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"Men ??????????????"

For all the ladies out there - have any of you worked out just how men think?

For the men out there - HELPPPPPPPPPP!

I am really struggling to understand men, they seem to say one thing one minute, then something else completely different the next.
why cant you say what you mean and stick to it.

Ladybird wrote:
> Truth be told, you are over-complicating the simplicity that is
> this thread. :)

Nothing I said was complicated. This topic is about understanding people, I thought I'd put my two cents in about what I thought.

If people make it difficult for you to understand them, on purpose, I find them to be immature and lacking enough self confidence to realise they don't have to make themselves complicated to truly be someone special. To me, it's the people that are truthful that are special.

Grix Thraves wrote:
> I don't like people who drop hints or expect you to read their
> mind, especially when they're quite incapable of explaining
> themselves.. and not through their own use of words, but by
> their lack of emotional desire to do so.
>
> I live by the thought that life is complicated enough without
> trying, so keep everything as simple as you can. If you're
> hungry, eat. Tired, sleep. Horny, sex.
>
> And if you need a hand with something, for God's sake ask. If
> you're struggling, it's never something you should be too proud
> to simply admit. And if you love someone, tell them.
>
> Life isn't complicated, people make it so. Live life by doing
> the things that you'd regret not doing. I guess it takes a while
> to understand emotions, to understand yourself.. but, after a
> while I guess, once you stop trying to label things, or ask
> yourself too many questions, all you find in your heart is love,
> all you feel to do is care, and perhaps, maybe, you evolve beyond
> a point of thinking that's just for yourself and end up somewhere
> where you want to help and be there for the people around you.
>
> Maturity and such. People call me a complicated person, but I'm
> set on simple ground rules. It's the people that speak their
> minds, their hearts, that I admire the most. Maybe people are
> afraid that if they don't put upon these complexities, if they
> don't make things harder to understand, then they'll be revealed
> as simple, boring people. Not true. The most complicated thing in
> the world is the truth, and equally, the most simple thing. If
> you make it your meaning, to always do your best to tell the
> truth, what you feel inside, you'll find that the simplest
> things are indeed the most complicated. That love isn't just a
> word, that caring for someone is more than you could ever know,
> that laughter, the most simple of reactions, can be complicated,
> can be interesting, can be important.
>
> The most interesting people I have ever known are the most
> honest. You don't need to over-complicate things. Just simply
> speak the truth.



I would like to openly tell you that I think you have a lot of time on your hands. You know the devil likes idle hands..

Truth be told, you are over-complicating the simplicity that is this thread. :)

I don't like people who drop hints or expect you to read their mind, especially when they're quite incapable of explaining themselves.. and not through their own use of words, but by their lack of emotional desire to do so.

I live by the thought that life is complicated enough without trying, so keep everything as simple as you can. If you're hungry, eat. Tired, sleep. Horny, sex.

And if you need a hand with something, for God's sake ask. If you're struggling, it's never something you should be too proud to simply admit. And if you love someone, tell them.

Life isn't complicated, people make it so. Live life by doing the things that you'd regret not doing. I guess it takes a while to understand emotions, to understand yourself.. but, after a while I guess, once you stop trying to label things, or ask yourself too many questions, all you find in your heart is love, all you feel to do is care, and perhaps, maybe, you evolve beyond a point of thinking that's just for yourself and end up somewhere where you want to help and be there for the people around you.

Maturity and such. People call me a complicated person, but I'm set on simple ground rules. It's the people that speak their minds, their hearts, that I admire the most. Maybe people are afraid that if they don't put upon these complexities, if they don't make things harder to understand, then they'll be revealed as simple, boring people. Not true. The most complicated thing in the world is the truth, and equally, the most simple thing. If you make it your meaning, to always do your best to tell the truth, what you feel inside, you'll find that the simplest things are indeed the most complicated. That love isn't just a word, that caring for someone is more than you could ever know, that laughter, the most simple of reactions, can be complicated, can be interesting, can be important.

The most interesting people I have ever known are the most honest. You don't need to over-complicate things. Just simply speak the truth.

Alfonse wrote:
> Girls don't like ice cream? I'm going gay.

going?

jk (K)

Girlfriend/Wife : "No, no, it's okay I can manage. I've done everything else today anyway." *sighs*

Translation - Yes I would like some help, please.

Girls don't like ice cream? I'm going gay.

@ngeI wrote:
> Whats the point in trying to figure out what a guys thinking. Its
> never going to be what you want to hear.

harsh but true. :x

Very_Metal wrote:
> that was pretty bitter and cynical....
> .... you`ve just gone up my list of favourite people :D

;)

Alfonse wrote:
> All I think about is ice cream and sex these days.

That's men. Ice cream and sex. That's men in a nutshell. Ice cream, sex and their nuts. I mean, they're nuts. Hell, let's roll it into one: all men are interested in is nutty sexy ice cream. Basically a Snickers for ice compartments.

Why don't you just ask?

All I think about is ice cream and sex these days.