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Right there's this girl i like.
I fancy her and by the way she looks at me
i could tell she likes me to.
The only thing is that i'm afraid to ask her out even
though i know that if i did ask her out she would say yes.
I'm usually good with this sort of thing but she's stunning.
Any ideas?

sorry posted twice by accident

Pimp them out then.

Fooly Cooly wrote:
> What's wrong with being vague? A girl is more likely to say yes if you
> dont pick a place and date straight away. She might be busy that day
> and then you'll look like a fool

Actually, a girl is usually more likely to say no if you're vague, thats only setting up another situation where you basically have to ask all over again. If the guy's serious, he'll have thought it through before asking. If the dates not right, then ask her when it suits, but always suggest a date and time first if youre asking. It shows confidence.

Squall wrote:
> she's always with mates though. :(

Ask for for a minute away from them.

Organise a paintballing trip, then sneak off with her at an opportune moment.

Ask her out.

Squall wrote:
> Right there's this girl i like.
> I fancy her and by the way she looks at me
> i could tell she likes me to.
> The only thing is that i'm afraid to ask her out even
> though i know that if i did ask her out she would say yes.
> I'm usually good with this sort of thing but she's stunning.

I think i know the next bit..

Im not trying to pull you, even though i would like to, i think you are really fit, your fit but my god dont you know it.

I'm sorry Lindgren but you obviously have no experience with women. okay you're probably right :p but like he said, her mates are with her all the time.

Lindgren wrote:
> Actually, a girl is usually more likely to say no if you're vague,
> thats only setting up another situation where you basically have to
> ask all over again.

Sorry, but pish.
You be vague to find out if they'd go with you. Then you put forward place and date etc.
Like whoever it was said, being precise could lead to embarrassment of epic proportions.

Simply being vague, then suggesting idea's is better than being specific.
And I've yet to understand how you'd have to ask all over again. Besides, if you did, at least you're then comfortable with them, as you know that they feel the same.
Sheesh.

You have to build up that confidence and bite the bullet, you don't want to look back and wonder what it would have been like.

I have been with my other half for 4 years now and we get married this summer, I couldn't live without her and these years have been the best of my life and it's because I made an effort to ask her.