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"How could you use somebody like that?"

I met myself a new girl, the third inside a year. Well I can't really say I've just met her because to be honest I've known her, relativly well, for 3 years.

But then we got close. As we grew closer she kept holding away and I thought this was because she wanted to be with a work friend called Matt. I had to concede, I thought I'd lost it.

But out of the blue something changed all that and after months of torment I was Catherine's boyfriend. I was happy.

But there was still this nagging doubt at the back of my mind that she didn't really want me.

I hate being right.

Not this Thursday but the Thursday before was saw Shrek 2. On the train home she said, quite worryingly, "you'll do until someone better comes along." She told me she was joking. Something told me she wasn't.

We broke up last thursday, I was fine with it, I didn't particulary wanted it to happen but happen it did. I saw her last night where she told me that Matt had split with his girlfriend and now they were together.

My heart sunk, I tried desperatly to sound okay but as quick as I could I left the shop.

I hate her. I feel so totally and utterly destroyed, those that have been there will know what I mean. I want to send her an aggressive message, just to show her how much this pain hurts. But I question what they will really acchieve.

I feel quite gutted, quite empty. When you're with someone you may see the signs of things to come but you'll choose to ignore them. Hoping they'd go away. I read the signs, I knew she liked Matt and I knew she wanted to be with him.

And I just hoped he'd go away.

Sorry to hear that Dringo. It happens to us all though, no matter how rich, fun, how often we get mistaken for Rocco.

Not worth your time or money sending her hate messages. It doesn't even make you feel better either, because then you end up feeling slightly guilty for having so much hatred for someone who you previously loved. Bummer that.

Sadly certain people never just disappear or go away. That's all part of life.

So, listen to some heavy metal and shoot stuff. For real if you have access to some clay pigeons and assualt rifles preferably, but aliens do as well.

You'll find someone, there are always more out there.

Light wrote:
> I'm 28 and (as Goatboy will cheerfully confirm) I'm equally as dreadful at spotting when I'm being strung along by a no-tail.
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He ain't lying! But he has my caring, huggy sixth sense to help him out when times are woeful and he is confused by the bouncypillows of lying deceit


> Just remember; all women are evil, lying, emotionally abusive, and
> spiritually retarded. With that simple knowledge to guide you, you'll
> survive.
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See, I've been saying this for a couple of years now and you all call me names and think I'm some heartless monster...but time proves right in some areas.

Update for Light:
Milf is going very well indeed, and I find myself in the position you were in a few weeks ago of the "L" word being mentioned, although not by me.
And my doe-eyed, caressive response?
"Fag"
And she laughed, for she thought I jested....oh does she got some lessons coming.

Light wrote:
> Just remember; all women are evil, lying, emotionally abusive, and
> spiritually retarded. With that simple knowledge to guide you, you'll
> survive.

Oh my God. I've realised that, to me, that now sounds like a perfectly reasonable assesment. I think life has started to transform me into a misogynist.

Oh well.

*shrugs*

Bad luck, but don't feel too bad about it; I'm 28 and (as Goatboy will cheerfully confirm) I'm equally as dreadful at spotting when I'm being strung along by a no-tail.

Just remember; all women are evil, lying, emotionally abusive, and spiritually retarded. With that simple knowledge to guide you, you'll survive.

Ne'er lit 'em strang yoo alung

How very... rational, Mr Duck. :)

Mumbai Duck wrote:

> I suppose a particularly special woman might take more to get over,

i assure you that they do :(
a LOT more.

Women suck. They really do.
Usually in a very different way to men.
Hold on, that's starting to sound.. wrong :^s Ah well, you know what I mean

I find that whenever one d***s on you like this, it's only a problem until the next woman comes along. Then the last one is forgotten.

I suppose a particularly special woman might take more to get over, but for the most part, it's just a matter of waiting for the next one to come along.


Good luck getting someone else :^)

Take 'em when they're there.

Don't dwell on them when they're not.

Be good enough at life to be a whole person without needing another.

Dringo, you're like me about a month ago. I got my heart ripped out by a b*tch called Lauren, though I didnt know her before (probably for the better). We got on really well and grew close quickly and it was great for a few months, then one day she said she didnt want to be with me, and I was shocked/upset as you would be, but she assured me she was kidding. About two weeks later I was round at her house and she hardly said anything, so I left. She later decided to break it off with a text message.

I hated the niggling feeling for a few weeks, knowing she didnt want to be with me, but the sex was good so I stuck with her like a chump with a hard on.

The bad? She still has 5 of my CDs

The good? angry goodbye sex.

She's got a new boyfriend now. I havent. I dont have a new girlfriend either.