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"Tallulah opinion needed please (and some grown-ups)"

Should I ask my lady to marry me.
I mean tonight.

Why?
Dunno, seems like the thing to do and she does make a nice cup of tea.

Oh, that and the fact she's the last thing on my mind at night and the 1st thing in the morning.

So?

Mr. Nice Guy wrote:
She sleeps on your face??!?!

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And you'll marry a woman that does that as well.
Trust me
(ask your older brother)

You've already said that your boyfriend ain't ringing your bell.
Maybe this is the reason?

Ring Size:

My mum was getting my dad's wedding ring re-fitted for his birthday... so when he was drunk or asleep can't remember which she measure his finger with some string.

"Oh, that and the fact she's the last thing on my mind at night and the 1st thing in the morning."

She sleeps on your face??!?!

Tallulah wrote:

Dont be crude,
> no Im not.

Go on.
I'll marry me bird if you go for it.

Goatboy wrote:
> That and the fact that I have only 1 mate who's parents are still
> together.
Mine split when I were a nipper.

Just dont want to repeat
> that.

Ingrained fear.
This is getting far too serious...er...
So, you gonna
> let your mate touch you?

Dont be crude, no Im not.

Goatboy wrote:
> Tallulah wrote:
And get her a decent ring , even better if
> you get the
> correct size so she can wear it straight away

How do I get the size right?
I
> can't ask her "oh, you know, just wondering in case you get it stuck in a
> bottle"

Umm, does she take her rings off to wash up, have a bath etc? cos if she does, nick one when she's not looking, let her think she's lost it, buy a ring, then later in the week, make out you found it looking for something. Or ask her mates if they can find out.

That and the fact that I have only 1 mate who's parents are still together.
Mine split when I were a nipper.

Just dont want to repeat that.

Ingrained fear.
This is getting far too serious...er...
So, you gonna let your mate touch you?

Goatboy wrote:
> Well I may not be sure whether to stick a ring on her, but I do know that my
> girlfriend is the absolute reason I wake up each morning and I would burn down
> the heavens if she asked.

So why the fear I have?

I couldnt possibly tell you. Perhaps you think you'll lose a bit of your identity by becoming a Mr & Mrs. Maybe you are happy with the way things are at the moment and dont want to rock the boat.

I think its just a bloke thing, innit? To be scared of marriage, its drummed into men when they are teens by their peers and crabby old uncles who have either a stale marriage or have been divorced 3 times!

Tallulah wrote:
And get her a decent ring , even better if
> you get the correct size so she can wear it straight away

How do I get the size right?
I can't ask her "oh, you know, just wondering in case you get it stuck in a bottle"