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Fri 20/06/03 at 20:37
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Now i don't really post in these forums much, but recently i have been having problems that have been making me feel so low. I had so many that i have to write them down just to sort myself out!

The vendetta that my family has against me has recently spawned from an incident where i declared that before the upcoming exams i wanted to move into the unused room, and stop sharing with my twin brother. Mainly for privacy reasons, and for studying purposes. But he continously walks in and out, asking me pointless questions and sometimes he doesn't say a thing. I think i see him more now than when we actually shared a room. Another reason i moved was due to the fact that we want to sleep at different times and watch different things on TV(not at night) but still he insists on coming into my room and waking me up, or when watching the TV he changes the channel. Now this may seem trivial to you but over months it does become very annoying.

But it doesnt stop there. In the last year i made a new mate who changed who he hung out with at school and we got to know each other. We hung out a few times etc. Its not that i dont get on well with him, but my mum really "loves" him, and treats him like he is her own and i have only known him for a few months. Now she gets angry if he's not round at the house or i havent spoken to him for a day. This really ticks me off, as the best of friends still need time apart now and then. She started calling me ignorant cus i wouldnt phone him during my exams. She doesnt understand how important they are! I did ring him after them, but she wasnt satisfied that i hadnt invited him round. I can't believe her!

Now my bro keeps going on about this, and i havent properly spoken to my mum in about a week. He thinks it's my fault for upsetting her, and now she keeps talking about it to my father, i dont really know what to do! My brother (if i can call him that) continuously pesters me about ringing him, but again i don't need to be hanging out with friends all the time. Added to this he continously patronises me, and everything he says to me, seems to be an attempt to put me down. Things like i have no confidence, but at least i do go out, and also have a job, he sits around all day conspiring with my mother, trying to turn her against me.

I thought this may be down to jealousy of me, and i have always been better that him at school, but have never really bragged about it. But when he feels he has done badly in exams etc, he always tries to get attention, and i am never able to feel good about myself. I have never once been praised for doing well, they always concentrate on him!

Just now he has disconnected my internet, cus he says i am "sad" for going on chatforums. He then went on about how i need to get a life... I tried to counter that by asking him what he does all day, but he started on about how i always upset my mum. He makes me feel so badly about myself... and in a way it is damaging my confidence.

Anyway, i dont suspect anyone will read this, i just wanted to sort out my feelings. It seems like i should be on "Trisha" or one of these Talk-shows. I am sure i have missed something out so expect to find more posts here....
Fri 20/06/03 at 21:25
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"the burning sky"
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Memorandum wrote:
> I just mean she seems to be prying into your life a little too much.

I dont mind people saying that, its just when people start trying to make her sound like some tart or sommit, which again is not the point of this topic!
Fri 20/06/03 at 21:24
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Ok, what the hell is with you people. People come on here, me included, to tell others their issues and to get things off their chest. Why should they take your comnts. If you have notihing constructive to post, the please do not show youerselves up and just don't post anything.

I am sorry, but there are some people on here I have known through out all my time on here, and I have never seen such a disgraceful attack on people's emotions.

These are people's lives, you cannot just scrape them off the plate into the bin!
Fri 20/06/03 at 21:23
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"aka memo aaka gayby"
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Sorry. We posted at the same time.

I just mean she seems to be prying into your life a little too much.
Fri 20/06/03 at 21:22
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"aka memo aaka gayby"
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I don't trust your mum.
Fri 20/06/03 at 21:22
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"the burning sky"
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Dont go there, with my mum, this topic doesnt give you the right to slate them, i just wanted some support or advice....
Fri 20/06/03 at 21:19
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"Subliminal messenge"
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> The other day, my mum asked for my MSN password, so she could look at
> all the people i have on my addy list...

Ouch, I bet the answer was along the lines of "NO, GET THE HELL OUT OF MY LIFE YOU NOSEY OLD BAG!" Or at least that's what I would have said.
Fri 20/06/03 at 21:17
"Uzi Lover"
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Somethings going on with your Mum and your friend.
Fri 20/06/03 at 21:15
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"Not a Jew"
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Talk about nosy.
Fri 20/06/03 at 21:14
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"the burning sky"
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Skorp1on wrote:
> I also hate it when they come in and try and look at what i'm writing
> on the forum, it's personal, even though 10million people could l;og
> on and read it. lol

The other day, my mum asked for my MSN password, so she could look at all the people i have on my addy list...
Fri 20/06/03 at 21:07
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"Subliminal messenge"
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I also hate it when they come in and try and look at what i'm writing on the forum, it's personal, even though 10million people could l;og on and read it. lol

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