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Sun 21/11/04 at 13:35
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So I'm quitting University after 3 years of a 4 year course, and I don't regret it. I think 'quitting' is the wrong word there, because I've actually been offered a very good job doing design work: maybe 'shelving' would have been better.

So I'm shelving University after 3 years of a 4 year course, and I don't regret starting this new sentence. Towards the end of the second year I was growing increasingly frustrated at the boring, tedious, monotonous workload. I really wasn't enjoying it. Then I started doing some part-time web design work for a company run by a mate (ironically, I met him through another mate at Uni), and it turns out that this company is well established, has a long list of loyal clients, and they desperately need an in-house designer. Cue me desperately trying to get out of Uni.

I gradually found myself sticking to the design work deadlines (albeit loosely), and letting my Uni work slip, until eventually I just stopped caring about Uni because I was having such a good time with the design work. And afterall, why was I studying - to get a decent job? I was being handed a decent job on a golden platter, with the added incentives of being my own boss, working from home, wearing what I wanted, snacking when I wanted, necking when I wanted... I can always go back to the degree later. I've seen people join courses in the second or third years because of their previous experiences, so I can do the same.

So rather than let the opportunity pass for the sake of my education, I've decided (after a good few months of thought, this is no gut reaction) to go for it. It's such a good chance to establish myself with a company that seems to be on the grow. I know the land of web design is a fickle, short-lived place, but they do other things too which ensures my stability (mentally and fiscally), which is why their web department is the last to grow, but is going to become one of their main sources of income. And I'm bringing with me a fountain of ideas that has impressed them already.

I wasn't even failing at Uni. I had a bad semester about a year ago, and agreed to add another semester after I was meant to have finished the course (this would have meant 4 and a half years total at Uni), but last semester I got a few A's and B's, and was well on my way to getting at least a 2:1. So I can't be accused of quitting because I was failing - the exact opposite, I was doing really well! I just need a new challenge, something more positive and satisfying.

I think it partly stems from my attention span - I get bored of things quickly. But this suits design work well. All the results are immediate, and you can change stuff whenever you feel like it. With Uni it was taking months to get anywhere, then if you stuffed it, that was it, no more chances (after any retakes, etc). I don't even play computer games anymore, except with my mates, because I haven't got the attention span. But it's not like I could never go back, which is why I feel I can leave Uni without regret, because I'll be back there to finish the course one day.

After reading that back, it makes me sound like I'm writing as a means to get permission. Hahahahaha, as if I'd ever listen to any of you lot! I've thought this through properly, with my mind, and sometimes by counting fingers, and I don't see a downside. What's a degree worth now anyway? Hardly any graduates waltz into jobs, and when they do they find themselves working with people that have worked their way up, regardless of their education. The only downside is the debt. I've accumulated £11,000 worth of loans that need to be paid back to the SLC. I've still got to arrange all the paperwork for leaving. It may turn out that I can just suspend the whole process for a few years. I doubt it, but at the end of the day (God, I hate that phrase), I shouldn't even notice the payments going out each month. My loan hasn't even come this year yet, so I might be able to wangle it so that I get the loan, but leave the course, and can use the money as a buffer until I start earning proper.

And there you go. A long post featuring feelings and sentiments, and I'm not suicidal, in love, a gay, or a goth/mime. My thoughts are clear, and my boxers are clean, and this is probably the biggest decision I've ever made with my adult brain. I just hope my Mummy doesn't mind making me a packed lunch everyday.
Sun 21/11/04 at 18:18
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Well it was a 50/50 shot, and you got it wrong.
Sun 21/11/04 at 18:16
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monkey_man wrote:
> What are you after? I'm not gay, y'know...

Damn... :(

*derects*
Sun 21/11/04 at 18:14
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Yes. I am the best, isn't I.
Sun 21/11/04 at 18:07
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I'm doing a BA (HONS) History w/ Business Economics.... and I dont have a clue what I want to do later on in life....
Sun 21/11/04 at 18:05
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Sweet.

Plus, you already have most of your credits. In a few years if you decide to leave the job you could always finish the degree. At the end of the day, the degree is to find you a job, not just to have as a badge that says "I knocked... stuff out of my liver for four years".

If you haven't been enjoying things lately then it is probably the right thing to do. And of course, you get to move out, get broadband and Live etc.
Sun 21/11/04 at 17:58
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Sounds like the right choice, and at least you had the balls to make it despite any discouragements.

Go monkey_man! etc.
Sun 21/11/04 at 17:50
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Whitestripes X wrote:
> What was the course?

BSc (Hons) Audio and Music Technology

It was an alright course. Uni wasn't great, and one of my lecturers got the sack recently for dealing to students...

We actually had Paul White, editor of Sound On Sound magazine, come and tell us there were no jobs in the industry. That was a bit shattering for everyone. Not the reason I'm leaving though, I was going to do some cool things with the degree. This is just even cooler.
Sun 21/11/04 at 17:47
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gamesfreak wrote:
> (What did your parents say?)

My parents? Hahahahahahahahaha. I'm 23. I live with them at the moment because of Uni and stuff, but if all goes well I'll be able to move out in under 3-6 months. And get broadband. And pay Snuggly for his stereo. And buy a new amp. And learn to drive. And buy a plot on Mars.

My Dad is an ignorant monglord though, he wasn't very pleased. Doesn't like change.
Sun 21/11/04 at 17:45
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What was the course?
Sun 21/11/04 at 17:43
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What are you after? I'm not gay, y'know...

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