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"Advise needed!"

But I can't afford a romance counsellor so you my little wbe monkeys will do. You all know how I met that girl who ended up going out with another guy instead of me? Well I've decided to get back at her by going out with someone else who is good looking but I don't really fancy her. Pety? yes...Uncalled for? yes...Anyway I have been talking to her for a while now and I recently got her mobile number off her. her names Nadia and she's a really nice person although I feel I am at quite an awkward stage as I haven't actually taken the time to get to know her or actually even really like her in that way. So what should I do now...

I don't quite know what to do. She is going on Holiday to Hong Kong next week of all places but when she comes back she wants to go to the cinema on a date. But until then I don't quite know what I should do. I have about 2 weeks of just casual meet and greets without actually going out with her. Do any of you have any suggestions of what to do in this time? I could just send her texts and phone calls daily but that'd either be seen as sweet or needy. I could just talk like friends but that could be seen like I amn't that interested but I can't start dating her now and then just say bye for a week. Hmmm i need some advise. I am currently just asking lots of questions, giving lots of compliments and stuff but that can only last for so long can't it? Come on my sex starved group of computer nerds*. What would you do?



*Is kidding...or am I?

I think anybody whos met you will be able to vouch for me thats its incredibly unlikely that a good looking girl likes you.

It's fine, I don't need avice anymore. I've decided to ask her out when I see her on Saturday. Make all the insults you want Doonhamer, it doesn't bother me. I am safe in the knowledge that a good looking girl likes me. 'nough said.

So what exactly is this achieving Cubist? I really don't think the first girl* will care at all if you go out with somebody else, no matter how stunning they are. By going out with Nadia** you aren't going to have girl 1 crying over it or running back into your arms.

*probably a man
**definitely a man

Err....yeah.

You're the winner of the flame.

It wasn't really a flame, though. I'll fix that.
Blank smells like poo-poo. There.

In fact, I didn't even read your reply, just guessed what it said.

I did read it really, but I knew what it would say beforehand, so I still win.

I know the feeling.
I didn't read his actual post.

I don't actually read replies in threads like this, just post my smarmy comment and then wander off.

Too slow, this time.

You want advice? Okay, here it is:

It's "advice," not "advise".