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When does flirting turn into cheating?
If, like me, you’re in a relationship in which both partners occasionally move within different circles of friends, the way I see it there is bound to be a certain amount of flirting that goes on. I think that is part human nature, that its healthy and that it should be encouraged. However, where do you draw the line?
I have friends that believe whole-heartedly that if you don’t get caught it doesn’t count as cheating. On the other hand some people have more stringent views on what constitutes as cheating.
To say I’ve given this a lot of thought would not be entirely accurate, but I did come up with a simple rule that makes the grey area a little less grey. So long a no part of you goes into any part of another person, or vice versa, then it’s not cheating.
That means that close friends can share a kiss on the cheek, or the lips and still be in the white. If however as part of that kiss a tongue (or anything else) finds its way into someone else’s oral cavity that’d be cheating.
Obviously there are other examples I could give, but this is a nice, family forum, so try and keep it as clean as possible whilst you pick apart my post ;)
P.S. Ros, if you get me in trouble I’ll come round your house, take Britney hostage and put an axe through your gamecube.
If, like me, you’re in a relationship in which both partners occasionally move within different circles of friends, the way I see it there is bound to be a certain amount of flirting that goes on. I think that is part human nature, that its healthy and that it should be encouraged. However, where do you draw the line?
I have friends that believe whole-heartedly that if you don’t get caught it doesn’t count as cheating. On the other hand some people have more stringent views on what constitutes as cheating.
To say I’ve given this a lot of thought would not be entirely accurate, but I did come up with a simple rule that makes the grey area a little less grey. So long a no part of you goes into any part of another person, or vice versa, then it’s not cheating.
That means that close friends can share a kiss on the cheek, or the lips and still be in the white. If however as part of that kiss a tongue (or anything else) finds its way into someone else’s oral cavity that’d be cheating.
Obviously there are other examples I could give, but this is a nice, family forum, so try and keep it as clean as possible whilst you pick apart my post ;)
P.S. Ros, if you get me in trouble I’ll come round your house, take Britney hostage and put an axe through your gamecube.
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Rosalind wrote:
> Simon Says wrote:
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> what about with another Ogre?
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> There is only one Ogre. Thats why he is called THE Ogre
but that would mean that there is only one misses when I say the misses and I'm going to stop typing now before I get myself into a whole lot of trouble. ; )
> Simon Says wrote:
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> what about with another Ogre?
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> There is only one Ogre. Thats why he is called THE Ogre
but that would mean that there is only one misses when I say the misses and I'm going to stop typing now before I get myself into a whole lot of trouble. ; )
Simon Says wrote:
> what about with another Ogre?
There is only one Ogre. Thats why he is called THE Ogre
> what about with another Ogre?
There is only one Ogre. Thats why he is called THE Ogre
"I did not have sexual relations with that woman"
"Well, maybe I did, but it was aaaall goooood"
"Well, maybe I did, but it was aaaall goooood"
It's only cheating if you have full, penetrative, vaginal sex.
That's my definition, and I'm sticking to it! And yes, I'm in full support of the Bill Clinton approach to cheating...
That's my definition, and I'm sticking to it! And yes, I'm in full support of the Bill Clinton approach to cheating...
Rosalind wrote:
> maybe
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> The Ogre wouldn't consider *Anything* with another girl to be
> cheating. I know cause we have talked about this one.
bonus :)
what about with another Ogre?
> maybe
>
> The Ogre wouldn't consider *Anything* with another girl to be
> cheating. I know cause we have talked about this one.
bonus :)
what about with another Ogre?
That's the typical bloke perspective.
It's not cheating with another girl, so long as you have a camcorder in the room...
It's not cheating with another girl, so long as you have a camcorder in the room...
maybe
The Ogre wouldn't consider *Anything* with another girl to be cheating. I know cause we have talked about this one.
The Ogre wouldn't consider *Anything* with another girl to be cheating. I know cause we have talked about this one.
If you know someone well enough, you should know what they would consider as wrong, on your part, and be perfectly able to avoid doing it.
Rosalind wrote:
> I like that definitiion.
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> I recon I could get away with *alot*
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> :D
more than "So long a no part of you goes into any part of another person, or vice versa, then it’s not cheating." ?
> I like that definitiion.
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> I recon I could get away with *alot*
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> :D
more than "So long a no part of you goes into any part of another person, or vice versa, then it’s not cheating." ?
Insane Bartender wrote:
> I'd put "cheating" like this:
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> Whatever your partner (the one you are potentially cheating on) would
> consider as cheating, is by default, cheating.
I kind of agree but that is speculative. Each case is individual. I know I'm trying to categorise something that you can't really categorise, but it still makes for a lot of fun.
> I'd put "cheating" like this:
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> Whatever your partner (the one you are potentially cheating on) would
> consider as cheating, is by default, cheating.
I kind of agree but that is speculative. Each case is individual. I know I'm trying to categorise something that you can't really categorise, but it still makes for a lot of fun.
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