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"How could you use somebody like that?"

I met myself a new girl, the third inside a year. Well I can't really say I've just met her because to be honest I've known her, relativly well, for 3 years.

But then we got close. As we grew closer she kept holding away and I thought this was because she wanted to be with a work friend called Matt. I had to concede, I thought I'd lost it.

But out of the blue something changed all that and after months of torment I was Catherine's boyfriend. I was happy.

But there was still this nagging doubt at the back of my mind that she didn't really want me.

I hate being right.

Not this Thursday but the Thursday before was saw Shrek 2. On the train home she said, quite worryingly, "you'll do until someone better comes along." She told me she was joking. Something told me she wasn't.

We broke up last thursday, I was fine with it, I didn't particulary wanted it to happen but happen it did. I saw her last night where she told me that Matt had split with his girlfriend and now they were together.

My heart sunk, I tried desperatly to sound okay but as quick as I could I left the shop.

I hate her. I feel so totally and utterly destroyed, those that have been there will know what I mean. I want to send her an aggressive message, just to show her how much this pain hurts. But I question what they will really acchieve.

I feel quite gutted, quite empty. When you're with someone you may see the signs of things to come but you'll choose to ignore them. Hoping they'd go away. I read the signs, I knew she liked Matt and I knew she wanted to be with him.

And I just hoped he'd go away.

My advice to dringo is to become super-famous and rich.


Then she'll feel like an idiot.

Better than sending "EYE HAYTE YOO" messages to her.

Become a gay porn star named 'Dringo Star'.

That'll learn 'em.

Goatboy wrote:
>
> He ain't lying! But he has my caring, huggy sixth sense to help him
> out when times are woeful and he is confused by the bouncypillows of
> lying deceit

Yeah, but come on; at 32E, they were quite some bouncypillows.

>
> Update for Light:
> Milf is going very well indeed, and I find myself in the position you
> were in a few weeks ago of the "L" word being mentioned,
> although not by me.
> And my doe-eyed, caressive response?
> "Fag"
> And she laughed, for she thought I jested....oh does she got some
> lessons coming.

Meheheheh. Excellent. Now there's no danger of her being able to justify the inevitable accusation that you strung her along. Ain't your fault if she read too much into being called a fag...

I agree with all the previous comments. Does anyone ever worry that the male species is becoming 100% misogynistic?

That is NOT true.

Women dislike men more, I say.

All this business of them cheating on their partners makes me very...suspicious...of them sometimes...


Eh? When I returned to the Thread all the Posts were grey and everyone had "USER REMOVED" under their names...

Cheers guys. I called her eventually because it was eating me alive. I tried talking to her and then she told me "Matt was picking her up in half an hour".

I last a further 30 seconds on the phone before saying "I have to go bye" and hung up.

She called back. I was downstairs, ignoring my ringtone.

I did text her shortly after wards with the words "I thought I could forgive you but I can't, I'm sorry".

Me and Cat were always friends, and I want to still be that friend. But I can't now that she's with someone else.

It's one thing not being with her, it's another her being with someone else.

She replied, saying she's "totally destroyed the friendship we had and now it's all gone wrong and she's sorry"... I called her.

She'd been crying.

I told her how I felt, for the first time I was open to her. I am normally open but for a girlfriend I was surprisingly reserved to her.

I have decided to forgive her, today I feel a little better... just a little... but I do feel better. I am seeing her soon. I'm going to introduce her to the real me. I'm not expecting anything. But I still cannot bare to see her with another guy.

A truer word has never been spoken that meeting someone else truly puts the last hearbreak to the back of your mind.

Don't, she's a bint and things won't be the same.

You'll never get in her pants and she's stringing you along so she has someone there who she knows likes her. All a boost to her self-ego, why do all girls our age think they're in Sex and the City.

Sorry, dude. Let's hug.

Dringo, the swiftness with which she ditched you speaks for itself. I've been out with a girl who went out with guys a few times to get them keen, then gave them the cold shoulder. She was just collecting herself a list of lovesick losers who would text her daily saying "it tears me up inside that I can't be with you!" cos she loved the attention.

When she tried to do the switcharoo on me, snogging another guy at a club I was at, it all clicked into place - why she'd called her ex and handed the phone to me, why she asked me to read out texts sent to her by other plonkers. She tried to call me loads of times once she realised I wasn't going to chase her but I never caved in.

That was an extreme case, but your girl may have the same affliction. Forget about being her lapdog anyway, d'you want to be 2nd fiddle to this Matt guy?

If the answer is yes, then your new tagline is very apt.

People get used allot of the time. I am speaking from experience. I have been in a situation where I have been with someone that said I was with them till someone better came along. I actually got told by his mate. I confronted my partner at the time who admitted that, I was furious. I just gave him a slap round the face, and said he’ll have a long bloody wait.

It’s not the first time either. I would never use anybody as I know what it feels like to be hurt and humiliated.

Maybe you are best of without her anyway, she obviously doesn’t know what she wants and likes been said she is seeking attention.

OOoooh look at all the people that like me!!!

You dont need someone like that.

Catherine is a Christian girl who has had 4 boyfriends in the past 2 years, in comparsion to my 3 Girlfriends in the past 9 months...

She has hurt me and my/her friends aren't too happy about it.

But I don't text her "I miss you" rubbish, I'm made of sterner stuff. She's hurt me, she knows it, but never again will she see it affect me.