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Everytime I look at her there's this wierd feeling inside. She stands out in front of all the rest. She's so beautiful.
But yet I can't have her. If you read my post 'I wish...' then you would know why. reputation.
I can' stand it. I will never have her. That is really IRROTATING. I keep staring at her,dreaming. I talk to her on msn, and she hardly knows who I am.
Man.....
> The Rival, do you go to Hampton School?
er-no
> She said Boyfriends.
Dammit! :^)
And Rival, I want a report in the forum some time in the next 2 weeks telling us what happened :^)
> That's not strictly true, all the really nice guys already have
> boyfriends.
Lol.
Right, yes, yes they do.
Hmmm...
My understanding is that women aren't interested in the kind of guys you'd consider 'nice' until... 30s ish, when they want to 'settle down'.
And then I'm pretty sceptical that there's anything more to it than a combination of 'don't end up alone, take what you can get' and 'nice guy is easier option than other guy'.
It must have been so much easier for a nice guy to get a woman in the days when they were usually financially dependant on the husband. Maybe a nice guy could pick up a woman who'd given up on 'love' much younger. Now women are more than capable of financial independence, even despite averaging lower wages for doing the same work as men, there's far less reson for them to 'settle for' some nice guy who they aren't that interested in.
Of course, I'm very cynical :^)
On the original point:
Ask her out. Do it. Set yourself a time limit, no more than 2 weeks from now, and do it. Ideally in person, if you won't get the chance 2nd choice is phone, third is MSN I suppose.
If you ask and she knocks you back, where will you be? Single.
If you don't ask, where will you be? Single.
At least if you know you'll be free to move on and find someone else (and I guarantee that you will). And if you leave it longer than just giving her a chance to get to know you a bit, you run the risk of being sucked into the black hole of 'friendship'.
And of course, there's always the chance she'll say Yes.
If she doesn't, you move on. There are pleanty of pretty girls out there for you to drool over, and the experience of having asked this girl out will make it easier to do next time.
And just remember: However important you may think this girl is now, she really isn't. There are loads of others out there who can offer you just as much as she can. Sure, you like her, but you're going to like pleanty of girls in your life.
And good luck with it :^)