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"Bulleying"

A lot of people get bulleyed, it's a common thing, even I used to get bulleyed, but now I have a problem, my brother, now my brother is really disturbed, he has a lot of problems, I mean he is a failure at school, and everybody keeps mucking him because he is fat, the problem is there are people who are bulleying him these days, now anybody else can handle it, but he is greatly hurt, he keeps crying every night, and the teachers wouldn't help, I thought of beating the guys who bulleyed him, but I thought they might do it again to take revenge from him, which complicates things even more, so any advice would be helpful please.

I really don't see any other alternative to the situatuon Cusack descibed.

Sigh I think fighting back is as bad as the bullies don't dive as low as them! Why the heck won't the teachers help? If not tell your parents!

I generally find that ignoring bullies doesn't work. If your brother is fat then ignoring them will do absolutely nothing, they will just poke him in the stomach or something and then beat him up (Fat people are always poked). To be honest with you I would recommend that your bother stand up to them, whether it is by replying to their insults or chastising them severely. Bullies prey on the weak, the different and the unpopular.

Silent Scope wrote:
> For god's sake at least spell it right.

If we're going to be pickey about the spellings and what not, God should have a capital letter.

No E in Bully!

For god's sake at least spell it right.

poopots wrote:
> i have never been bullyed myself but my brother has been a couple of
> years back and he tried fighting back, he slaugherted one of them but
> then he had all his freinds to deal with but this made it even worse
> for him he never stood a chance. The thing that stopped it was not
> giving them the pleasure, tell your brother not to fight back just
> take it and they will soon stop. So if they call him fat just tell
> your bro to say something like " i know im fat but does it raly
> matter". They will soon give up if he dont cry and give them
> what they want.
They don't just call him fat, they keep beatinng him until he cries.

Fake (or otherwise) an orgasm everything they speak to you.
Then start rubbing yourself.

i have never been bullyed myself but my brother has been a couple of years back and he tried fighting back, he slaugherted one of them but then he had all his freinds to deal with but this made it even worse for him he never stood a chance. The thing that stopped it was not giving them the pleasure, tell your brother not to fight back just take it and they will soon stop. So if they call him fat just tell your bro to say something like " i know im fat but does it raly matter". They will soon give up if he dont cry and give them what they want.

No Offence, my Friend, but do you think beating on them is the only way to solve the problem? Is there absolutely nothing else to do? I'm not trying to scare you or anything, but a friend of mine confronted his bullies the next week a whole group of them put him in hospital. Please do not take offence at what I am about to say as it is not meant in that way, but I have no Idea what Egyptian Schools are like, do the teachers really not listen? If there is no other option than beating them then its up to you, I'll just say be careful.

P.S bullies deserve nothing but contempt in my book I was bullied for ages at school