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"I'm in love..."

I now realise none of you give a crap about anyone other than yourselves.

homosh wrote:
> Love exists eh? well thats a relief. lol. Id be interested to know
> more about this sceintific proof.
>
> There is no scientific proof.

Actually there is.

*ahem*

You must be a pretty miserable person.

If we just pretend for a minute that you did have a girlfriend and that you did decide to get married, you would have more love and respect for your mother and your friends than you would for her?

Also, you say that you should be willing to die for your mother and your friends...surely your wife/partner IS your friend too? Saying otherwise is just stupid.

Pandaemonium wrote:
> homosh wrote:
> No, that's not what it is. It's typical for the relationship between
> a
> mother and her son to be stronger than it is between a husband and
> his wife. Married people get divorced, I've never seen a mother who
> woke up one day and decided to go find another son
>
> Perhaps because it's impossible? Have to say, V_Ms comment was my
> immediate thought. :P

That's not an excuse. I'll put it in another way: Let's suppose a mother had 6 kids, is it a common thing that she would throw away the stupid ones, and only keep the smart ones ? Even mothers who have mentally retarded children still love them.




Fozz wrote:
> You canttell me thats not real. thats not dillusion.

Yes it is.

>and if you love your mom more than your dad does that pretty screwed up.

It is typical, that's all.


> in cases where the parents are in
> love then they probably love each other more than the kids love them.

Now that's screwed up.


> Love exists eh? well thats a relief. lol. Id be interested to know
> more about this sceintific proof.

There is no scientific proof.


> homosh, dont get confused between love an attraction. you can love
> someone AND be attracted to them (married couples), you can love
> someone and NOT be attracted to someone (friends and relations) , or
> you can be attracted to someone but not love them (that girl with big
> hooters who glared at me the other night), and of course you can
> neither love someone or be attracted to them (my parents). Thats a
> very rough generalisation, but....eh. When you say a girl is sexy,
> its attraction. When I say Id die for a girl, its love. I hope you
> find love one day. lol.


I'm not confused. Actually in both cases it is attraction, it's just that your mind can't accept it in some cases when there are some things you don't like about the person, so you just call it attraction, and when you get too close to that person, this attraction increases till your mind accepts it, then you decide to call it love.


EDIT: Also about hoping that I would find love someday, when I read that I burst into laughing for more than 2 minutes.

Exactomundo.

Um, ok homosh, you dont have a girlfriend. youre not in love. I have a girlfriend, I am in love, I would die for this girl. I really mean that, not just "you know I love you sweetums???" I really would give everything I have, including my life, for her. You cant tell me thats not real. thats not dillusion. and if you love your mom more than your dad does that pretty screwed up. Actuallly thinking about it I probably love my mom more than my dad does too. My parents got divorced when I was young. But in cases where the parents are in love then they probably love each other more than the kids love them.

Love exists eh? well thats a relief. lol. Id be interested to know more about this sceintific proof.

homosh, dont get confused between love an attraction. you can love someone AND be attracted to them (married couples), you can love someone and NOT be attracted to someone (friends and relations) , or you can be attracted to someone but not love them (that girl with big hooters who glared at me the other night), and of course you can neither love someone or be attracted to them (my parents). Thats a very rough generalisation, but....eh. When you say a girl is sexy, its attraction. When I say Id die for a girl, its love. I hope you find love one day. lol.

Fozz wrote:
> go hibernator.
>
> Whether love exists is a matter of personal belief. There isnt really
> a scientific way of prooving it exists

Actually it's been done. Love exists according to scientists.... Or atleast TV told me so :(

homosh wrote:
> No, that's not what it is. It's typical for the relationship between a
> mother and her son to be stronger than it is between a husband and
> his wife. Married people get divorced, I've never seen a mother who
> woke up one day and decided to go find another son

Perhaps because it's impossible? Have to say, V_Ms comment was my immediate thought. :P

No, that's not what it is. It's typical for the relationship between a mother and her son to be stronger than it is between a husband and his wife. Married people get divorced, I've never seen a mother who woke up one day and decided to go find another son

homosh wrote:
> gaybys wrote:
> Are you saying you love your mother but your father doesn't?
>
> Yes.

*cough* oedipus complex *cough* ;)

gaybys wrote:
> homosh wrote:
> I can give my life away for 2 persons: My friend and my mother. But
> definitely I won't give it away for a girl just because she looks
> sexy. If love is personal belief than this proves that it's a
> delusion.
>
> You're weird.
> What if the girl is your girl'friend'?

I don't have one.


> What if she's your wife?

I'm not going to get married.


> Are you saying your father wouldn't and shouldn't be willing to die
> for your mother? Even though you are?


Yes.

> Are you saying you love your mother but your father doesn't?

Yes.


>Are you saying that you are moreloyal to a friend that your father is to >your mother? His WIFE?


Yes.