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"Worried about a friend..."

At college today I was getting some of my media project filmed, it is just an insight into our lives so I got someone to film me having a kick-around with the footy with some of my friends. The guy who filmed it offered to edit the film for me too which I though was nice however I want to do it myself as it is a marked piece of work and I'm an honest guy.

Anyway when I uploaded the film onto the Imac's for editing I the footage was great and my media thing is also complete. Anyhow the camera is a fancy one on loan from college and also takes still photos and I was horrified when I fund the guy who was filming had also taken a few photos of our bums whilst we had been playing footy...

I'm not against gays or anything but this isn't right. I seriously doubt it was by accident because, well it doesnt happen by accident. Also it would explain why he was keen to edit the film for me. Anyway should I say something about it to him or just not mention it?

Dude's either a poor camerman or he's joking around with a unique sense of humour.

Just ask him, then it's done with.
And if he's all "no? why?", then you can say "Er...because it's all bums and junk shots"
"No it isn't...you gay?"
And then you can both laugh manfully about it.

Or, just let it go and get on with stuff?

Yes, but if it is just a matter of co-incidence and he accidentally filmed 'those bits' and ask him if he is gay then he is likely to be offended. I will speak to him though.

No, but maybe he hides it because nobody just asks him?
Perhaps he feels like it's something to be ashamed of so doesn't advertise the fact?
If you just said "Look mate, I couldn't care less but this is bothering me", then it's out in the open.

And even if he is gay, doesn't mean he fancies you.

You don't read do you.


IT DOES NOT BOTHER ME THAT HE MAY BE GAY.

Do you understand?
The worrying factor is that he has to hide stuff away and take candid photographs of people. I am certain not all gay people do that. Because you are heterosexual (or I assume so) does it mean you run about with a camera photographing boobs everwhere you go?

Jut ask him if he's gay.
Then ask yourself why it bothers you

Right, I am really annoyed now. Uploaded the video onto the imacs at college for editing and most scenes are good, my mate Mat filmed most of those but some scenes seem to be focused on crotches... I havent spoken to him about it yet but it does really back up my cause for being worried.

I'll play 'Steps' and 'Village People' in the car and see if he begins to dance or wail along to it. Then I will stop the car abruptly, flinging him through the windshield.

Spanky wrote:
> so bouncer wot ur goin 2 do??????

*looks at clock, almost 10pm*
Proberly go bed like everyone else :op

so bouncer wot ur goin 2 do??????

heh, curiosity gets the best of me. interested to know what Mr Bouncer was thinking about doing about it. that is all. no offence intended.