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"How could you use somebody like that?"

I met myself a new girl, the third inside a year. Well I can't really say I've just met her because to be honest I've known her, relativly well, for 3 years.

But then we got close. As we grew closer she kept holding away and I thought this was because she wanted to be with a work friend called Matt. I had to concede, I thought I'd lost it.

But out of the blue something changed all that and after months of torment I was Catherine's boyfriend. I was happy.

But there was still this nagging doubt at the back of my mind that she didn't really want me.

I hate being right.

Not this Thursday but the Thursday before was saw Shrek 2. On the train home she said, quite worryingly, "you'll do until someone better comes along." She told me she was joking. Something told me she wasn't.

We broke up last thursday, I was fine with it, I didn't particulary wanted it to happen but happen it did. I saw her last night where she told me that Matt had split with his girlfriend and now they were together.

My heart sunk, I tried desperatly to sound okay but as quick as I could I left the shop.

I hate her. I feel so totally and utterly destroyed, those that have been there will know what I mean. I want to send her an aggressive message, just to show her how much this pain hurts. But I question what they will really acchieve.

I feel quite gutted, quite empty. When you're with someone you may see the signs of things to come but you'll choose to ignore them. Hoping they'd go away. I read the signs, I knew she liked Matt and I knew she wanted to be with him.

And I just hoped he'd go away.

Don't, she's a bint and things won't be the same.

You'll never get in her pants and she's stringing you along so she has someone there who she knows likes her. All a boost to her self-ego, why do all girls our age think they're in Sex and the City.

Sorry, dude. Let's hug.

Cheers guys. I called her eventually because it was eating me alive. I tried talking to her and then she told me "Matt was picking her up in half an hour".

I last a further 30 seconds on the phone before saying "I have to go bye" and hung up.

She called back. I was downstairs, ignoring my ringtone.

I did text her shortly after wards with the words "I thought I could forgive you but I can't, I'm sorry".

Me and Cat were always friends, and I want to still be that friend. But I can't now that she's with someone else.

It's one thing not being with her, it's another her being with someone else.

She replied, saying she's "totally destroyed the friendship we had and now it's all gone wrong and she's sorry"... I called her.

She'd been crying.

I told her how I felt, for the first time I was open to her. I am normally open but for a girlfriend I was surprisingly reserved to her.

I have decided to forgive her, today I feel a little better... just a little... but I do feel better. I am seeing her soon. I'm going to introduce her to the real me. I'm not expecting anything. But I still cannot bare to see her with another guy.

A truer word has never been spoken that meeting someone else truly puts the last hearbreak to the back of your mind.

That is NOT true.

Women dislike men more, I say.

All this business of them cheating on their partners makes me very...suspicious...of them sometimes...


Eh? When I returned to the Thread all the Posts were grey and everyone had "USER REMOVED" under their names...

I agree with all the previous comments. Does anyone ever worry that the male species is becoming 100% misogynistic?

Goatboy wrote:
>
> He ain't lying! But he has my caring, huggy sixth sense to help him
> out when times are woeful and he is confused by the bouncypillows of
> lying deceit

Yeah, but come on; at 32E, they were quite some bouncypillows.

>
> Update for Light:
> Milf is going very well indeed, and I find myself in the position you
> were in a few weeks ago of the "L" word being mentioned,
> although not by me.
> And my doe-eyed, caressive response?
> "Fag"
> And she laughed, for she thought I jested....oh does she got some
> lessons coming.

Meheheheh. Excellent. Now there's no danger of her being able to justify the inevitable accusation that you strung her along. Ain't your fault if she read too much into being called a fag...

Become a gay porn star named 'Dringo Star'.

That'll learn 'em.

My advice to dringo is to become super-famous and rich.


Then she'll feel like an idiot.

Better than sending "EYE HAYTE YOO" messages to her.

dringo.
i had to reply and tell you there are some good woman out there is such a
shame you got treat badly by someone you cared deeply for revenge may seem sweet but its best not to risk it .
woman also suffer heartbreak by unfaithfull men .im sure you will find someone else in time ,

That was a bad break but you should have gone with your instincts from the start, especially as it turned out that they were right. Three in seven months?

Light wrote:

> Just remember; all women are evil, lying, emotionally abusive, and
> spiritually retarded. With that simple knowledge to guide you, you'll
> survive.

I felt that I should stick up for the female of the species here but when taken under consideration that pretty much sums it up when you get into a relationship with one.

At least until you hit the right relationship.

Well my girlfriend of a year dumped me one day, I was pretty gutted. Week later she and one my best friends end up going out. He had just dumped my ex-girlfriend's best friend and they ahd been going out for nearly three years.

And then I ahd to go on holiday with them

So, you know that was fun.