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"Advise needed!"

But I can't afford a romance counsellor so you my little wbe monkeys will do. You all know how I met that girl who ended up going out with another guy instead of me? Well I've decided to get back at her by going out with someone else who is good looking but I don't really fancy her. Pety? yes...Uncalled for? yes...Anyway I have been talking to her for a while now and I recently got her mobile number off her. her names Nadia and she's a really nice person although I feel I am at quite an awkward stage as I haven't actually taken the time to get to know her or actually even really like her in that way. So what should I do now...

I don't quite know what to do. She is going on Holiday to Hong Kong next week of all places but when she comes back she wants to go to the cinema on a date. But until then I don't quite know what I should do. I have about 2 weeks of just casual meet and greets without actually going out with her. Do any of you have any suggestions of what to do in this time? I could just send her texts and phone calls daily but that'd either be seen as sweet or needy. I could just talk like friends but that could be seen like I amn't that interested but I can't start dating her now and then just say bye for a week. Hmmm i need some advise. I am currently just asking lots of questions, giving lots of compliments and stuff but that can only last for so long can't it? Come on my sex starved group of computer nerds*. What would you do?



*Is kidding...or am I?

Paradox: wrote:
> Me = Getting some
>
> *smug*

is that from the casual girl?

Oh mirth.

<<>> wrote:
> you punctuation obsessionist's!

No need for the apostrophe.
If obsessionists is even a word. Which it isn't.
I doubt it anyway.

pb wrote:
> I remember a time when a date was just that, going to the cinema is a
> basic enough thing

I once got a handjob in the Warner Village

:-D

you punctuation obsessionist's!

Hmmm thanks for the advice PB. How funny/scary would it be if it was a Miriam thing though? *shudders* ANYWAY, it should be good. I'll just have to wait till she gets back and occupy the time in between times with amusing aneqduotes(sp?)...god I'm doomed!

Yeah, but it doesnt work when you do it for am not.

Wouldn't it make more sense to say "I'm not" than "I amn't"?

It means the same thing.

cookie monster wrote:
> Yeah, i dont think amnt is a word either.

"amn't" isn't a word. It's an abbreviation or whatever you call it when you shorten two words and join them. Like "Can't" and so on. As for "Advice" instead "Advise" yes, thanks for pointing that out but you're right.

I remember a time when a date was just that, going to the cinema is a basic enough thing, so why feel awkward about it? Or do you have plans to take it further just to spite your ex and try to get her back?

If that's the case, don't, this other girl WILL find out your motives and either feel really bad or supply ample payback, it could turn nasty.

So, treat it as a social date, not a heavy romantic liason, then you'll be ok. Hey, you might even start to get on with this other girl and realise she's more than you thought she was (though not in a 'miriam' way, I hope).

Yeah, i dont think amnt is a word either.