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Fri 01/08/03 at 15:40
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In 1981 i was born and lost my dad in 1984. He died as he suffered a brain tumor. So i did not get to know my dad, i cant actually remember anything about him or remember even seeing him. Yeah ive seen pictures of him and heard his voice on a tape but thats about it. So ive not really had a dad in my life.

I have a step dad, i would not class him as ever being there for me at all. He is the dad to one of my sister Stephanie so its hard to see him always being a dad to her. My mums husband now however is really nice man and ive never seen her this happy. He is great to get along with. But still it isnt my real dad.

What also hurts is when my sister Stephanie use to always say things in a heat of an arguement such as HE's MY DAD....and....AT LEAST IVE GOT A DAD, i never thought my little sis could ever get to me.

Do you think i have missed out an awful lot with not having my real dad around. Sometimes i sit and think to my self What if he was still around what would my life have been like if he was still here.
Sat 02/08/03 at 15:20
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Black Glove wrote:
> @ng3l wrote:
> My baby is due in
> about 8 weeks and im so glad hes going to have a dad.
>
> And I bet you'll be an excellent dad. Good luck.

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
Sat 02/08/03 at 15:19
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Sat 02/08/03 at 15:17
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@ng3l wrote:
> My baby is due in
> about 8 weeks and im so glad hes going to have a dad.

And I bet you'll be an excellent dad. Good luck.

Me and my dad have a frosty relationship. We don't hate each other or anything, we just aren't close. I don't really know why.
Sat 02/08/03 at 15:16
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@ng3l wrote:
> My baby is due in about 8 weeks and
> im so glad hes going to have a dad.

I wanted to ask about that but wasn't sure if your baby's dad wasn't about and that was what made you write the original post.

My brother's divorced with 2 kids (a 14 year old boy and a 12 year old girl) and both him and his ex-wife are constantly trying to p*ss each other off, always at the expense of the kids. Many's the time I've turned up at my parent's house (where my brother and his kids are staying) to find one or other of the kids upset and/or crying because of their parents. Some people don't deserve kids.
Sat 02/08/03 at 15:03
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Thanks for the reply people have wrote. I see alot of people with there real dads and they get along amazingly. I feel so left out but im also so happy for them not to be in my situation. My baby is due in about 8 weeks and im so glad hes going to have a dad. I would not know what i would do if he was ever in a situation to be without 1.
Sat 02/08/03 at 14:59
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Some of my friends get on well with their dads and some don't. I get on with mine and I couldn't imagine life without him. I'm sorry you've lost your dad but at least you have pictures and a few things to remember him by.

Anyway who uses "At least I've got a dad" in an argument is unsensitive, stupid and needs a good slap. Saying something that was entirely out of your control to try and prove that you're better than someone is brainless. If she says it again, how about replying "Yeah, but you don't deserve to have one"?

My girlfriend's brother-in-law died recently (her sister's husband) and has left a 30 year old son who hero-worshipped him. I know it's a cliché after someone has died but he really was a great bloke.

Another friend of mine lost his dad some years ago and, when we talk about it, his expression is something similar to "I'm glad the b*****d's dead!" But, his dad did divorce his mother (after beating her up a lot) and his sister killed herself because of it.

I'm not saying your dad was like these two (certainly NOT the second one!), just to say there are two sides to everything. But, I guess it would've been nice to be given the chance to find out. I can't imagine how you feel and I am really sorry.
Fri 01/08/03 at 18:36
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DW wrote:
> This was the topic on Trisha on last nights 3am show. Yes, I stay up
> just to watch Trisha. It was about people who had to live without
> their dads, not because of death, because of them running away, being
> kicked out and never seeing their child. Was really sad. I can see how
> hard it is for you. It's harder though as you know your dad can't come
> back.

You stay up to watch Trisha?


I'm going to start heckling you at 4am.
Fri 01/08/03 at 18:01
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Fri 01/08/03 at 17:59
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*Reads DW's Tag Line*

(which is currently 'Pron' if he changes it)

Yeah, you stay up JUST to watch Trisha. :D

I belieeeeve you.
Fri 01/08/03 at 17:53
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This was the topic on Trisha on last nights 3am show. Yes, I stay up just to watch Trisha. It was about people who had to live without their dads, not because of death, because of them running away, being kicked out and never seeing their child. Was really sad. I can see how hard it is for you. It's harder though as you know your dad can't come back.

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