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"Bullying....... please read victims and bullies."

I know how upsetting this subject is to some people because I have been In the past and quite recently by many people.

It's horrible, you sometimes feel like killing yourself but your not stupid enough to do this. They are normally embarrased about themselves or have been bullied them selves and need to take their anger out on someone. They probably have grown up with bullying and that's how they've learnt to make a living. It's sad I know but it can wreck your lives and It makes you feel all cut up inside and your imperfect and there is something wrong with you and nobody will like you for that reason.

I know I'm going on a bit but If you've been through what I've been through It's like a living hell. You can't get it out of your mind, your in constant fear of them in case they do it again. You try to keep away from them but they seem to just be everywhere.

They think they're so big and it makes them feel cool that they've hurt the feelings of another human being. They wouldn't like it if they were going through the same thing as you. They keep doing it because they feel they have power over you and you being scared of them will make them think they have. Stand tall and don't take any of their c**p but don't try and hurt them or call them names becaue that means your sinking to their level and that's what they are like.

Only thick people bully and just because they're big or they treaten you don't listen as the saying goes, Sticks and stones may break your bones but words will never hurt you. Just remeber this and believe in yourself. There's nothing wrong in you it's them they are imperfect they have something wrong with them. They're just looking for something bad about you so they just hurt you to bring down your confidence and that makes them feel powerful.


Remeber if you are a victim of bullying them tell a trusted adult or teacher, I know it sounds corny but it works. Just trust me. Listen to someone who knows about this.

And again remeber don't sink to their level It's just doing what they're doing to you.


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when i started in year 9 @ my new school i didnt know any one but i met a few lads (LOngy on here was one) and they have been my mates ever since and because i know all the hard people no one dares to try it on with you because a) you will kick the c**p out of them and b) no one will like them
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Even if you do hang around with the "Tough" people that doesn't do anygood because the bullies single you out when their not around. And if you tell you friends about it then they'll go and beat them up and that will get them in trouble, I mean you don't want to get a true friend in trouble.

I've tried to fight back but I'm too weak they allways overpower me and hurts me even more. The people who have bullied me have benn 4 years older than me and I'm just getting fed up with it.

It does help to tell a teacher, It works better for me because my Dad is a teacher. But I haven't got much going for me, I'm fat, My Dad's a teacher and when ever he tells off a pupil I get it in the neck from them. I'm also smart.

That is another thing I don't get I'm not bragging but I'm pretty smart but the bullies see that as a reason to get at me. All the people who have bullied me have or are going to Social Inclusion groups or remedial classes, so really they shouldn't be cheeking me on this matter. They can't really speak. And don't the bullies seem to allways play alot of sport. I think it must be sommat about them banging their heads so much that theyv'e lost that many brain cells. Sorry that was a bit mean but this is all coming from my heart and I'm writing this so nobody else with be hurt the same way I was. Just follow the advice given and plaese stay away from these no brained idiots who think it's cool to butcher someones heart. (Not literally) Maybe a little fighting back would help it has for other people but not me. I will use this advice for the next time I'm bullied and It will. Believe me. Thanx, See ya!

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Maybe it is sinkin down to their level if we use violence, but so what! Unlike them we have the intelligence to pull ourselves back up. People like us don't just keep bullying the bully.
I was bullied in my first year at Secondary school. It really hurt inside at times so I took judo lessons learning how to counter attacks and inflict pain on them. IT WORKED BIG TIME!

But don't ever kill anyone, remember they are only kids too, and I really don't beleive any kid is that bad that they should die because.

What you wanna do is just quite the school, goto the rival school, make friends with the hardnut there .... ;o) Get my drift??

Telling on them does sod all these days, as if the bully doesn't mind kicking the crap out of you, whats a few words from the teacher gonna do, the won't care about being in detention, they are used to it, and as for being expelled, they won't care either. Teachers are powerless nowadays thanx to some dumba*s laws. I personally recon teachers should be allowed to whack you one if you a bully, or just a a**hole.

Truth is, you have to to get something done quickly, before the bully gets into you as being a daily thing, the first time they try and bully you, don't respond, or just walk away, heading in the dirrection of either the kids you'd think would help you out, or to where a teacher maybe.

We had a bully or two in our School (like everywhere) and he started to pick on this kid, who liked to keep himself to himself, well one day the fatass bully was pushing him around and what looked like was gonna hit the poor kid with his own football boots. I'm not tuff or anything, but I can look after myself, and so stepped in, and of course, the bully tried it on with me ... but then one of my mates backed me up .... and then another .... you get the idea, and he evetually backed off, and after a few warnings, he stopped picking on the kid, who ended up becomeing a pretty good mate of mine.

Maybe a pointless story for you to read, but it shows that not everyone will ignore things, and that bullies don't always have it their way....

... I guess what I'm trying to say is don't just bottle it up and take it day after day after day. You've go to do something about it yourself, as you can't just rely on the teacher to pick it up, tell a mate, a brother, someone who you think would do a lot more help than a Mum or teacher. I'm afraied the only language bullies understand is their own, no-matter who tells you differently, bullies are bullies, a**Holes, whatever you wanna call them, the only way to sort them out is with a little fightback .... thought probably from someone other than yourself...

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I totally agree with venom byte. I have had alot of 'experience' in this matter, and the preached method of telling teacher will get the crap kicked out of you. Sorry but it is true. Unless u are goku (from dbz) hitting a bully will also get u pounded, as even if u land a good blw, they got backup. All wussy fighters do.

Bullies are caulliflower'heads. Simple. They think they are 'cool' but when school is over, and they have no grades, they will be serving us (the obvious doctors/teachers of tomorrow) in mcdonalds. What goes around comes around.

I avoided the whole 'bully' scene. (Went to a roman catholic primary school, followed by a rather christian selective seconday grammar school).

No, everybody there was not 'nice', but bullies pick on individuals, not groups. Best way to avoid anything is to be in a group.

I was builled in primary school and in year7 of secondary school and you know what I did?

I smashed the persons face in.

Sorted it.

Violence never solves anything? Well, it just did about 3 years ago :o)