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"Help with stupid teenage problem"

Wrong forum probably

Anyway, I do apoligize but I think I need some replies or something.

I was out at friends house the other night, had fun and got drunk. However, at some course during the night I ended up kissing and stuff with an old girlfriend who incidently had only recently started going out with someone else.

Oh god this sounds like some crap American high school thing.

Now it seems she had split up with him which had made me feel extremely guilty and awful because well I'm a nice guy and thought he was alright. Now since then I've not actually talked to her, mainly because I've lost her number and have been working. We went out a while ago and I did really like her but it was a love/hate relationship and one day I had enough and split up with her.

It was probably the right decision but recently as we've been going out I've been starting to like her again but don't in a way. I think if we did I'd need to kind of be honest about everything. I really hate the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing where you seem to need to know everytime you go out or where you are, what time etc. Just a kind of open and fun relationship because we'd probably end up in a fight. As last time I don't think I spoke to her for months.

I really don't know, I'm sorry for posting this but my friends keep asking me about it and I'm not sure.

Thanks gerrid

I'm sure as soon as you see her or speak to her again, you'll realise how much you dislike her, and just leave her alone forever.

I wouldn't worry about it at all pal, girls are often more trouble than they're worth. If you like her a lot then get back with her, but if it was just a drunken mistake then move on and find another gal.

Go out, get drunk, hook up with some other girl. Always a good idea.

I split up with my one of my (now ex) girlfriends about 4 months ago, but next week we're going on a date again. After we broke up we were at a house party end ended up doing 'stuff' together, but we talked about it and decided it was just a drunken thing, even though we probably still had feelings for each other.

I would recommend talking to her about it and seeing if it meant anything to her or not and then think carefully about if you want to give it another go with her (i.e. in a relationship) or not. But most importantly, does she put out?

Why are English_Bloke and SHEEPY up so early. 1 am. Tut tut its past your bedtime.(Said sarcasticly)

English_BLoke has given good advice...

but at the time it was hilarious.

Or, don't ask her out properly, just invite her places occasionally and stuff.

No need to put a label on everything, and it sounds like you're not after anything that usually has a label...

Is she wants you, I suppose she would be alright with some things you laid down (including herself).

Be open, as you said, but if shes not ok with that... then... y'know...

Love you.

Ha

Yeah, I'm not gonna say "heh you really pi.sed me off last time... wanna go out? "