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I am really, really upset now. I just found out that someone I had been flirting with and had been flirting back with me for about a month now met up with an old friend last Saturday and now they are going out. OUCH! I am really upset now, I guess I just felt I could take my time and that no one else would try. God I'm an idiot to let her get away. Apart from anything else she's stunning and I REALLY liked her as a person. I probably never had a shot anyway but damn it hurts now. *sigh* Oh well, *puts on soup for one and buys a dog for companionship*

Cub!st wrote:
> Yeh I can only hope, god it actually does hurt though but this is the
> first time it has actually hurt if you get my meaning heh? I mean I
> have asked out girls before but this was different. I hadn't asked
> her out yet and I had grown to like her a lot but I blew my chance
> and now it just hurts that she didn't wait for me. God I'm such a
> fother mucking idiot, why would she wait.
>
> She did still seem to care about me though. After I said "Glad
> to hear it", "I'm happy for you", "good
> luck" and more about a million times before saying I had to
> leave she said "Oh! Before you go, how did your exams go?"
> Not one other person has asked me that and I had only told her in
> passing. She doesn't even go to my school and wouldn't even know if I
> had them back yet but she asked anyway. Ok I'm reading too much into
> it but still it felt nice although it still hurts.

i know what you mean, trust me, take my advice, become her best friend, your chance will come again.

Yeh I can only hope, god it actually does hurt though but this is the first time it has actually hurt if you get my meaning heh? I mean I have asked out girls before but this was different. I hadn't asked her out yet and I had grown to like her a lot but I blew my chance and now it just hurts that she didn't wait for me. God I'm such a fother mucking idiot, why would she wait.

She did still seem to care about me though. After I said "Glad to hear it", "I'm happy for you", "good luck" and more about a million times before saying I had to leave she said "Oh! Before you go, how did your exams go?" Not one other person has asked me that and I had only told her in passing. She doesn't even go to my school and wouldn't even know if I had them back yet but she asked anyway. Ok I'm reading too much into it but still it felt nice although it still hurts.

rejection hurt's
be patient,be her friend, become important to her, she will eventually see it.

ßora† §agdiyeV wrote:
> I'd take angst over losing someone over my 'soup for one' and whatever
> else comes with being married to my xbox.

I think that's legal in California.

I'd take angst over losing someone over my 'soup for one' and whatever else comes with being married to my xbox.

If it makes you feel any better one of the people I liked has disappeared of the horizon recently.

Thankfully not a primary target. But there is a lot more to it than that as well, because I'll never see her again, even if she does split up with him. Gah. Women.

I am really, really upset now. I just found out that someone I had been flirting with and had been flirting back with me for about a month now met up with an old friend last Saturday and now they are going out. OUCH! I am really upset now, I guess I just felt I could take my time and that no one else would try. God I'm an idiot to let her get away. Apart from anything else she's stunning and I REALLY liked her as a person. I probably never had a shot anyway but damn it hurts now. *sigh* Oh well, *puts on soup for one and buys a dog for companionship*