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Sun 21/11/04 at 13:35
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So I'm quitting University after 3 years of a 4 year course, and I don't regret it. I think 'quitting' is the wrong word there, because I've actually been offered a very good job doing design work: maybe 'shelving' would have been better.

So I'm shelving University after 3 years of a 4 year course, and I don't regret starting this new sentence. Towards the end of the second year I was growing increasingly frustrated at the boring, tedious, monotonous workload. I really wasn't enjoying it. Then I started doing some part-time web design work for a company run by a mate (ironically, I met him through another mate at Uni), and it turns out that this company is well established, has a long list of loyal clients, and they desperately need an in-house designer. Cue me desperately trying to get out of Uni.

I gradually found myself sticking to the design work deadlines (albeit loosely), and letting my Uni work slip, until eventually I just stopped caring about Uni because I was having such a good time with the design work. And afterall, why was I studying - to get a decent job? I was being handed a decent job on a golden platter, with the added incentives of being my own boss, working from home, wearing what I wanted, snacking when I wanted, necking when I wanted... I can always go back to the degree later. I've seen people join courses in the second or third years because of their previous experiences, so I can do the same.

So rather than let the opportunity pass for the sake of my education, I've decided (after a good few months of thought, this is no gut reaction) to go for it. It's such a good chance to establish myself with a company that seems to be on the grow. I know the land of web design is a fickle, short-lived place, but they do other things too which ensures my stability (mentally and fiscally), which is why their web department is the last to grow, but is going to become one of their main sources of income. And I'm bringing with me a fountain of ideas that has impressed them already.

I wasn't even failing at Uni. I had a bad semester about a year ago, and agreed to add another semester after I was meant to have finished the course (this would have meant 4 and a half years total at Uni), but last semester I got a few A's and B's, and was well on my way to getting at least a 2:1. So I can't be accused of quitting because I was failing - the exact opposite, I was doing really well! I just need a new challenge, something more positive and satisfying.

I think it partly stems from my attention span - I get bored of things quickly. But this suits design work well. All the results are immediate, and you can change stuff whenever you feel like it. With Uni it was taking months to get anywhere, then if you stuffed it, that was it, no more chances (after any retakes, etc). I don't even play computer games anymore, except with my mates, because I haven't got the attention span. But it's not like I could never go back, which is why I feel I can leave Uni without regret, because I'll be back there to finish the course one day.

After reading that back, it makes me sound like I'm writing as a means to get permission. Hahahahaha, as if I'd ever listen to any of you lot! I've thought this through properly, with my mind, and sometimes by counting fingers, and I don't see a downside. What's a degree worth now anyway? Hardly any graduates waltz into jobs, and when they do they find themselves working with people that have worked their way up, regardless of their education. The only downside is the debt. I've accumulated £11,000 worth of loans that need to be paid back to the SLC. I've still got to arrange all the paperwork for leaving. It may turn out that I can just suspend the whole process for a few years. I doubt it, but at the end of the day (God, I hate that phrase), I shouldn't even notice the payments going out each month. My loan hasn't even come this year yet, so I might be able to wangle it so that I get the loan, but leave the course, and can use the money as a buffer until I start earning proper.

And there you go. A long post featuring feelings and sentiments, and I'm not suicidal, in love, a gay, or a goth/mime. My thoughts are clear, and my boxers are clean, and this is probably the biggest decision I've ever made with my adult brain. I just hope my Mummy doesn't mind making me a packed lunch everyday.
Sun 21/11/04 at 17:41
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Nice one. I know what you mean about getting bored with it all, you just want to try do something you like but there are too many other things holding you back. Nice to hear things have fallen into place for you.

Good luck and all that, your websites are amazing though, so I shouldn't think you'll need it. :-D
Sun 21/11/04 at 17:34
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Ineedsleep wrote:
> Good for you and congrats. It's nice to land on your feet once in a
> while and this sounds like an opportunity you would be insane to let
> slip past you. Uni will always be there, this opportunity would not.

Exactamundo, Sleepy. I thought about it for ages and ages, and this was the only conclusion I could come to. It's only money I'd be losing in the long run, and I can quite happily live with that.
Sun 21/11/04 at 15:16
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go for it :-)
Sun 21/11/04 at 15:07
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Im not going to judge if what you did was right or wrong, its not what I would do but Im in a different situation. It looks like you've put a lot of thought into this and you're not just leaping into the dark which is great. I look forward to hearing how its going.
Sun 21/11/04 at 14:42
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Good for you and congrats. It's nice to land on your feet once in a while and this sounds like an opportunity you would be insane to let slip past you. Uni will always be there, this opportunity would not.
Sun 21/11/04 at 14:23
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Fair point.

If you're happy, then it's all good really.

Pretty good that you managed to get a decent job during your time there!

(What did your parents say?)
Sun 21/11/04 at 14:22
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What was? The hot chicks?
Sun 21/11/04 at 14:20
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I ain't no suger daddy, foo'!

I'm getting a regular wage, plus money from the design jobs as a bonus on top of that. But I'm not going to say how much, because that wasn't my motivation behind doing it.
Sun 21/11/04 at 14:18
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Straight to the point. Still looking for your sugar daddy?
Sun 21/11/04 at 14:12
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Nice.

How much does the new job pay you?

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