask my lady to marry me.
I mean tonight.

Why?
Dunno, seems like the thing to do and she does make a nice cup of tea.

Oh, that and the fact she's the last thing on my mind at night and the 1st thing in the morning.

So?

You obviously love her, so I'd go for it. But then, this is me, and we argue a lot, so my opinion means nowt.

Stryke - Still beardy

Oh yes, well you've come to a decision at last then.Good stuff. You know you will ask her though, its inevitable. And get her a decent ring , even better if you get the correct size so she can wear it straight away.

Well I may not be sure whether to stick a ring on her, but I do know that my girlfriend is the absolute reason I wake up each morning and I would burn down the heavens if she asked.

So why the fear I have?

Goatboy wrote:
> Tallulah wrote:

Anyway, enough of me - whats your decision?

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My
> decision is to wait whilst she is back home.
That gives me a couple more weeks
> to get over the panic and check out rings.

She does float my boat
> though.
And if you can't see yourself with yer fella for ever, why are you with
> him now?

Good question, have been thinking about it a lot for a few months now. Too scared to dip my toes back into the water I suppose. Besides, I only ever think of today anyway, not what could happen in a few years, or even next week! Que sera sera.

Tallulah wrote:

Anyway, enough of me - whats your decision?

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My decision is to wait whilst she is back home.
That gives me a couple more weeks to get over the panic and check out rings.

She does float my boat though.
And if you can't see yourself with yer fella for ever, why are you with him now?

There's just one thing you can do, and that is decide whether or not you are comited to marrying her.

You are hesitating here, but why?? Are you hesitating because you are scared she will say no, or is it because you aren't sure if your ready? If it's the first, there's only one thing for it, ask her, it's the only way you'll ever know.

If you don't you'll regret it forever.......

I'll ask my Magic 8 Ball for you:

A. In due time

But I gave it a shake and it said "Absolutely".

I don't want to get married, it all traditional crap. If I meet someone and love them then I don't feel the need for it, but if they wanted too I suppose I would.

Why not declare your love for her then ask if she wants to get married... or something.

Good Luck anywho

Good luck if you decide Yes Goaty.. me off now.

Goatboy wrote:
> God this is worse than when the bully comes up to you at school and says
> "See you at 3pm. I'm gonna kick your face off".

Nerves, but also
> that "What if?" factor.
I need a ring.
A massive one as big as my
> head before I can consider this further.

Tally, why would you say no to
> yours?

If he had asked me two years into our relationship, I'd have said yes, like a shot. But relationships change, and after 5 years, I've seen too much of the downside now, and I wouldnt want to feel like I'd be committing to 30 or more years of that.

Anyway, enough of me - whats your decision?

God this is worse than when the bully comes up to you at school and says "See you at 3pm. I'm gonna kick your face off".

Nerves, but also that "What if?" factor.
I need a ring.
A massive one as big as my head before I can consider this further.

Tally, why would you say no to yours?