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Sun 07/12/03 at 19:11
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In modern day society some people place a lot of stock on peoples appearance. However to contrast that there are many people who believe that it is the personality inside that really counts. I myself like to think that it is the personality that counts however I have been known to be vain, patronising, shallow and down right stupid. This, I gather means that my personality is not desirable. If I was better looking though would that compensate for that? Could I count on the shallowness of other people to make friends and generally be popular?

Johnny Depp, Orlando Bloom, Colin Farrell and Keanu Reeves. How many guys here would KILL to have their looks, their talents and their personality? I know I would love to be just like them. However making idols out of celebrities is arguably one of the shallowest things you can do. It is however undeniable that the before mentioned celebs have girls (and some guys) falling over themselves to catch a glimpse of them. Looks can change everything in your world but is this a strength of society? Is it a good thing that anyone can live a rich and full life despite their qualifications and so on, or is this a horrible failing in which many hard working and educated people get overlooked?

On the other side of the coin many people make livings simply by voicing their thoughts and feelings. However it's not as common. Most people who have a good personality are those who work regular jobs with the rest of us but don't have Halle Berry for a girl friend. In my opinion many celebrities would do well to have a "normal" boyfriend. Is the reason that celebrity marriages rarely last because you can't have the looks and the personality?

I don't know the answers to any of these questions but what I do know is we are living in a very materialistic age in which big boys want their big toys and big girls want their big jewels. If we each like our pretty things are we all looking for a pretty partner and personality can be damned? I want to believe that a personality counts but I just don't know.
Mon 08/12/03 at 14:55
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Well prefer some looking okay but not absolutely great with a good personality. Some good looking people are so big headed and are boring as hell..
Mon 08/12/03 at 14:15
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Appearance. Because what's on the inside is but a mass of pink puddings.
Oh, you mean the personality? Well let me rethink...

Appearance. Because most people are as shallow as a bowl of soup.
No wait! That's unfair. Let me rethink...

Appearance. Big t!ts before big brain any day.
Now I'm being shallow. Let me rethink...

Appearance. The face is the mirror of the soul.
Have you ever considered that you can judge someone's personality and character by their appearance, by their face, by their general demeanour?

I think I'm missing the point...
Sun 07/12/03 at 23:07
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English_Bloke wrote:
> Also, Orlando Bloom? The guy is funny looking.

The missus loves him and Anthony bloody Andrews.
Sun 07/12/03 at 22:31
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Yeah.

It used to be good enough to be just good looking.
Now we want looks AND personality! :-D
Sun 07/12/03 at 22:15
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A nice blend of the two.

I think that most importantly when looking for a guy I'd look for a great sense of humour and a foundation for a great working friendship. Such qualities mean that you actually like and enjoy the persons company rather than sitting next to the super star looks but he is as boring as F...

But If they were jus perfect friends but did not tickle your taste buds in the slightest - how would a relationship work?? You would be tempted by guys/girls you actually are quite fond of in that way. You would wish for more or be secretly unhappy maybe?? Surely this is more suitable for a good friendship

I think it needs a mixture of a good personality and friendship yet you do find them damn attractive and feel lucky and happy to be with them. Surely both mental and sexual attractions need to be met - a lack of one of the two could cause problems?

My guy is my best friend (luckily) But he also is the most gorgeous man to walk this eart and although he thinks he has a girly bum - it is the best butt on this planet oo yea..

OK so now I am horny yet happy with my relationship
Conclusion - mix of two
Sun 07/12/03 at 21:24
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Lol interesting fact Kyz :P
Sun 07/12/03 at 20:55
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Lindgren swallows
Sun 07/12/03 at 20:54
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I don't put a whole lot of emphasis on looks. I've often found that guys who are good-looking and know they are tend to be the biggest prats because of their ego. I like to get to know someone first, and the guys I've been with were my friends before they were my boyfriends, long before, and even now we are still friends. I tend to fall in love with peoples' personalities, not their looks.
Sun 07/12/03 at 20:28
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Cubist wrote:
> Johnny Depp, Orlando Bloom, Colin Farrell and Keanu Reeves. How many
> guys here would KILL to have their looks, their talents and their
> personality?

I want Roy Keane's personality.

*growls*
Sun 07/12/03 at 19:48
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Hmm, good looks, eh?

Yeah, that would solve all our problems. To be just like those perfect “celebs” we see in the movies and performing songs for thousands of screaming fans.

If only, then we would be happy…

Looks are important, I’m not going to yank your chain and say they’re not. We all judge people on their looks. You wouldn’t be in a bar, see a woman and think, “hmm, she looks like she has a nice personality, I’ll go talk to her.” I mean yes, if she is having a real laugh with her mates then you may want to talk to her because she appears fun, but the main reason you will approach a lass is because you find them attractive.

Who would kill for these people’s personalities? Not me, I don’t know these guys, for all I know they could be as dull magnolia wallpaper.

Would I like to look like them? Maybe.

I’m not the best looking guy in the world, but I’m happy with what I’ve got. You need to remember what you see of these people is not what they actually look like. They are tarted up for camera. Yes they are good looking people, but they have their own blemishes and I’m sure they see imperfections when they look in the mirror.

When you say you would love to be just like them. What is it you want? My guess is that it is not to be a different person and that it is the lifestyle you lust for, which is natural. I know I would love to get paid millions of dollars to partake in movies, but I wouldn’t actually want to be that person.

Also, Orlando Bloom? The guy is funny looking.

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