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"Can a girl be one of the lads?"

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Mon 19/01/04 at 21:53
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"onwards and upwards"
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Is there such a thing as platonic relationships?
Fri 23/01/04 at 21:12
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"AkaSeraphim"
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Most of my friends are male, i dont really have many female friends. Just a few but i dont live near them and we dont always get on. The lads are great though. They include me in everything they dont treat me different because i am female, they just class me as one of the lads!
Thu 22/01/04 at 17:02
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"leaf it aaaaht"
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yeh i got a few friends!

One of my mates is diamond-we flirt all the time, meet every Sat for lunch and we get drunk and have a kiss but nothing ever changes in our relationship!
Thu 22/01/04 at 16:29
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"Colourless"
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Darwock wrote:
> Only goes out with christians?? And at the same time will only get
> into a relationship if it's a threesome... that's pretty twisted.
> Doesn't she realise God frowns on that kind of thing?

No no, let's not be silly. That's not what I meant. I meant that she thought that as a group of three friends, two of them having a much closer relationship would lead to the other person feeling left out. 16 btw.
Thu 22/01/04 at 11:29
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"gsybe you!"
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I have ummm....a few girls with whom I have a purely plutonic relationship. I just don't fancy them, but I share very similar interests etc.

Other girls who are my friends are, er, rather different.....
Thu 22/01/04 at 11:26
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Colourless wrote:
> I'm not entirely sure why either. She said she can only go out with
> christians and "apparently" I'm not one. She also said If
> we went out, we'd be leaving the other person out....

Only goes out with christians?? And at the same time will only get into a relationship if it's a threesome... that's pretty twisted. Doesn't she realise God frowns on that kind of thing?

I hate to say it but it sounds like she's playing you. How old are the people involved here?
Thu 22/01/04 at 11:24
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"Orbiting Uranus"
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Yeah, if it involved talking about Girls, Cars, Football etc etc.

But then Men have diferent interests, just as Women do. If you can find a group of friends with the same interest as you, then their gender doesn't matter.
Thu 22/01/04 at 11:22
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Rosalind wrote:
> but I still define myself as female.

Well, emmm, that's a relief!

I just think there are fundamental differences in attitude with most men and women. I bet even women with a strong geeky/nerdy streak would get a bit fed up with a typical male conversation.
Wed 21/01/04 at 16:58
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"Colourless"
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Kat wrote:
> I don't understand where the problem is - you both like each other???

I'm not entirely sure why either. She said she can only go out with christians and "apparently" I'm not one. She also said If we went out, we'd be leaving the other person out....
Wed 21/01/04 at 16:57
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"Colourless"
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Icarus wrote:
> Tell the other ne that you're together? Seems the best thing to do,
> other than keep scthum.

We're not together.
Wed 21/01/04 at 13:41
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"2 weeks to go..."
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Colourless wrote:

> About a year ago I befriended two girls. We became really, really
> close friends and we did everything together. They are both still my
> two best friends, but since then we have a grown apart a bit as a
> group of three. In the summer, I fell for one of them, and at
> christmas she told me she was in love with me, and so we've been
> trying to keep our friendships going while still being madly in love
> with each other. And our "inseparable" group of three, is
> now not the same as it was before.... but we try. Any thoughts?

I don't understand where the problem is - you both like each other???

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