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I've just found out something I really didn't want to. Just a minute ago I was downstairs by myself watching All New Cosmetic Surgery while my parents were sleeping, then my dad's mobile rang and I ignored it, then it made a beeping sound because the person phoning had just left a voice mail message.

So I got up to see who was ringing because it is quite late and people don't normally phone at this time, I listened to the voice mail message and it was a lady saying something like "Im fed up with this, you said Sandra and you were finished and you lied, it's over blah blah blah".

(Something like that, im not gonna type the whole thing)

Anyway, this woman was NOT my mum, I know that for sure. And it's not like my dad has someone elses phone, it's his, hes had it for ages.

Now, if a lady leaves a voice mail on my dad's phone, speaks as if their having a relationship and that woman isn't my mum, shouldn't I be worried?

I remember something similar to this happening quite a while ago when I was quite young, I was just browsing around on my dad's phone and found a text message from some woman who had obviously been having a relationship with him, but I didn't do anything, cause I was young...and scared that my parents would split up or something.

But now, it's the second time and I don't think im gonna easily forgive and forget. Im still quite shocked that my dad could do this but im also pretty p*ssed off because my mum does so much for us and my dad, and to think that while my mum washes our clothes, irons etc etc my dad is out there somewhere getting it off with some other biatch.

There is no way I can just let this past me, and im terrible at keeping secrets so i've got to let this out someway. So, I want to know what you think I should do? I knwo the woman on the phone said "it's over" but that isn't the point, who is this 'Sandra' biatch? I'd be really p*ssed off if I find out my dad had more than one person he's cheating on.

Should I tell my mum, get her all upset and risk my parents splitting up? Or should I keep quiet and live my life knowing my dad is bonking some other woman behind my mum's back?

Personally I don't think my mum deserves that, but if I do tell her I don't want my dad to know it was me who found out, I'll have to get my mum to listen to it on his mobile and pretend she was the first to hear it.

Has anyone else been in this situation before, and whats it like when your parents split up?

Help? :'(

Could it not have just been a wrong number, some woman thinking she was calling her boyfriend but getting the wrong number?

Obviously(sp?) i could be wrong because the whole message isn't posted so can't tell if she refered to your dad by name or not, and as you mums name isn't sandra it is totally plausable(sp?) that she didn't mean to call him.

Stridman wrote:
> Just a minute ago I was downstairs by myself watching All New Cosmetic Surgery while my parents were sleeping

Dirty boy

> it was a lady saying something like "Im fed up
> with this, you said Sandra and you were finished and you lied, it's
> over blah blah blah".

Ok is your mums name Sandra?
The over part might be a good thing that you've overlooked, or it could be she's pushing your dad to make a choice.

> Now, if a lady leaves a voice mail on my dad's phone, speaks as if
> their having a relationship and that woman isn't my mum, shouldn't I
> be worried?

Yes unless you think of the benefits, more presents at christmas and stuff.

> I remember something similar to this happening quite a while ago when
> I was quite young, I was just browsing around on my dad's phone and
> found a text message from some woman who had obviously been having a
> relationship with him.

Your dad is an idiot, he's been caught accidentally twice, lord knows what you would find out if you actually went looking for anything.

> But now, it's the second time and I don't think im gonna easily
> forgive and forget. Im still quite shocked that my dad could do this
> but im also pretty p*ssed off because my mum does so much for us and
> my dad, and to think that while my mum washes our clothes, irons etc
> etc my dad is out there somewhere getting it off with some other
> biatch.

Aye
Your dad = Git

> There is no way I can just let this past me, and im terrible at
> keeping secrets so i've got to let this out someway. So, I want to
> know what you think I should do? I knwo the woman on the phone said
> "it's over" but that isn't the point, who is this 'Sandra'
> biatch? I'd be really p*ssed off if I find out my dad had more than
> one person he's cheating on.

Ah so Sandra is not your mum, ok that changes things, might be a wrong number but i'd write it down, Then i'd talk to dad.

> Should I tell my mum, get her all upset and risk my parents splitting
> up?

Nope, let someone else do that.

> Personally I don't think my mum deserves that, but if I do tell her I
> don't want my dad to know it was me who found out, I'll have to get my
> mum to listen to it on his mobile and pretend she was the first to
> hear it.

Talk to your dad first, see if he's got an explanation, also check to see if he's had more calls from this woman, that should deal with the wrongnumber thing. If you want to be evil, keep the number and start texting her impersonating your dad.

> And whats it like when your parents split up?

It's a b@#ch

Ms NY wrote:
> Is your dad cute? Hokay.. yeah, weird from a son's point of view but
> still.. Is he?!

I'm guessing yes, if he has at least two other women on the go, either that or he has a *really* good sense of humour :S

> Stridman wrote:
> but im gonna tell my mum, and tell her not to confront my dad yet
>
> You think she'll listen to you when you tell her that?

Aye, use the phone message as proof.

Is your dad cute? Hokay.. yeah, weird from a son's point of view but still.. Is he?!

Stridman wrote:
> but im gonna tell my mum, and tell her not to confront my dad yet

You think she'll listen to you when you tell her that?

Stridman wrote:
> > Thanks for your help

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You're welcome. I'm a font.

Heard it again and the woman is called 'Elaine', I also heard her saying "stop sleeping with Sandra". Basically, from what I can understand this 'Elaine' wants my dad to stop sleeping with 'Sandra' otherwise it is over.

Im pretty sure my dad is seeing two other women I dont know
now, and thats pretty upsetting and I dont want to think about it anymore until the morning, im going out with my mate tommorow, need sleep.

Thanks for your help but im gonna tell my mum, and tell her not to confront my dad yet, i'll tell her exactly what i've told you lot.

Dawson would've found some way to conceal that he'd listened. Once he'd been angsty for a good few hours.

Stridman wrote:
> I might go downstairs and have another listen, just to make sure I
> didn't get it wrong or anything.

Yeh.. probably best before you do tell your Mum..

Stridman wrote:
> If i've listened to a voice mail, won't he know anyway?

When you receive one, it'll say on the phone. When you've listened to it and not deleted it, it'll still stay there on the top of the screen with that symbol. Unless you delete it, he won't know until he speaks to her next. Then he'll know someone's listened..

monkey_man wrote:
> Just watch the Hollyoaks Omnibus on Sunday, everyone has affairs in
> that.

But that has fit people in it, my family doesn't (except me).